Through the looking glass

[solare3]

Hey guys.Long story short I met this guy I like a lot,he's pretty much older than me.I don't have many sex experiences and I've never had sex with him.Couple a day ago we talk about sex and he said some things he would like me to do to him.Things like domination,spanking....etc
Thinking about it I fell very turned on but on the other hand I fell very dirty for even thinking about it.One second I say to my self go on enjoy and another second I say are you crazy.
I really don't know what to do.Any advice will be helpful especially from someone who has experience in this sorts of things. Thank you

 

[aaggii]

If spanking and domination are crazy to you, you have much much more to learn about really crazy sexual experiences If thinking about it turns you on, what stops you from doing it? My advice: do it, tell him it´s your first time doing this stuff (you won´t really know exactly what to do, so he might have to tell you ¨do this, do that¨). If it´s too gross, you can always stop. You might like it or not, you don´t know until you try it. Or you can start slowly, for your first time, do it as usual, then add step by step as you go in bed with him

 

[lambdaboy]

If your uncomfortable with a specific act do not do it find someone else!

 

[deathbylemons]

Let him know you've not done anything sexual before and do what you want to do sexually. If you find that it turns you on go for it. Many people have second thoughts about their first time, so it's alright.

 

[Seasoned]

He definitely knows what he wants from a younger guy. It sounds like you need to do some more thinking about what you want. Consenting adults determine what is right for them. You'll either get over self-judgement or you won't so it'll probably be best to do some thinking about how you'll feel afterwards. Best wishes.

 

[dereperez]

Everyone builds their own library of sexual experiences. If it turns you on, try it out. If you find that you don't like it, you can then put it on your "Do Not Do" List.

 

[dragon08]

Don't feel bad, sex isn't that much of a big deal in my opinion. You shouldn't feel ashamed for liking something and getting turned on by a specific act. Just try it out. If you feel too uncomfortable then just stop. If the other guy is a decent dude then he won't push you.