On Topic Discussion "Tits" as gender-neutral terminology to erotically refer to hot male pecs?

[Level27]

Hey,

In conjunction to an old thread of mine of a similar topic, https://www.justusboys.com/forum/thr...tish-offensive, I wanted to additionally discuss this topic. In this day and age, some gay/bi men who eroticize the pecs use sexual terminologies as "tits" and "(Muscular) breasts" as a substitute for pecs; including me. From my observation and understanding, it's become more common place and accepted to do this in the gay male adult entertainment world.

However, there are still many gay/bi men who not only don't do it, they actually get offended, even deeply offended, by it. Typically, their reason is that they still regard "tits" as exclusively referring sexually to female lactating breast; that using it to mean pecs is gender-demeaning to men.

What is your stance on this?

 

[LeicsDom]

Anything that smacks of 'gender neutrality' is a complete turn off for me

 

[DepravedMuscleFTL]

I think it is safe to say that we all - no - let me start again - I will say that I was of an era that men with excessive breast tissue "man tits" was the brunt of much scrutiny - it was a trait regarded as undesirable and feminine - I can remember boys in my childhood who had "man bobs" doing whatever they could to hide them - wearing shirts while swimming - etc...

It is also my experience that the only males that used the word "tits" concerning men were usually intoxicated gay men being kamp - I have NEVER heard a straight man refer to pecs as tits - it rings inflammatory to me personally - and now in a world where labels and gender identification have become so important to so many it just doesn't seem appropriate to call them tits to anyone who identifies as male

long live PECS

 

[Araucaria]

From my observation and experience around gay men, "nipples" is the word used when talking about eroticizing or stimulating that area.

Tits is almost exclusively used by straight men to eroticize the female breast, or as DepravedMuscle said, by gay men being camp. This is what most gay men understand tits to mean, and you will most likely get a lot of resistance and confusion if you use the word in the way which you've described. Though the younger next door boy called me "hairy tits" when I started growing hair around my nipple areas as a teen.

Boobs is usually just a synonym for tits. "He-boobies" is usually a reference to the sagging pectoral regions of older or out-of-shape guys, and generally looked at as unsexy.

For those who want to eroticize the muscular structure of in-shape men, pecs is the term usually used to refer to the pectorals, or chest to refer to that region generally.

Breast is a more general term which could have any of the meanings above, or perhaps it might be used as a metaphor for camaraderie in general. This word doesn't seem to be used as much, probably due to its non-specificity.

You may see bosom used as a synonym for breast in the sense of camaraderie, or in the sense of receiving nourishment, protection, and a favorable environment for growing up. This word seems to have become somewhat archaic.

 

[Peloso]

While we're on the subject, why are there no words to describe the distinction between the male and female anus? Exactly the same body part, same function, but different uses.

 

[unloadonme]

It's not a term I'd use in the context of the male chest, but it doesn't bother me one way or the other.

 

[jaysizzles]

"tits" doesn't bother me, and I'm also one that doesn't use the term with regards to a man's chest. I'm more bothered by "boy pussy" and "breeding" when used in reference to a man.

 

[rareboy]

I am indifferent.

But some men have pecs and some have tits.

 

[Level27]

So, it is my turn to voice my specific stance on this.

I don't use "muscular male tits", "male hairy tits", "muscular breast-steak tits packed full of meat, like ground beef stuffed into ziplog bags" as a campy way of referring to pecs. (Actually, on that limb, I'm quite the opposite of a camp person: people do describe me as a "down-to-Earth" person who seems to listen more than he talks.) I do it because straight men are allowed an erotic term to refer to just that region of the female body. Those gay/bi men who sexualize the male pectorals for the very same reason I feel should be allowed the same 'privilege' to invoke eroticism of of that very region of the muscular male body.

