Tomorrow's the big day...but...

[G-Lexington]

>>>we'll take pictures hopefully, im gonna ask him if its okay that I post pictures of us together on here...i dont even know if he knows about this and if for some reason he's uncomfortable with that then I wont.

Are you insane?

You're talking to a guy who's married, who only might possibly be curious in finding out a bit more about guy-on-guy love'n'sex. He's lived almost five decades as a straight man, and was very uneasy and unsure about even meeting up with you.

And you want to say "I want to take pictures of us together to post on a gay website - is that cool?"

No, of course it's not cool. Of course he's going to be "uncomfortable with that for some reason".

Honestly, I really don't like the way this is looking.

Lex

 

[StlKj]

The most loving and helpful piece of advice I might offer at this point is for you to find and read all of your brother's threads about men. Perhaps through reading about his experiences, which seem to be a frighteningly similar pattern, you might benefit from his experiences (and the advice that was given to him over time).

 

[barefootbob]

Dman, young sir... as others have said, take things slowly. I know from experience dating/hooking up/ fuck buddy with "straight" married guys will cause YOU nothing but pain. Most will not leave their wives and kids, if any.

I would, more than anything, hate to give you the wrong advice and have you miss out on being with a wonderful man

I wish you well and the best of luck and hope all works out for you.

peace,
bob

 

[Dman007]

Just wanted to let everyone know, that things are moving along just fine after our date yesterday.

So im done posting about this for a while..if I need help or advice, I'll just start a new thread.

oh Lex, yeah I didnt even have the nerve to bring my camera yesterday...lol, I really just wanted to take pictures to remember our first date I suppose...but I wanted to take things slow. And I realized how that wouldve sounded to him, but he has pictures up on a gay site anyway...im pretty sure his wife wont find out very easily or if they are even still together...but Im pretty sure they are, he doesnt talk about her at all, I can see why he wouldnt want to with me, but he didnt say his house when we were talking about a more private place to meet. Because we met at a starbucks...lol, Im not too comfortable being in public place all the time with him, its good for the first time meeting, but I do want some alone time with him...which I will get to soon!

bye all, thanks for the support, non-support, and advice!

 

[Columboy]

Just wanted to let everyone know, that things are moving along just fine after our date yesterday.
Im not too comfortable being in public place all the time with him, its good for the first time meeting, but I do want some alone time with him...which I will get to soon!

Dman,
Found it (your thread)

After reading the underlined above, Huge Red flags popped up. I see them but do you? I think you need to ask yourself exactly what you want from a relationship with this or any guy. You don't want to be out in public with him. Why? or Why not?

All hopes for you and your dreams.

 

[G-Lexington]

I stand firmly by my non-support.

Lex

 

[Dman007]

Columnboy not like that...Im not embarrased to be with him, its just that when we were talking about stuff...like how I found his profile on the internet, people next to us kept looking over... like what the hell are these guys talking about online? well none of there damn business! I just would like to be able to to talk in person, away from people so we can talk about what ever we want without people around...we can talk about whatever online...but dont you guys ever want to be alone with someone you like...even its not gonna lead to sex or anything? I sure as hell want to spend some quality alone time with him.