Im a single guy and am close friends with a couple. I haven't been friends with them for a long time, only about a year or so but we hang out alot. I basically have my own room in their house, and a tooth brush but thats all no clothes or anything. Well a few months ago we got kinda drunk and had a three way. It was hot i loved it and i think they did too. There was no awkwardness after and nothings really changed. Then it happened again this weekend. Twice. Now im worried this is gonna become a regular thing and get in the way of our friendship. Or for that matter in the way of their relationship! A few hot nights or a life time of good friends; there really is no question. Can these things happen and not F thing up or are we at the point of no turing back?
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G-Lexington
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If you're concerned it's gonna mess up your friendship, say "I'd rather not mess around with you guys anymore, because I'm concerned it's gonna mess up our friendship." Otherwise, tell them "Let me know next time you feel like fooling around."
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What to do...what to do....
If they are both into it and you're into it and there is no emotional attachment involved...........have fun.
If you think things are getting a little too intense, time to start looking for a bf maybe.
If they are both into it and you're into it and there is no emotional attachment involved...........have fun.
If you think things are getting a little too intense, time to start looking for a bf maybe.
hackingnomberr
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Lol, one of my friends gets into three ways all of the time.~
Are you sure it's not just sex though?
Are you sure it's not just sex though?
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Let's stop for a moment and be clear about something.
It didn't "just happen". Especially if it "just happened" three times.
You're an adult. You took your clothes (or at least, someone's clothes) off. You consented. Three times, you consented and willingly did a 3 way with your friends.
Three ways are fun. Kind of like a trip to Disneyland, a facial or a high colonic. But like Disneyland, it's a great place to visit but you're probably not going to want to live there.
Explore. Have fun. But understand that eventually you're going to have a problem with at least one of these friends that will ruin the friendship. And understand that as long as you have these entanglements, you're not going to be available to a guy who might be interested in something that just involves two.
In the meantime, if you're comfortable with it then continue being the "featured guest star" making periodic cameo appearances in your friend's bed. If you're not comfortable with it, then stop consenting and keep your clothes on.
It didn't "just happen". Especially if it "just happened" three times.
You're an adult. You took your clothes (or at least, someone's clothes) off. You consented. Three times, you consented and willingly did a 3 way with your friends.
Three ways are fun. Kind of like a trip to Disneyland, a facial or a high colonic. But like Disneyland, it's a great place to visit but you're probably not going to want to live there.
Explore. Have fun. But understand that eventually you're going to have a problem with at least one of these friends that will ruin the friendship. And understand that as long as you have these entanglements, you're not going to be available to a guy who might be interested in something that just involves two.
In the meantime, if you're comfortable with it then continue being the "featured guest star" making periodic cameo appearances in your friend's bed. If you're not comfortable with it, then stop consenting and keep your clothes on.
I like the sex. its really hot. I like my friends there alot of fun (even pre-manauge). logically it should add up on the positive side and right now no serious concerns but i dont see it ending on a good note.... says my brain. My heart is pretty silent on the issue... but speaking from past experiences emotions do come third... and no need to tell you my penis's take on the situation. ....all though all your advice isn't new to my opinions, its still nice to hear it from someone else. thanx!!
...for now i guess it'll be one day at a time...
...for now i guess it'll be one day at a time...
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No where is it written that it has to become a "thing", that could ruin the friendship(s), if no one is making a "thing" of it! If all is "Kewl", and Everyone is Happy, and just having a "Good Time", <<Laisez les bon temps rollez!>> (Did I get that right? My French sucks nearly as much as I do! 
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Been there ... done that. With two guys, a guy and a girl, two girls, multiple people ... hey! it was the late 60's, and early 70's! ... I was in my late teens and early 20's ... "Flower Power", "Free Love", and all that other Great "stuff" of those times.
Most of the time, everything worked out just fine. But ... when someone started a "thing", in their brain, it could turn really ugly, really fast!](/images/smilies/bang.gif "Brick wall ](*,)")
I'm voting to ENJOY it, for all it is worth, for as long as it lasts! However ... know full well that it's not going to last forever! Don't worry about it! Don't "Over Think" it! And be prepared to let it go when that time comes! (Which it will.)
It is quite possible You are currently building some of the Best memories of your entire Life! And, let's hope that is, indeed, the case!
Of course ... no matter what ...
Keep smilin'! (You LUCKY ... !)
Chaz ;-)
(Ran out of Smilies! *Tantrum*!)
) Been there ... done that. With two guys, a guy and a girl, two girls, multiple people ... hey! it was the late 60's, and early 70's! ... I was in my late teens and early 20's ... "Flower Power", "Free Love", and all that other Great "stuff" of those times.
Most of the time, everything worked out just fine. But ... when someone started a "thing", in their brain, it could turn really ugly, really fast!
I'm voting to ENJOY it, for all it is worth, for as long as it lasts! However ... know full well that it's not going to last forever! Don't worry about it! Don't "Over Think" it! And be prepared to let it go when that time comes! (Which it will.)
It is quite possible You are currently building some of the Best memories of your entire Life! And, let's hope that is, indeed, the case!
Of course ... no matter what ...
Keep smilin'! (You LUCKY ... !)
Chaz ;-)
(Ran out of Smilies! *Tantrum*!)