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Threesomes?

Well, if you really feel strongly about it don't do it but you need realize that your boyfriend may really want to explore and play. I realize that this only one aspect of a relationship but in general if you both feel very strongly about having and not having a threesome then maybe you need find a boyfriends with similar interests.


Whatever you do play safe ;)

Good luck :)
 
You know, I've usually been pretty accepting towards this kind of thing, but lately I've been having doubts.

In the last two weeks, two couples I know who have been together for a long time broke up. One couple had a lot of jealously issues with their open relationship, while the other had unfulfilling hook-ups that only soured their relationship. Now I know it's unfair to blame threesomes as the culprit to their break-ups; however, I believe opening up your love life to friends and strangers changes the nature of your relationship... To say it "cheapens" the relationship may not be the best word choice, but it does change things between you and your boyfriend. And not for the better.
 
I've said it before and I'll say it again... There certainly seems to be a correlation between opening a relationship and its disintegration, but I've yet to see any real proof about which causes the other to happen. Lots of people seem to open their relationships once they start having trouble (i.e., getting a little bored of each other). The relationship may have been doomed already. In other cases, the jealousy becomes a problem or one or both partners just realize they'd rather find greener pastures after sampling freedom. It may even be a little bit of both in some cases.

Interestingly, I do know a couple who have been together forever (since 21, now in their mid 40s) and have an open relationship. Perhaps unusually, they've always had an open relationship. That the relationship has always been that way may make a big difference in how and why it works for them.
 
If you need a 3rd party to spice up a relationship or just looking for something "fun" than your bf is either unimaginative or he's looking elsewhere.
 
theFallenGod said:
If you need a 3rd party to spice up a relationship or just looking for something "fun" than your bf is either unimaginative or he's looking elsewhere.
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I wholeheartedly agree. Yes, a relationship will be a lot of work, but this is essentially agrees that is just opening up your already "endangered" relationship in even more trouble. I'm quite selfish when it comes to intimacy, so if my boyfriend wanted me to add a third wheel to the situation then it says to me that he's not as much into me as I am into him. Hence, a red flag of our situation.

Threesomes are fun when you are single, but not while in a relationship.
 
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