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This is short circuiting my brain. Help!

Suck my friend?

  • Of course. You're both sober and want it. Take that big dick!

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  • This is not a good idea. Don't do it.

    Votes: 3 13.0%

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My brain is seriously shorting out right now. Can not compute. Error. Abort, retry, fail? Invalid input, please try again.

I have this general rule. I will not allow alcohol consumption to result in messing around with straight friends. Even if the straight friend wants it. Because once sobering up, there will likely be regrets, or awkwardness, or something. Bad idea.

I have this friend, we'll call him Joe. We've been friends since we started working together about 12 years ago. We don't hang out much outside of work, and live a good distance away from one another. But we've been good friends. He knows I'm gay (told him a few months ago), and he's always been totally cool about it. Even jokes that I'm the lucky one since I don't have too deal with women. He's always had long-term girlfriends, has one now, they live together. Always straight as an arrow. I would never even think of anything otherwise, and never even thought about him any other way than as a friend.

Anyway. Joe and I had been texting back and fourth about life in general. Women, work, cars, etc. Somehow the topic of food came up. Which let to hot dogs. Which led to all kinds of comical sexual innuendo. The conversation started going in the direction of insinuating that he could help me with the problem (me not having any big hot dogs). Funny, but in a suspiciously serious manner. I'll skip the 200 messages and cut right to the chase. The end result here is that he's basically said he wants me to suck him. And he told me he's go 9 fucking inches, which I believe based on the bulge in his pants all the time.

The conversation was over the course of 3 evenings, and we're both stone cold sober. This is shorting out the section of my brains that was programmed only to handle these situations when alcohol is involved. Because that's the only time it should happen. WTF.

So I want to obviously. And he knows it. It's not like I was saying "no stop" while texting. But IDK WTF to make of this as far as being a good idea or bad idea. Even if I decided "no, I'm not going to do this", the train has left the station on us both wanting it.

FUCK.
 
If he offered sober and he trusts and knows you there should be no issue. You can ask him again in person and observe his facial reaction (which is most telling) and then decide again to decline or take the offer. Personally, I wouldn't let an opportunity as such pass like that. You will only regret it in 10-20 years time.

When I think about it, I've been with gay guys who would only want me to suck them when they were drunk as a skunk. It's a strange world out there...
 
I think straight guys can become really curious about gay sex when they become friend with a gay. I'm not going to tell you that you shouldn't do this if you both want it but you more than him must what could be the consequences of a sexual affaire with a straight guy especially when he's already a good friend. You should be honest with him and tell him what you feel about it.
 
Two things:

1. He does not sound completely straight and, based on your perspective of the situation, he is interested in you sexually.

2. He has a gf that he lives with. Both of you owe it to her to consider her.
 
Straight guys can be all talk. Just because he said that, doesn't 100% mean he MEANS it.

However... IF he does mean it, HE brought it up and asked for it. To me that means you're free and clear!
(other than his GF situation).
 
I say go for it. If he says he means it, see if he REALLY means it. He can always back out up until the actual act is taking place.
 
Maybe Joe has issues he is dealing with himself. Maybe he is in the closet. Now that he has gotten to know a gay guy he is wondering what all the commotion is all about.

The conversation took place over three days, 200 plus messaged, and you both were "stone cold sober." I would meet with him privately, face-to-face, and ask him if he is serious. If he said yes, then enjoy.
 
sixthson said:
Two things:

1. He does not sound completely straight and, based on your perspective of the situation, he is interested in you sexually.

2. He has a gf that he lives with. Both of you owe it to her to consider her.
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Agreed.

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First consider what it would do to your friendship. Would it make things weird between you guys afterward? Second, think about what would happen if his girlfriend found out. Yikes. Would it all be worth it?
 
iGoDownUnder said:
First consider what it would do to your friendship. Would it make things weird between you guys afterward? Second, think about what would happen if his girlfriend found out. Yikes. Would it all be worth it?
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I agree plus you should know that a lot of straight newly initiated in gay sex freak out afterwards and flee away from the one who initiated them 'cause they can't deal with the fact they've had sex with a guy. And how good friends you can be won't change anything. Well I can tell from experience.
 
He seems very excited about this. He keeps bringing it up, not me. That's the crazy thing... this wasn't even my idea!! We have plans to do some stuff today, and I think it might be happening for real. He even texted me to tell me he had morning wood needing relief!
 
If his next text is "and my girlfriend wants to watch. She says she doesn't have to get naked if that would turn you off but she definitely wants to watch" then you have a winner.
 
I'm in this situation right now. From my past experience just be willing to lose him as a friend at the end will it be worth it? Ask yourself that my dick is telling me yes it is worth it for my friend to have him but my brain says no you need him around as a friend. So it's a risk and chose wisely.
 
Well this is interesting. So for the horny ones, no I didn't suck him off. But we did have a discussion about things. As it turns out, he's a little less than straight and always has been. It's part of his life he hasn't acted on for a LONG time, and is happy with relationships exclusively with women I guess. I was a little speechless since it's usually me doing the coming out!

Again for the horny ones, next time, there will be some serious blowing!
 
Wow!! How exciting!!! Let us know how it goes! I see the beginnings of a beautiful friendship.
 
nhvtski2190 said:
Well this is interesting. So for the horny ones, no I didn't suck him off. But we did have a discussion about things. As it turns out, he's a little less than straight and always has been. It's part of his life he hasn't acted on for a LONG time, and is happy with relationships exclusively with women I guess. I was a little speechless since it's usually me doing the coming out!

Again for the horny ones, next time, there will be some serious blowing!
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So I guess you don't need our help anymore !!! :p Hope you both will enjoy !!! Keep us aware ;)
 
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