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To all the closeted guys who have not come out to their families....

It doesn't really bother me.
My parents make HATEFUL comments about gays...so when I move out and say I am gay
I will kind of take pleasure in it..sort of like haha..karma..you hated people
just because they are gay, now your own child is a homo.
Except them I don't really have any important people that would care
if I'm gay...I prefer to have intelligent friends.
I can't imagine my parents would stop all contact with me when I tell them...but
if that happened I mean what can I do...not to sound arrogant but people who do
something like that are just too dumb for me...I mean at least if they were officially mentally challenged
I would make an exception...I can't deal with that...they are not
4 years old they are adults they should use their brain.
As for people talking and gossip...well what is there to say...maybe it's just the area
you live in. There isn't a lot of gay hate around me.
I'm pretty excited...moving out soon and I can be gay. I think it's better than
being straight..if you live in an area with smart people...it's better because
gay sex doesn't make babies yay..unless you are one of those people who wants children for some
strange reason...anyways I am saying I am really happy my bisexuality is more on the gay side.
 
My sexuality doesn't define me. Never has, never will. I'm very free-spirited and was raised to have little regard for what others think of me.

Yet, I'm still closeted. This, obviously, makes me feel very conflicted. Perhaps if I had a guy that I cared about in that 'special way' it might make things a bit easier. Yet again, I haven't exactly put myself 'on the market.' And in a way, being single comes with it's own freedoms because relationships take time and effort... It's no wonder I can't sleep at night sometimes... Too many conflicting feelings and thoughts...
 
I agree with the other posters the OP has to decide whether or not he is going to live his life for himself or his family. Life is too short. Don't you want to be happy? I am not suggesting coming out BUT if the OP can move out and live on his own he would have more freedom and independence.
 
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