To the curious/bi/straight guys

[JoshuaGlynn]

Me I'm Bi... in the closet to some, out to others, but I don't really go out searching for people to seduce...

I find myself attracted to the person regardlessly of their sex, so basically I find I need to know the person, be friends with prier to.

I flirt with everyone equally, str8 guys jokingly to get reactions, but those that don't know I'm bi would never suspect it... so I can't say that I treat guys like I do the girls... but it is more of the situation then it is a conscious choice.

Now that I think about it the only time I really would treat them the same would be once I'm in a relationship with them... but I don't think that is what you were asking.

Hope this helps

Josh

 

[Shafted]

If I am reading the posts thus far correctly, it saddens me to find such ready acceptance of the notion that it is alright to woe a guy with only one thing in mind, to get him to bed. Isn't that the very definition of exploitation? Are a few moments of genital pleasure, getting off, and adding one more notch to one's string of conquests worth all that effort?

Yeah.

We do it to women all the time.

 

[innocentbychoice]

I'll ask him hypo-thetical non-threatening bi-sexual questions to test the waters.

Such as???

 

[innocentbychoice]

If I am reading the posts thus far correctly, it saddens me to find such ready acceptance of the notion that it is alright to woe a guy with only one thing in mind, to get him to bed.


Hopefully you're not talking about me because that isn't what I was specifically referring to when I started this thread. Having sex might be part of it but isn't certainly the main topic of my question.

Although there's not an issue if that's the way this guys relate to other guys.

Personally, I cannot consider the casual sex implied as remotely satisfactory. For me the relationship is the all-important factor. One meets someone, a friendship develops, the bonds of friendship deepen and increasingly the friends find themselves expressing their regard for each other physically. Then comes that wonderful moment when the two of you come to actual sexual encounter and it all happens so naturally and it all seems so right. That is the kind of sex that is not only high pleasure but signifies and confirms the bond that has come to be between partners. Such sex is fantastic and only improves with each repeat.

I share your opinion.