"Pecs" doesn't do that for me. "Pecs" is very non-sexually generic. "Pecs" is what I talk about in science class or in social circles, especially when describing (non-sexual) gym activities that would shape and build it. "Chest" is yet even more g-rated and less sexual to me: it reduces the pectoral muscles to nothing more than the mere region they're located; which is a bit of an insolence (for a lack of a slightly lesser-strong word) to me, since it's being made no different than those men who are flat chested (with nothing to offer the particular sexual festish) and those generously "un-flat" men who actually have something there to play with.

"Pecs" and "chest" offend my sexually erotic sensibilities for just that reason. ^^^

Straight men get to have a term that can describe and aid in their aroused indulgent of the female lactating milk-bags, so why shouldn't we pecs-loving gay/bi men likewise be allowed the same to help indulge our arousal of the male muscle packed full of meat and is responsible (in ancient times) of moving boulders?

For me, I have given honest attempts at deterring any offense that using "tits" to erotically refer to muscular shapely pecs may cause by turning the erotic term into a gender-referencing erotic phrase ("muscular male tits", "chicken steak-breasts", "masculine meaty breasts", "meaty tits" etc.), though I don't know if this delivers well, since some gay/bi men receiving those erotic phrases get insulted all the same for my mere using the word "tits" at all.

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I can appreciate that DepravedMusicleFTL and Araucaria have very opposite positions to me on this subject matter. I was actually hoping for the meaningful expressions of said opposite stances, because it makes the topic insightful.

What I want to ask the both of you (DepravedMuscleFTL and Araucaria), as well asl others who may have your similar views on this, is, as there a terminology that you all and we pecs-fetishers can agree to use that is sexually meaningful and stimulating to all of us?



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p. s. DepravedMuscleFTL, I do have to say, that cute caucasian stud with really nice _____(***inserts here a sluttily gratifying x-rated terminology to sexually refer to the male pecs***)_____ arouses me greatly. I want to play with those huge mounds of meat; and suck on them with my mouth for the juicy steaks that they are. If he were a Chaturbate model, and I tipped him, I would have complimented him using this or very similar wording, and I'd ask him to perform certain erotic acts like grabbing them and making his _________s pounce; because they're so huge and horn-festing to my dyc.

 

[Level27]

*****is there a terminology that you all and we....
(spelling correction)

 

[eddielee]

No, no, no, no....

 

[Level27]

While we're on the subject, why are there no words to describe the distinction between the male and female anus? Exactly the same body part, same function, but different uses.

Hmmm. You bring up different uses (for the anus). I suppose I'm not really getting that. Can you elaborate?

The way I understand is that the anus is shaped the same regardless of biological sex.

The breast area is not. One biological sex has lactating milkbags the shape of water balloons and/or long fat eggplants, or perhaps like a muffin, for the smaller size; and they serve to feed children. The other biological sex has muscle protrusion that aid in pushing and removing boulders; and upgrades itself to become more round and protrusive, the bigger the boulder gets.
(The one thing that breasts of both sexes have in common is generally that bigger is more sexually attractive (as a biological method for human evolutionary survival), though nevertheless, each sex's serves to perform a very different function.)

So far, though, I'm not sure what the different function is for the anus of the sexes. That's where your 'expertise' comes in. (Relax. Your explanation doesn't have to be nearly as profound as this ^^^. I got carried away myself is all. lol)

 

[Peloso]

Hmmm. You bring up different uses (for the anus). I suppose I'm not really getting that. Can you elaborate?

Butfucking. It's popular with gay men. Women do it too, but much less frequently and rarely without it being preceded by a nice dinner and a Matthew McConaughey movie.

My anus is tight and greasy because I use my rectum to cure bacon, so there's that, too.

One biological sex has lactating milkbags the shape of water balloons and/or long fat eggplants, or perhaps like a muffin, for the smaller size; and they serve to feed children.

That was eloquent. I read it as a poem.

One biological sex
has lactating milkbags
the shape of water balloons

and/or long fat eggplants or
......................perhaps like a muffin
......................for the smaller size

and they serve to feed children.

