To the Old Perverts in the Sauna

[jizzinmypants]

I recently started using the Sauna at my college gym after work outs. Sadly, I have discovered that the place is being over run by older gentleman that sit naked with their legs open and touch themselves. And very few are in good shape. If you are one of these men please stop it and have some decency. Thanks.

 

[Lefty]

Jizzy

Do you mean decency

or

Do you mean mercy?

 

[JOHN B]

Um...Jizzy. You are going to be one of those old perverts (doing the exact same thing) a lot sooner than you expect. Trust me. The years go by quick.

 

[Curiosity69]

Um...Jizzy. You are going to be one of those old perverts (doing the exact same thing) a lot sooner than you expect. Trust me. The years go by quick.

Or not? The old men that do this were checking out little boys in the school playground when they were in their 20's. If the guy finds it disgusting when he is younger than he's obviously not going to do it when he is older.

They were there before you,if you don't like it fuck off,ageist bastard.

No, it is inappropriate to do that bullshit in a public pool/gym sauna. It is disgusting.


I have no personally had experience with it OP, but it is gross and uncalled for. Even if it was a hot guy doing it it is still inappropriate.

 

[Willie Boy]

If you really don't like it go [strike]cry[/strike]complain to the staff, unless they are the staff. Then you're just SOL!

 

[CHUCK905]

It's a minor annoyance to me regardless of age and fitness. I once said to 2 twenty-somethings (do you mind?) they got huffy but stopped. Usually I just look the other way but I was afraid of getting splashed.

 

[Curiosity69]

I don't understand why some gay guys see this is appropriate? It is most certainly not. It's indecent exposure.

Sure you're allowed to sit there naked but spreading your legs, bringing attention to rubbing yourself, that's indecent and you can sure as hell get in trouble for it.

 

[juicyjack]

I've actually delt with this a lot. I'm not sure why they do it to me. I take showers at the gym and I'm not ashamed at my body as you can tell by my gallery but I don't just stare at people and jack off. And yeah they are always the older and not so attractive guys. Although I did get to see one middle aged guy who was in great shape and he started walking around with a huge hard on so I took my towel off to show my hard on and we both started jacking off. Then he got close to me and put his muscular, beefy ass in my face and I licked it. Then we heard a guy that was about to come in, then we stopped. I haven't seen him since. Situations like that are rare though.

 

[curiousguyUNT]

I have had two awesome experiences with blowing a guy in the locker room showers. The showers are set up with open showers on three walls and one wall with separate stalls with curtains. I was in a stall with the curtain open just enough to let me see out and them see in. I try to be discrete as possible and if no interest is shown I leave them alone. Both times I did this the same guy stood at the closest shower head to my stall and washed himself a little too long and aggressively. We were the only two in the showers and I had him join me. I made sure that no one else could see us because, despite my enjoyment of public action, I don't think anyone else should have to witness it. With the showers running and us being quiet, no one else heard anything. It was really hot to know that other guys came in and were just on the other side of my curtain while I was sucking dick. I understand that it is not for everyone and I do try to be as respectful as possible. If there are multiple people in the showers at the same time I don't do anything besides taking quick, discrete glances, no matter how hot someone is or what they might want to do.

 

[Level27]

I recently started using the Sauna at my college gym after work outs. Sadly, I have discovered that the place is being over run by older gentleman that sit naked with their legs open and touch themselves. And very few are in good shape. If you are one of these men please stop it and have some decency. Thanks.

And 12 to 20 years later when you and your reduced mediocre middle-age body spreads its legs open to a hot young 18-year-old and he "complains" about how his school's sauna is being overran by "old perverts" like yourself, you would state in a frustrating manner how the younger generation is disrespectful like this.

(Of course, to give you credit where credit is due, you are only human. After all, those old perverts who watch you at the sauna now had probably complained about old perverts watching them when they were college-age too )

Or not? The old men that do this were checking out little boys in the school playground when they were in their 20's. (Right...) If the guy finds it disgusting when he is younger than he's obviously not going to do it when he is older.

