To all the straight dude: have you ever considered gay sex , ONCE?

[youngnihilist]

Here, let me write a post that a secure, genuine straight man would say:

"No, I've never considered gay sex. Not that I consider it anything bad, just never was for me. I'm on this site because some of my best friends are gay and I'm interested in hearing their perspectives, particularly from the coming out and relationships forum. I'd also like to add anything from my perspective as a straight man"

NOT "justsayinghello" insane, reactionary rhetoric. I mean wow. Real security there. OK, you said hello, back to the closet with you. For your sake I hope you do come out (PS, I never said that I assumed everyone here was having gay sex.)

 

[dukemike]

Haha... well I'm straight. Never have come even close to any gay sex what-so-ever.

I stumbled on this site and you can see by my post count I haven't been too active here. I've literally only ever looked at the Straight/Bi section.

But I'm here because I'm ever so slightly curious.

Here are my answers....

Yes, I've sort of considered it. Specifically I'd only want to receive head. To me, head is head and I don't think I'd care if it was a man or a woman. And no, I don't think of it constantly. Very rarely really. Probably like once a month.

Well allaboutme, I am a gay man who very much loves to give head to a straight guy. In fact I met a 24 year old handsome well built straight guy, who has a girlfriend last June. He's coming over this weekend for the fifth time since then. He says that I'm the only man who has ever touched or sucked his cock. He likes to shower when he arrives and remains naked the entire time he is here, while I remain clothed, and suck his dick, massage his smooth muscular chest, and his biceps, and I also tongue his ass when he hunches up while I'm licking his balls. He insists on having straight porn on the TV, and usually spends a few hours here, letting me swallow two or three of his loads of straight young cum.

So there are guys like me out there who very much enjoy servicing a straight cock.

 

[innocentbychoice]

That's pretty odd coming from you seeing that you and I had what I considered to be a really nice exchange earlier in the thread where I was completely honest about the reasons I am here, and have been across several threads. Like I've said several times, this is an anonymous site, only nutjobs are going to lie about why they're here.

I'm a lot of things, but I'm pretty sure I'm sane. Or sane enough. Right?

Call me crazy but I didn't realize it was the same person loL!!!! But now that I know that, I do believe you and I said I did, I was just explaining that I also see where youngnihilist is coming from but I do believe you.

Dude I'm as chill as I can get.

But you know what, Youngy up there is right. I did make a mistake trying to post on this board, even here in the straight/bi section, which I hilariously thought was here for, get this, straight and bi men to be able to post freely. I mean of course you'd find like minded men on this, the section dedicated to ''my kind'', no? I was mistaken.

Gay men are still men, human beings, and as such are prone to the same kind of small minded, petty prejudices, stupid assumptions, and narrow tunnel vision as anybody else. I'm the one who thought that a place for 'just us boys' was just that, welcoming of all men, even the ones who don't necessarily fit the mold, the occasional straight man comfortable in his sexuality who is not off put at all by gay/bi men, or LGBT issues and concerns, men who don't considers you guys on 'the other side of the track'', but look at you as just men, men dealing with some of the same shit I am, who just might have a different perspective. I personally was never here for the sex, or the porn, or the kink factor. I was here for the people, and I know how idealist that sounds, but it is the God's honest truth.

But this isn't a place for 'my kind', and I've ruffled enough feathers. So I'm bowing out. The ''you don't belong here'' message has come through loud and clear, and I'm not a man who likes to overstay his welcome.

Be well gentlemen.



(P.S. I searched endlessly for that Lynda Carter fanart for you, but I couldn't find it for a damn thing. You were right, it is tough to track down!)

Too bad you left . And you were looking for that fanart for me? Oh well if you do read this, PM me and say hi dumbass.

 

[allaboutme]

Okay. How about this. If I agreed to give you head would you let me do something to you? Or would you turn me down?

Sex, any form, is a two way street. Both people have to be enjoying it and while some gay/bi guys might like sucking your dick and enjoy it just as much as you do there might be some guys who want you to suck their dick.

I'm not trying to be rude I'm just interested in what you might say to this. Would you allow a guy to fuck you/would you give them head in return if they agreed to suck your dick? Or would you just allow them to suck your dick, becuase you are only intrested in getting off?

Again, not being rude, its just so rare to find a straight guy here.

I totally get where you are coming from. And I can’t imagine I’d want to do anything other than just receive oral from a guy. I’m totally not a selfish lover, despite the dumb name I came up with on here. I don’t have any problem returning the favor and fully enjoying the two way street of sex with women. The reason is I’m attracted to them.