 

[Eagle653]

"tits" doesn't bother me, and I'm also one that doesn't use the term with regards to a man's chest. I'm more bothered by "boy pussy" and "breeding" when used in reference to a man.

I feel the same way. Unless I know someone well, I would not refer to a man's breasts as tits. I think some find the term offensive when used to them. Some men feel that referring to their breasts as tits feminizes them and they want to be as masculine as possible. Others get turned on by it. So, you have to know your audience.

Truth be told, though, chest/breast/tits/pecs are not something I focus on when I'm with someone or attracted to them. So, how they refer to them or their preferences--I go with the flow. I'm focused on areas lower, front and back.

 

[Kahaih]

I feel the same way. Unless I know someone well, I would not refer to a man's breasts as tits. I think some find the term offensive when used to them. Some men feel that referring to their breasts as tits feminizes them and they want to be as masculine as possible. Others get turned on by it. So, you have to know your audience.

Truth be told, though, chest/breast/tits/pecs are not something I focus on when I'm with someone or attracted to them. So, how they refer to them or their preferences--I go with the flow. I'm focused on areas lower, front and back.

@ flow

Does this need to be explained?

 

[Vannie]

@ flow

Does this need to be explained?

No explanation! Period!

 

[Level27]

Hmmm. You bring up different uses (for the anus). I suppose I'm not really getting that. Can you elaborate?

Butfucking. It's popular with gay men. Women do it too, but much less frequently and rarely without it being preceded by a nice dinner and a Matthew McConaughey movie.

My anus is tight and greasy because I use my rectum to cure bacon, so there's that, too.

Yes, I supposed that's true. But, I'm seeing more and more straight men who talk about and perform anal action on women.

Point being is that both sexes are capable equally of being fuck'd there.

In this day and age, I don't know if the difference is prominent enough anymore to be warrant a separately branch'd terminology for gay men receiving it versus (straight) women receiving it the same.

That was eloquent. I read it as a poem.

One biological sex
has lactating milkbags
the shape of water balloons

and/or long fat eggplants or
......................perhaps like a muffin
......................for the smaller size

and they serve to feed children.

"[I'm] a poet. didn't know it."
Also, I suppose my piece on the masculine male breast muscles was a rap-jam?
At any rate, thanks kindly for the compliment, gentleman.

 

[Peloso]

I'm seeing more and more straight men who talk about and perform anal action on women.

I'm betting they do more talking than performing.

To each his own but some guys can really pile it on a little too heavy. I read a hookup post a few years back by some guy who was looking for someone to "Bang my puss walls with your man sauce".

 

[ShadowCat]

Boobs is usually just a synonym for tits. "He-boobies" is usually a reference to the sagging pectoral regions of older or out-of-shape guys, and generally looked at as unsexy.

Tell that to the guys I cam with all wanna tittie fuck me...On second thought dont say a word

 

[Level27]

Re: "Tits" as gender-neutral terminology to erotically refer to hot male pecs?

I'm betting they do more talking than performing.

Eh... I'm guessing you haven't watched the abundance of Brazzer videos in which the big-titted female model gets fucked in the shitter-chute and not in the pussy. (In fact, in many of those videos, they specifically avoid the pussy; which was a bit of a surprise to me. heh)

To each his own but some guys can really pile it on a little too heavy. I read a hookup post a few years back by some guy who was looking for someone to "Bang my puss walls with your man sauce".

What can I say. Gender-neutral is becoming the new gay; as gay was the new Orange.

Tell that to the guys I cam with all wanna tittie fuck me...On second thought dont say a word

Fat does not mean unattractive. You could be handsome and/or cute as fuck.
Additionally, I do sincerely tell you this: I have seen really big guys whose muscular breasts were still round and meaty; not fatty. They were really thick and not "sagging", and because they were big men, the size of their sexy round nipples were out of this world. Really hot stuff.