pilotguy121a
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Still a virgin but I thought I was going to be a bottom, but reconsidering, I wouldn't mind doing both. 
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Top or Bottom?
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top, don't get anything out of bottoming but a sore ass. HOWEVER, I'm a big proponent of pleasing the guy you're with, so if that's what he wants, that's what he gets.
top, don't get anything out of bottoming but a sore ass. HOWEVER, I'm a big proponent of pleasing the guy you're with, so if that's what he wants, that's what he gets.
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Heh, that's what I thought too. Then I found the right guy, and turns out that even though bottoming is still not necessarily my thing, in those rare occasions when I feel like it, it can be pretty mind-blowing 
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Versatile. I love it both ways. I really like guys who are taller and have some muscle. It makes a good flip flop session 
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I consider myself a total bottom. Even though I started experimenting heavily as a top, nothing turns me on about the male ass. Although, one time I did top a skinny a little twink boi, that was fun but a cute twink boi that turns me on enough to want to top is hard to find. Other than that, I am completely turned by cock: sucking it being fuck by it.
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Versatile here. And then it totally depends on whom I'm with and how I feel at the time.
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I bottomed when I lost my viriginity, haven't looked back since and yet to top.
Have topped a few times, although now mainly bottom simply because I met the right guy early on during my sexual adventures. He prefers to top more, which is ok because I get more head
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I never understood "top" and "bottom." I didn't understand that someone would only want to try half of gay sex. When I heard what anal sex was, my earliest fantasies were of trying both. I didn't even believe this kind of preference could be real because that's how little it made sense to me. If could be real, it had to be only some kind of bizarre fetish like "Gay man seeking to have sex while you rub slices of ham from the deli onto my forehead."
Once I discovered an old copy of a 1970's/1980's gay newspaper at the library. It had personal ads talking about "greek active" and "greek passive" which - I had no idea what that meant for a long time - was their way of saying "top" and "bottom." When I figured it out, I assumed it only existed because gay liberation hadn't fully taken place yet, and all these poor prehistoric gays were stuck in some kind of sexist role-play where they were stuck copying heterosexuals playing either "the man" or "the woman" instead of just being able to fuck each other as men. I hadn't met any actual gays, I assumed these prehistoric ones were a bit pathetic actually.
Now having met more men and having had more conversations about it, I accept it intellectually as a sincere preference for some people, but it still makes absolutely no damn sense to me emotionally. I could not accept a strictly one-sided relationship.
Once I discovered an old copy of a 1970's/1980's gay newspaper at the library. It had personal ads talking about "greek active" and "greek passive" which - I had no idea what that meant for a long time - was their way of saying "top" and "bottom." When I figured it out, I assumed it only existed because gay liberation hadn't fully taken place yet, and all these poor prehistoric gays were stuck in some kind of sexist role-play where they were stuck copying heterosexuals playing either "the man" or "the woman" instead of just being able to fuck each other as men. I hadn't met any actual gays, I assumed these prehistoric ones were a bit pathetic actually.
Now having met more men and having had more conversations about it, I accept it intellectually as a sincere preference for some people, but it still makes absolutely no damn sense to me emotionally. I could not accept a strictly one-sided relationship.
bankside
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I believe that people might hate broccoli, or country music, or whatever, but if they said they hated turning left when they go for a walk, you would have to convince me they weren't just making it up. Always going around the block the same way, and if they have to go somewhere new, they take a detour just so they only have to turn right. It seems obsessive-compulsive. So that's the disconnect. Intellectually, I have heard enough people say they have a preference that I accept it as a fact. But it still doesn't give me a handle on it emotionally, it still doesn't make sense to me.
I don't begrudge people what makes them feel good, but none of it would work for me in a relationship. Not limiting myself to just one thing all the time. Not deciding what I wanted to do depending on the partner. If someone is sexy to me I want to fuck and get fucked by him, I don't even know what it is like to be attracted to someone for only one purpose. To be honest having your preference change depending on who you are with is more confusing to me than having a constant preference. I think it can only happen in a different kind of relationship than would turn me on.
I see a big difference between turning right or taking a cock into your rectum
Some people just don´t like the sensation.Which would mean straight guys have to have their girl friend get a strap-on and fuck them silly, otherwise they are obsessive-compulsive.
Well some men have this "fuck me until I cant breath anymore"-vibe while others have this "I want to give it to you until your head comes off"-vibe.
It´s human sexual behaviour, it doesn´t have to make sense
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Oh my god!!! I laughed so hard at the visual that I damn near soiled my pants!
I just hope this doesn't pop into my mind next time I'm with someone.....
On the topic of top or bottom.. If I only felt like topping, I may as well just fuck girls. It's the OTHER half of sex that's so great with a man.
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Is that in the literal sense?
I am a top, more because all my partners have been bottoms. However, my current partner is versatile and wants me to have a turn at being a bottom so he is going to teach me. Not looking forward to the pain.