I don’t have any sexual attraction to men. So I wouldn’t want to do much with one. But come on, we all know oral is really really nice. A mouth on your cock is just about the best feeling ever. I'm attracted to blowjobs haha. Also, I don’t really put too much emotional/sexual weight to oral. Like I don’t get connections to a person who sucks me. I know I might be a jerk, but I don’t think it is cheating and I actually think it is less intimate than kissing. Dumb I know.

That being said, I’m sure there are lots of gay guys out there who totally get off on just giving and especially to a straight guy. Take dukemike for example. That’s the type of situation I’d be interested in. Ideally the guy would know not to expect much back from me in that area.

 

[Rex]

The closest thing to a straight guy on this forum was Mr. Barberboy or whatever his name was and he's long gone and most likely was gay4pay anyway.

 

[tipmyscales86]

Kinsey scale anyone?

0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual.
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X Asexual, Non-Sexual

In my honest opinion, I find it highly improbable that somebody who is a true 0 on the Kinsey Scale would be on this site. Some guys that come here might be a 1, and identify as straight. I see nothing wrong with that. There are people that identify as gay who are not a true 6. I probably fit somewhere around 5, but I choose to identify as gay, because while I can spot an attractive woman, I'm just not interested in pussy at all.

 

[allaboutme]

Kinsey scale anyone?

0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual.
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X Asexual, Non-Sexual

In my honest opinion, I find it highly improbable that somebody who is a true 0 on the Kinsey Scale would be on this site. Some guys that come here might be a 1, and identify as straight. I see nothing wrong with that. There are people that identify as gay who are not a true 6. I probably fit somewhere around 5, but I choose to identify as gay, because while I can spot an attractive woman, I'm just not interested in pussy at all.

Well, like I said I identify myself as very hetero, but like you said... I'm here. So, I think I'm a 1.

 

[januaryguy1979]

My question is did you ever wanted to try gay sex( in any form) ONCE?

Bi men are excluded from my question.

If you are straight man and never ever been with a guy please procceed.

Which describles you?

a) Would never ever consider gay sex in any form

b) Have considered trying some form of gay sex
1) how many days out of a year( 365 days) has this thought crept into your head?

2) on the days that you have considered gay sex --how many minutes or hours do you think about it?

3) what form of gay sex did you think about?


I'm just curious thats all

Odds are you won't find anyone totally straight here. They at least have to be curious IMO. There are things sexually that don't interest me so I don't check it out. Seeing as I check this site out means I got some interest.

I've never been with a guy so I think I can answer this.

1. I would consider gay sex.

2. I don't count every mintue and second I thought about it. That's tough to answer. Do I think about it a lot is the better question.

Depends on the day. Some days I think about it a lot. Other days not at all.

I have a friend that is gay and we don't live near each other, but we have had sexually charged chats. And when things finally work out to where we can chill again, there is a good chance we'll hook up, but once together I cannot say I could go through with it for sure

 

[biguy1234]

I think most straights have fantasized at least once.

true...when my straight friends found out I was bi, alot of them asked A BUNCH of questions, three of them asked me to make out with them to see what it was like and one of them (ultimately, not just point blank) asked me to give him a blowjob, which I did and we've remained good friends. He needed release and had thought about it before and finally knew someone he was close to and trusted...

 

[gilly11]

true...when my straight friends found out I was bi, alot of them asked A BUNCH of questions, three of them asked me to make out with them to see what it was like and one of them (ultimately, not just point blank) asked me to give him a blowjob, which I did and we've remained good friends. He needed release and had thought about it before and finally knew someone he was close to and trusted...

What did they say after you made out?

 

[curiousbob]

i read most of the comments to your question ,and i think you all would be surprised how many straight guys"find"sites like this . i consider myself straight but i have enjoyed sex acts with an other male. i also use both gay and straight porn on a regular basis and i would go with another male for mutual enjoyment but ot sure how far id go hope this goes some way to answering your question

 

[rjmrjm21]

Of course straight guys can be attracted to other guys. Why do you think young, smaller, feminine guys are popular in prison?

I know from personal experience that straight guys find me attractive, probably more so than gay guys. It's very strange.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

Of course straight guys can be attracted to other guys. Why do you think young, smaller, feminine guys are popular in prison?

I know from personal experience that straight guys find me attractive, probably more so than gay guys. It's very strange.

There's a difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to a person. Even if these guys find you attractive, that does not mean that they want to sleep with you. If a man is attracted to another man, then he is not straight, not to the fullest extent.

