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Threesome could ruin relationship?

Elwood

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If you are not comfartable doing it then don't. To me it sounds like avery strange request, It almost seems like he is lending you out. Maybe it is in your wording but it seems icky to me.
 
If he's into it and you're into it, fine.

But the problem is that you're not into it. Then, as O2 said, it's definitely not fine.

Don't do it. If your bf pushes you, he's an asshole.
 
Silly Willie, don't do it if you don't feel comfortable with it, just say "no" your relationship will be fine :)
 
maybe he is doing it for money...
LOL i am kidding, i always expect the worse, thats just me

i personally dont like 3 somes, i only want to have sex with a person i love, and i would only want my bf to have sex with me and no one else.
 
I think you've answered your own question. YOu're not O.K. with it, ergo it shouldn't happen.

I'm a bit concerned why your boyfriend felt it O.K. to bring this up. Is this something you've discussed in the past, or was this "Pass the coffee... oh, by the way" ?
 
Tell him straight out that you are not interested, and that whenever you are interested that you and him will decide on the person. Don't let anyone make you do what you don't want to do.

I wish you the best of luck man.
 
he sounds like a perv and any 40 something talking to a 16 year old(you said you knew him for 2 years) is fucked up. run do not walk.
 
No, no, no, no, no, no, no! No! You're deluding yourself if you think you totally love each other. When you love someone they are a priority in your life, not someone you offer up like a whore or a used sex toy to a mate. This demonstrates a lack of respect for you at a very fundamental level. Learn to recognise when you are being used, and abused.
 
You think this guy is a perv, is a little rough and you're not comfortable with the size of his dick, and your bf wants you to just lie on the bed and let him do what he chooses???

That you are seriously considering letting someone do something to you, intimately no less!, that you're not comfortable with is a bad sign about your relationship.

The way you describe it, your bf has control over you in a way that is not healthy.

Not that you asked, but I would say no to your bf's mate and also say goodbye to the bf. What he's asking you to do is debase yourself. Why would you do that? Why would you want to be with a man who'd want you to do that?
 
We live and learn--too often the hard way. But don't give up on people because youv'e had a bad experience.

I don't like to give advice; but, for what ist's worth, it has been my observation that if you aim at friendship rather than sex you are more likely to be with a person whom you really like and who really likes you. When that bonding takes place the sex comes naturally and it can be mind blowing.

The sex that two people in love have is something that is so personal (and so private) that it isn't to be shared by a third party. I was brought up that way and I don't think I was misled.

And, yes, LOVINIT69, keep posting.

Peace!
 
Don't do it if you it doesn't feel right to you. In fact, you've already said that you don't want to. Now tell him that you don't. Maybe he doesn't understand just what petitioning you like this means, but it seems to me that he's asking you to let his buddy have a go at you, which doesn't seem right at all. You value the relationship the two of you have and you don't want to have sex or be solicited by anyone else.

So tell him that you don't feel comfortable doing it and that you don't want to and won't. If he cares anything for you at all, he won't get angry or depressed or mopey or hold a grudge and he'll respect your wishes.
 
Threesomes don't damage relationships.

It's fall in love, or feel more affection or atracction to the 'third one' than for your actual partner which wastes all the relationship.

i think a threesome suits best when there's no love involved at all.
 
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