That, my dear, is subjective and is open to debate. On the other hand, one could realize what these "old perverts" must have been experiencing mentally and emotionally once he becomes one of them himself and accept the idea of looking at hot young guys, whilst thinking how rude or "unaware" he was of such appreciation and adoration he was getting from those older ones during his college age.

Or, he could simply have forgotten those young-aged feelings altogether. lol

No, it is inappropriate to do that bullshit in a public pool/gym sauna. It is disgusting.

I have no personally had experience with it OP, but it is gross and uncalled for. Even if it was a hot guy doing it it is still inappropriate.

However, what the OP seems to be speaking on is "old perverts" and not so much about being gawked at in general. I'm not invalidating your point, I'm just saying that it is off track from what Jizz was meaning to talk about.

 

[JNewYork]

This is the funniest thread/post I've ever seen.

Well said, also. LOL

 

[blackbeltninja]

Fortunately, most of JUB agrees that the saunas and steamrooms in public gyms (actual gyms, NOT bath-houses) are not appropriate places for people to do this sort of thing.

Unfortunately, OP, you put the red-flag trigger-word OLD in your title. Tsk tsk - from here on, nobody in the "older" (that's 40+) crowd will see anything of value in your post and no matter how many valid points you raise you will still be regarded as a little ageist piece of shit.

It's a rookie error; I did this myself once and got fried for it.

You're right; you know you're right. If nothing else, most of us, myself included, agree with you entirely.

-d-

 

[Telstra]

They are not going to go near you if you don't let them.

 

[Aisle72]

Jizzy, you really need to check yourself. Those men are there for the same reason you are there for (looking).

They know and understand that no younger guy will hit or look their way but their eyes roam just like yours. It is there right and your wrong to deny them a public place to enjoy what they once had before you was born.

Live with it and know you will be the same way in a matter of years.

 

[quasar]

...Unfortunately, OP, you put the red-flag trigger-word OLD in your title. Tsk tsk - from here on, nobody in the "older" (that's 40+) crowd will see anything of value in your post and no matter how many valid points you raise you will still be regarded as a little ageist piece of shit...

As a 45 year old man, I have no issue with the use of the word 'old', I take issue with the inference that once you get past a certain age you're not supposed to be sexual.

I accept that the OP probably just put his mouth in motion before his brain was in gear, but trust me - in years to come when he's sitting in a locker room touching himself up whilst some bright thing changes - the bright young thing will be looking at him as a'dirty old pervert'. Enjoy the attention while you can.

 

[Curiosity69]

Why are you all assuming he will be doing it himself in many years?

That is a stupid assumption, there are a very few men that are disgusting enough to perform these actions in public areas with other people around.

If you're going to use an argument to say that's it OK, do not use this one, as it has no merit whatsoever.

 

[Bi Married Male]

I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw this go on at a fine hotel with a members only gold club that sharred the hotel locker room. Married men would come in. When it was down to 2 or 3 guys they would start touching their cock..This happened every time I went in the sauna and never with the same crowd...Now I look forward to checking out any hotels sauna...fun!

 

[Level27]

Why are you all assuming he will be doing it himself in many years?

"We" are not "assuming" anything. The general point that is implied here is that, one day, he will be just as old age as the people of whom he refers to as "old perverts." And, he will likely have many of their characteristics as well.

Even if he isn't going to be a "pervert," the point of the message is to kindly ask him to put himself in these men's shoes.

 

[JNewYork]

I think some are being too hard on the original poster. He's at a college gym. College. As in a place where 18-21 year old men hang out.

When you were 18 would you want to be looking at men older than your father playing with themselves in the sauna?

When I was 18, 28 was "old." I was not ageist, either. It's just how young people see the world. I remember being 23 and having such a crush on this guy who was nine years older. I remember thinking how incredibly "weird" it was to crush on somebody so "old." LOL OLD???? He was merely 9 years older. But when you're that young you don't see it that way.

Let's not condemn the original poster. He's not mean. He's not ageist. He's just young.

 

[Corny]

I like how the OP implied that he probably would not be that upset if they were in great shape

However .. I don't see the problem with sitting with your legs open. If I feel comfortable sitting so, I will do so. Nobody forces you to stare between my legs. Maybe it's an american thing ..

Touching/stroking yourself between your legs is a different story though - and something that you should just report.