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To all divorce guys with kids

dodo2761

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Do you ever have days when you miss the families you had when you were married?
I had a wonderful family before I decided to leave my wife and live my gay life.
Their loyalty is rightly with my ex, but I miss them.
I miss seeing my kids every day.

Feeling a bit wn today.

Dont get me wrong- I am still happier now I am living my gay life.
 
im sorry to hear about that... i hope that in time, you learn how to better cope with the pain...
 
They probably miss you too.

Or, rather, they probably miss the you they believed you were.
 
Well, stay int ouch. When they get old enough, they can visit you any time, right :)
 
That's a tough one, no doubt. The only thing I can offer is cold comfort -- that kids grow up real fast anyway, and before you know it neither parent is seeing them every day.

I guess all you can do is have the best relationship you can with them, give them some good memories, always be there for them, and then when they're on their own they'll want to spend more time with you.
 
I do see my kids but they are 18 and 15 so its morehen they want to not when I do.
I see them about once a month.

As for the family in laws- never see them or hear from them tho I make a point of sending cards on holidays or birthdays.
 
Kids are the most fun when they're little. By 15 and 18 they're kind of getting into the yucky years -- even teenagers don't like other teenagers.

But you're their father for life, so stick with it -- you never know when they'll be needing some advice or a helping hand. If you have a good relationship with them now, it can really pay off in the years to come.

And then there's always the grandkids...
 
The end of any relationship is difficult, and dynamics inside a family can change even without a divorce. You're a better person for being honest about your feelings and who you are, imo. Do the best you can, try to keep up contact, and hopefully everyone will grow to a point where you can still enjoy each other. I can't totally realate to you perspective becuase my marriage ended because of her infidelity, and I didn't figure out I was gay until I finally moved on with my life. I do occasionally wish I didn't have to go through that pain, but in the end I'm a better person for having made the journey
 
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