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To Hell and Back

well the date is over. and i am single, and staying that way. it sucks because before i met this guy, i was fine being single, i liked it. and now i'm not so happy with it.

he was just another asshole.

and now i'm out all that money and time
 
WTF is WRONG with the gay men in Chicago ??? :grrr:

You're a freakin' catch Jason, can't they see that ?

Honey, there have to be dozens, nay, hundreds of men in the Chi-town area that would be just perfect for you... Maybe you're just looking in the wrong places, maybe karmically you gotta go through a few shitty guys to appreciate the good one... Hell, I don't know... But it WILL happen for you, I know that much. (*8*)
 
Joshua_me said:
WTF is WRONG with the gay men in Chicago ??? :grrr:

You're a freakin' catch Jason, can't they see that ?

Honey, there have to be dozens, nay, hundreds of men in the Chi-town area that would be just perfect for you... Maybe you're just looking in the wrong places, maybe karmically you gotta go through a few shitty guys to appreciate the good one... Hell, I don't know... But it WILL happen for you, I know that much. (*8*)
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My guess is it is a materity issue. many gay people, as well as straight people, just do not have the maturity and/or desire to develop a relationship. And I of course do not include Jason in that group. I'm telling ya....we need a screening system to screen out the lies, nasty , catty, and people that have no ambition in life other than their next lay (no offese to those that enjoy that).

Next time Jason, tell the guy that the JUBBERS have to interview him first.... :) (j/k)
 
i think the best policy is get into sex first and romantic later.
 
metta said:
My guess is it is a materity issue. many gay people, as well as straight people, just do not have the maturity and/or desire to develop a relationship. And I of course do not include Jason in that group. I'm telling ya....we need a screening system to screen out the lies, nasty , catty, and people that have no ambition in life other than their next lay (no offese to those that enjoy that).

Next time Jason, tell the guy that the JUBBERS have to interview him first.... :) (j/k)
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i am so going to send them through you first Metta.
 
Kurn said:
It was NOT a waste of time, Jason.
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I agree here. I'm sorry this didn't work out Jason, but I know the right guy for you is out there. Don't you dare give up!
 
yea but every time i start with sex the relationship ends up being only sex. and i need that romance, i need to sweep someone off there feet and for them to do the same for me.

i guess i am asking to much. i'm going to be single forever. i think i'm giving up for a while.
 
JASON0980 said:
yea but every time i start with sex the relationship ends up being only sex. and i need that romance, i need to sweep someone off there feet and for them to do the same for me.

i guess i am asking to much. i'm going to be single forever. i think i'm giving up for a while.
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you know what, NO i'm not i have to learn how to do this damned dating thing. so i am going to keep at it until i get it right, or i have scared off every man with in a 50 mile radius. i will get this down.
 
JASON0980 said:
you know what, NO i'm not i have to learn how to do this damned dating thing. so i am going to keep at it until i get it right, or i have scared off every man with in a 50 mile radius. i will get this down.
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good! you deserve to get swept off your feet. we all do.
 
JASON0980 said:
but will it ever happen? do people even try anymore?
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i can't tell you that it will or won't happen. i think though that as you are putting yourself out there and trying to find your own happiness that your odds are much better. i think that people do try, look at your own efforts this past weekend. i know it didn't turn out as you would have liked but what does this say about you? that you are willing to give as good as you can get. that has to mean something so don't give up.
 
One day I will go to your work and pick you up... And you'll put my hat on your head... and I'll carry you out as all the other girls start clapping...

OK, so I saw and Officer and a Gentleman the other night. It could happen!
 
sinfulsimon said:
You do and I do. We can't be the only ones.
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i've been single for 7 years since my b/f died because i, too, am looking for the romance, friendship and faithfulness (read: monogamy) which we so wonderfully shared for 10 years....not without problems, but we never gave up on each other or deserted each other

jason, simon...and all others who seek these same things >>> hang in there....you can and will find THAT man.....but damn....where IS he?
 
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