As for a feminine man in prison, there is need to create a psychological separation from the idea that the feminine man is in fact, a man. There is an underlying current of homophobia and the feminine man would still allow the straight man to believe that he is heterosexual or that sex with a feminine man is not gay, as the feminine man is not truly a man.

 

[stevexxx]

There's a difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to a person. Even if these guys find you attractive, that does not mean that they want to sleep with you. If a man is attracted to another man, then he is not straight, not to the fullest extent.

As for a feminine man in prison, there is need to create a psychological separation from the idea that the feminine man is in fact, a man. There is an underlying current of homophobia and the feminine man would still allow the straight man to believe that he is heterosexual or that sex with a feminine man is not gay, as the feminine man is not truly a man.

so you would say if i saw another dude and was like damn he got a big ass, i would be considered gay?

 

[mark08]

Straight guy here, I've definitely thought about it a few times, but it's only about the submissive aspect. I would say it comes in waves, being bored of the routine. 90% of the time I feel like being dominant with a woman and the rest 10% I feel like being submissive to either a man or woman, here the sex dosen't matter because it's more about feeling ''submissive'' than sexuality.

I check women out 100% of the time and men 0% of the time, I definitely have no attraction towards a man.

 

[rjmrjm21]

There's a difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to a person. Even if these guys find you attractive, that does not mean that they want to sleep with you. If a man is attracted to another man, then he is not straight, not to the fullest extent.

As for a feminine man in prison, there is need to create a psychological separation from the idea that the feminine man is in fact, a man. There is an underlying current of homophobia and the feminine man would still allow the straight man to believe that he is heterosexual or that sex with a feminine man is not gay, as the feminine man is not truly a man.

What's the diffference between finding someone attractive and being attracted? To me, it's one and the same, only most straight guys have to stop themselves from taking it further. If your dick gets hard at the sight of another man, that is homo. If you find yourself looking at the guys, rather than the girls, or if you have to stop yourself from looking at the guys, then that's gay. All guys are capable of having homo thoughts, even if it is 1 out of 100,000,000 guys that catch their attention. It's nothing to be ashamed of as their are attractive people in both sexes. On the contrary, just because a guy is gay, doesn't mean he wants you. (FYI: Some had made moves but I was not the least bit interested.)

Far as prison, they are a bunch of fags. If you like to look at men or do it with a man they you are gay! End of story.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

so you would say if i saw another dude and was like damn he got a big ass, i would be considered gay?

No, that's exactly what I am not saying. If you simply acknowledged the size of the man's butt, then no it is not gay, in and of itself. It's like simply acknowledging another unusual feature, such as a big nose or wide eyes. However, if you want to have sex with a guy because of his ass, then yes it is gay. Does that make sense?

What's the diffference between finding someone attractive and being attracted? To me, it's one and the same, only most straight guys have to stop themselves from taking it further. If your dick gets hard at the sight of another man, that is homo. If you find yourself looking at the guys, rather than the girls, or if you have to stop yourself from looking at the guys, then that's gay. All guys are capable of having homo thoughts, even if it is 1 out of 100,000,000 guys that catch their attention. It's nothing to be ashamed of as their are attractive people in both sexes. On the contrary, just because a guy is gay, doesn't mean he wants you. (FYI: Some had made moves but I was not the least bit interested.)

Far as prison, they are a bunch of fags. If you like to look at men or do it with a man they you are gay! End of story.

But it's not the same. One can find another person attractive, but not want to have sex with him or her. Being attracted would illicit some sort of biological response, however. As for prison, I'm stating reasons for some effeminate men being pursued in prison (and even beyond prison).

 

[stevexxx]

No, that's exactly what I am not saying. If you simply acknowledged the size of the man's butt, then no it is not gay, in and of itself. It's like simply acknowledging another unusual feature, such as a big nose or wide eyes. However, if you want to have sex with a guy because of his ass, then yes it is gay. Does that make sense?



But it's not the same. One can find another person attractive, but not want to have sex with him or her. Being attracted would illicit some sort of biological response, however. As for prison, I'm stating reasons for some effeminate men being pursued in prison (and even beyond prison).

that makes sense

 

[rjmrjm21]

But it's not the same. One can find another person attractive, but not want to have sex with him or her. Being attracted would illicit some sort of biological response, however. As for prison, I'm stating reasons for some effeminate men being pursued in prison (and even beyond prison).

I understand but in my case, they have wanted to sleep with me. But everyone is different--I don't dispute that.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

I understand but in my case, they have wanted to sleep with me. But everyone is different--I don't dispute that.

So, it seems like these men had to be some degree of bisexual, at the very least. Are you extremely androgynous/effeminate in appearance or just mannerisms?