this is the weirdest thing ever...

[menRsexii]

okay so i had a grindr account at the beginning of the school year last year. i met a guy and we sorta had a fling. after xmas, for some reason, we kinda went our separate ways. i deleted my account soon after.... fast forward to now and im basically bored and want to talk with guys so i recreate an account.

after a couple days, i see a pic on grindr that looks a lot like the guy i had a fling with (it only showed part of his face and in this pic he has a mohawk...) i messaged him and his name was the same and all found out all his basic information was the same after we talked for a bit.

the weird thing is he doesnt even recognize me. i have my picture up and everything and he doesnt know who the hell i am. hes like a completely different person! wtf!?

 

[geloge]

Some people have bad memory.

 

[HunterM]

You were one of his many flings. He couldn't remember them all.

 

[menRsexii]

i just find it so interesting that he doesnt remember me haha. like i mean, we had a few dates and i even helped him move into his new apartment lol. i guess i just cannot fathom this because i basically remember everyone that has come into my life, even if for a minor part.

 

[medic1]

Perhaps you were just a lousy fuck and this is his way of dealing with it , without just telling it to you straight ?

 

[menRsexii]

^ wait a minute, what? so you say hes pretending he doesnt know me because i wasnt any good?

 

[geloge]

Maybe he hasn't recognize you in your picture. Tell him you weren't sure if he was the same person and tell him about you.

 

[pat grimshaw]

You say he looks different; do you look different?

I've met guys who are intelligent but have no visual memory; they see a movie but have no idea of who the actors are.

 

[csb999]

sounds like your picture does not look at all like he remembers you . If he has and had a Mohawk he is and possibly you are into fairly extreme appearance changes . Do you look totally like you did then ? and all other descriptions you could give are probably similar to anyone , not particularly unique or even uncommon . Just letting a Mohawk grow out would make you look very different .

 

[csb999]

likewise reading it over could be your mistake . One bad photo is not a lot to base a decision like that on .

 

[G-Lexington]

I once didn't recognize a woman who came by to see me at work. Yeah, she had a ski hat on, but I still should've recognized my sister, right?

Go easy on him. Remind him you're that guy he messed around with awhile ago, and see if he wants a second round.

Lex

 

[Legionair]

I picked up a guy at a club one Friday night, we shagged. The next Friday night I picked up another guy, shagged. I had no idea till later that it was the same guy both times. Memory is a bitch.

 

[Ekim23]

Lol .

 

[HunterM]

I once didn't recognize a woman who came by to see me at work. Yeah, she had a ski hat on, but I still should've recognized my sister, right?

I picked up a guy at a club one Friday night, we shagged. The next Friday night I picked up another guy, shagged. I had no idea till later that it was the same guy both times. Memory is a bitch.

If you picked me up, I'll give you something to remember me by.

 

[menRsexii]

Any of it is possible, but don't dwell on it.

If he's so promiscuous that he cannot even remember a friend who helped him move, then he's a piece of shit.

If he's dodging you by lying about remembering, then he is a cowardly piece of shit.

If he's a drug-addled, fog-brained guy who doesn't remember anyone, then it's just tragic.

In any event, you are better off taking something decent from it and forgetting the rest. You are above his level in any event.

Ignore the peanut gallery -- you don't deserve abuse for posting honesty in a forum like this.

You've come a long way since you started posting here. Good luck.

haha thanks for the advice

 

[menRsexii]

sounds like your picture does not look at all like he remembers you . If he has and had a Mohawk he is and possibly you are into fairly extreme appearance changes . Do you look totally like you did then ? and all other descriptions you could give are probably similar to anyone , not particularly unique or even uncommon . Just letting a Mohawk grow out would make you look very different .

You say he looks different; do you look different?

I've met guys who are intelligent but have no visual memory; they see a movie but have no idea of who the actors are.

i dont look any different than how i looked when we hung out. i have the same hair length and color. when we were doing stuff, he had short blond hair. i dunno why he all of a sudden decided to go with a mohawk haha omg

 

[menRsexii]

I once didn't recognize a woman who came by to see me at work. Yeah, she had a ski hat on, but I still should've recognized my sister, right?

Go easy on him. Remind him you're that guy he messed around with awhile ago, and see if he wants a second round.

Lex

yea no im not mad im just like fascinated by this because i couldnt imagine not remembering what someone looks like (well someone ive fooled around with and stuff). but i guess he has and it happens. its kinda funny, i suppose haha. but yea, im not interested in actually getting back with him. hes nice but he also kinda scares me... hes like super radical and leads a local occupy movement. i dunno. is that bad to be scared by that??

 

[Legionair]

If you picked me up, I'll give you something to remember me by.

Promises, promises.

You think I would have remembered something familiar about his body if not his face. I saw all of it...TWICE! I moved overseas after that. I told people I'd slept with so many people back home I started going round in circles...so I had to leave. Hello Ireland!

 

[genthree]

your brain is in a different place when sex is involved, I know that - now what were we talking about ?

 

[refujiunderground]

I picked up a guy at a club one Friday night, we shagged. The next Friday night I picked up another guy, shagged. I had no idea till later that it was the same guy both times. Memory is a bitch.