Too much anal?

[cabinfeverguy]

Okay so I've never had sex with a guy before and after a recent conversation with a friend of mine it seems like I will keep it that way. She told me about a 23 year-old guy who supposedly had so much anal sex that he lost control of his bowels and now has to wear a diaper. Is this really possible? And if there is truly such a thing as bottoming too much, what is the limit?

 

[3stripes]

Its an urban myth. There are properly conducted medical studies of gay men who are regularly the bottom in anal sex and did not find any increased rates of faecal incontinence.

In plain english: bullshit. Doesnt happen.

 

[lyconthrope]

total urban myth, the body has a wonderful memory and will always return to normal as long as the skin retains its elesticity, the only things that will decrease the elesticity are injury and old age.

try it yourself and you'll what i mean, there is stretching, obviously!, but it will retract to normal, evere tried pinching the skin on the back of your hand and see long it takes the return to normal? same principle, it will take a little longer but it'll happen

 

[panda29]

If Your Into Fisting Or Very Large Objects It Might Happen . But Just Having Normal Anal Sex Not Much Chance Of Not Having Control..

 

[LeoMikey]

You have nothing to worry about, go ahead and let visitors in your backdoor. What your friend was telling you, as the others have said, is a myth. Like gerbils or hamsters up Richard Gere's ass, or guys who have to get their stomachs pumped after swallowing too much cum.
Don't try fisting, or shoving insanely huge objects up there. THAT could damage your ass, ditto things that could cut or break. Dildoes, vibrators, cucumbers....or best of all a real dick, all of these things are fine. Infact, they are heaven. Best to start off with toys first, start small and work your way up to larger sizes. Trust me, once you have an orgasm with something up your ass, life will never be the same. Once you can fuck yourself comfortably, it will make taking a real dick much easier. Letting a throbbing, hard cock slam into your untrained ass will hurt, regardless of how it looks in pornos.

 

[cabinfeverguy]

Okay I'm so glad to hear this! I would never try fisting or large objects so it seems like I have nothing to worry about...time to find a man!

 

[hardhotcock]

So it is also okay to have anal sex twice daily? I was on holiday for a week, and when I came back, my lover and I are enjoying anal sex frequently. I am not the smallest guy around, and I am always scared that I am doing a lot of harm in the end. When I say frequently, I mean at least two hour-sessions a day for the past four days now. Is this really okay? If you could please advise me...

 

[LeoMikey]

So it is also okay to have anal sex twice daily? I was on holiday for a week, and when I came back, my lover and I are enjoying anal sex frequently. I am not the smallest guy around, and I am always scared that I am doing a lot of harm in the end. When I say frequently, I mean at least two hour-sessions a day for the past four days now. Is this really okay? If you could please advise me...

Don't worry about it! As long as you use plenty of lube and enter him slowly, and he isn't complaining, keep screwing him with your massive missle. I've gotten fucked more than that, and fucked myself with dildoes, and my hole is still tight. Actually, it's been proven that stimulating the prostate is healthy and might prevent prostate cancer. So you're doing him a favor! When he's tired and sore, he will let you know, trust me. My motto is: too much of a good thing is never enough.

 

[hardhotcock]

Thanx LeoMikey. Yes, he has been telling me he is feeling tender, and yes, I am listening, always asking if he is okay. I like JUB, do not always get a chance to post here, but I know that I can get help when I need it. It is not the kind of thing that one would want to ask a doctor, now is it?

 

[TomahawkEagle]

The anus was designed as a "one way street". Could a cock going in too deep cause damage?

 

[isuckmen]

^^^

You would know... and it would have to be very long...

the thing is that your colon bends... some positions allow insertion further...

but it would have to be very, very long and you would have to have your ass SLAMMED before it would do any real damage... But always take it slowly... Always...

And who said it was designed as a one way street?

 

[3stripes]

If god had meant for men to get fucked he would have put the prostate where it was easily stimulated by fucking .... oh wait

Pain comes before damage generally (down there). If one is properly in touch with the signals ones body gives then one should be in no danger.

(as for pain on entry - thats generally because things are being forced too fast)

 

[TomahawkEagle]

^^^

You would know... and it would have to be very long...

the thing is that your colon bends... some positions allow insertion further...

but it would have to be very, very long and you would have to have your ass SLAMMED before it would do any real damage... But always take it slowly... Always...

And who said it was designed as a one way street?

Don't forget the cock's thickness. That can do damage too.

 

[KaraBulut]

To respond to cabinfeverguy's original question, this is an urban myth. The anus is a muscle that stretches and is trained from birth to contract and relax at the appropriate times. If can accommodate some pretty large things in normal bathroom use. The important thing that everyone gay or straight needs to know is that anal sex is all about training the muscle to relax and keeping the area clean before and after sex.

Don't put anything that is too large, breakable or non-flexible in your ass. Every emergency room has stories about people who did not follow this rule. My recommendation is that if it is wider or longer than a penis, stiffer than a penis or rougher than a penis then you're asking for trouble.

To answer hardhotcock's question, the male sexual systems likes consistency. So, you will find that if you go from having sex infrequently to suddenly having sex several times a day, your body will often get irritable or sore. This can be an irritation of the prostate, burning in the penis or quite literally a pain in the ass. Straight people call this "honeymoon syndrome". The situation is usually temporary. If it lasts more than a week or you have a discharge, then you probably have an STD and you should see your doctor.

Specific to anal sex, cleanliness is very important- the anal area can get infected just like any other part of the body. Some guys douche before anal sex to be clean which is not necessary but does help keep things clean during sex. Usually soap and water and a good shower before sex are enough to clean your anus. Always use condoms (important for the top and the bottom) to prevent infection. And after sex and afterplay is finished, if possible a quick wash of the area will help clean anything that may be in the anal area after sex.

And for cabinfever- when you have anal sex, listen to your body. If it hurts, then stop and try again later. Never let anyone talk you into doing something that your body doesn't want to do. And again, always wear a condom during anal sex.

 

[jebbly10]

when I had anal I noticed that when i went to the bathroom it does seem kinda "sloppy"...then a few days go by and it is back to normal...