Threeway double standard: FFM vs. MMF?

[theplayerking]

If you look at ads involving a couple, the vast majority of them are looking for a bi female. You rarely see ones looking for a bi male (and it usually involved money).

I've hooked up with plenty of bi, married men one-on-one, but it's very hard to find a threeway.

Is this because men who are more than happy to bottom out with a buddy are terrified of having a woman see them do it?

Thoughts?

 

[CosbiGuy]

So , this is only my second post after being on here forever and my 1st on a sexual topic... Hi everyone...

1st remember that women experimenting sexually with each other is very acceptable among straights. And most straight men see themselves with 2 women as very macho.

My girlfriend and I have participated in a few MMF 3 ways. Or more acccurately MFM as the other guy is often a little paranoid about male to male touch. Although, usually they get into it more as time goes on. I think it is often about him not wanting us to see him as bi or gay. Although, I am always up front about both of us being interested in sucking his cock.

Over time as everyone relaxes more, the other guy is usually more interested in more mutual play. I think because he sees me and my girlfriend being very comfortable with it. He loses that idea that she will think him less manly.

So, um , yeah. A huge double-standard. Anyone suprised?

 

[TheTalkingAsshole]

My experience is that it is the women who are more likely to prefer a MFF threesome. I've not dated (or been married to) and woman who wanted a MMF threesome. So it's hard to say it's a double standard when it's the women who are calling the shots.

 

[justaguy1988]

To me is seems like women are socially and physically more comfortable being around each other and seem to be more inclined to want to try being with another girl. Straight or curious guys are so, well anal about what people will think of them being with another guy or just too nervous to try it. That being said I had sort of a MMF threesome. Basically the husband fucked me and the wife watched. For whatever reason she got off on seeing her husband fucking a guy in the ass.

 

[flemming]

FFM vs. MMF?

Hey, guys.

You're all probably right on. It's interesting that my experiences seem to buck the trend.

It was a fuck-buddy, an older woman, who first invited me to join in an MMF. She loved taking 2 at the same time and also enjoyed watching us boys service each other. One of my fondest memories was seeing her sit back and jerk-off while we M&M's exchanged head. She said at the time, "I love watching my lovers make love". I'm going to cum just thinking about it.

I've been married (to a woman) for some time since then. And she and I both agree that an MMF all-way would be much more fun for us than an FFM. We have sometimes gotten off on the same hot guy from an old Playgirl magazine. We look forward to making it real - but it has been easier said than done considering things like safety, a mutually desirable guy, and the guy's desire for an all-way.

 

[jaycee style]

And most straight men see themselves with 2 women as very macho.

false, it's interesting, and for those of us that have done it, we know it's overrated and takes too damn long.

the other guy is often a little paranoid about male to male touch

false, it's not paranoid, its more like nausiated, it's like touching a public toilette with your tounge


theres more blind stereotypes in the thread, but not worth the effort of mouse clicks.

i've been with 2 broads at the same time (asians) (and the other time one white, one black) and that shit was boring as hellfire, i'd rather just one so we can focus on each other, finish up and smoke a joint.

i've been in the room with one dude and one chick and it's just gross, i can't keep wood when there is a naked dude near me. at that time i'm not thinking......

"Oh no society won't accept me now"

I'm thinking. This naked dude has to go so i can finish up.

 

[jude swings]

If you look at ads involving a couple, the vast majority of them are looking for a bi female. You rarely see ones looking for a bi male (and it usually involved money).

I've hooked up with plenty of bi, married men one-on-one, but it's very hard to find a threeway.

Is this because men who are more than happy to bottom out with a buddy are terrified of having a woman see them do it?

Thoughts?

why you don't see mmf in real life is because there aren't that many girls who get off on seeing guys fucking each other. yeah she'll love being fucked by both guys but she doesn't want them touching each other unless they're gonna dp her.