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Totally Teased by the Straight Guy!

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so i am hoping in this tread we can share our experiences where our straight friends did things that were unusual behavior for guy-guy friendships, and get serious feedback from one another on what you guys think.

my story will likely make some of you stir in your pants, as this entire summer was, well, an incredible tease. it may seem long, but i hope you can spot all the "red flags" that i did, and perhaps wonder like i do if there was some hint i was supposed to catch. IF YOU ARE A GUY WITH THAT SPECIAL STRAIGHT FRIEND, YOU MUST READ ON.

i met my friend at work back in March, we are both in our twenties, and have very similar interests. we started hanging out after work, and would go to lunch to many sit down restaurants together, and then it progressed to dinner as well. we were with each other constantly. he also got a girlfriend around the same time as meeting me, and he just had to introduce me to his girlfriend, and we all went to the movies together.

we worked together and hung out continuously, even hanging out more than he and his girl. so much so, that thourgh the summer, i cant even think back to a day that i didnt hang out with him, and the one rare day that i didnt, i talke to him on the phone.

i found the whole situation at the beginning to be stranger than usual, because i have never had somebody so interested in hanging out with me. i look and act very straight, nobody would ever know, and im fairly good looking too (nice face, slim athletic, whatever). HE ON THE OTHER HAND WAS A STATE CHAMPION WRESTLER, need i go on how good he looks?

he always wanted to show me his wrestling moves, so i finally said yes really late one night. while his girlfriend slept like a rock in a dark corner of the room, we battled it out, all over each other. he was showing me this, and that, telling me to put my hand here, and there. on the outside, i was going with the flow, on the inside, i was screaming in excitement. then he told me to come over to him on the floor, he was on his back with his legs slightly parted. he had me crawl up between his legs, and put my chest on his chest, and attempt to put his elbows back, and try to not let him roll over. this whole time, we are face to face, almost cheek to cheek, breathing hard, and whispering so we didnt wake up his girl in the corner. (this entire time i thought it was a fucking wet dream).

then we were done, and wet from our sweat, i told him i was going to my car to get a new shirt, and he said "hey, why dont we just hang out shirtless for a while and watch some TV?" so i complied, and we sat next to each other in the reclining love seat and watched.

sometime later, between the constant hanging out, we played a game of modified kings cup, (kings cup is a drinking game with cards) and we modified it by writing dares on index cards, and put them in a stack, and then we had to draw out of the stack each time we drew a heart from a 52 card deck.

it was just myself, him, and his girl playing, locked in his room. he eventually drew an index card that stated "take off whatever clothes you wish, and everyone has to match your removals", and guess what he does? he gets naked!!! so we all end up naked sitting next to each other drinking and playing this game. he gets up and jiggles his dick in my face right in front of his girl while he is throwing a bottle cap away, like some kind of straight guy straight guy tease?? it was fun for me, but i held my composure, and then looked at his girl with a "whats going on look" cause i didnt know what else to do. i was too shy to get totally naked, so i held onto my dick the entire time, and he tried to talk me into removing my hand.

later in the summer, he invites me to vacation with his family into a tropical resort in mexico. he brought a couple other friends too, but he spent most of his time with me. his girl couldnt come with him. every morning, he always approached me and got things rolling with the sun block, deciding that we should put the sun block on each other's backs. and we did. i wish i could describe to you the feeling of enjoyment i had running that cool sunblock over these rippling back muscles, and thin waist, and hard triceps. it was awsome, and having his hands on me was great too. i did the shoulders, and the colar bones, and when i had extra sunblock on my hands, i asked him if he wanted it on his arms or more on the back, and he says "put it on my chest". (are you beginning to wonder like i did if i was supposed to be moving ahead with something?)

later we both got sunburned, so our daily thing was sunblock in the morning, moisturizer in the evening before bed. well, of course we do each other, and then he wants me to put it on his chest and belly. i loved evey minute of it, but i was too afraid to make any kind of move. perhaps he was too?

to end the summer, after hanging out all the time, we played one more drnking game, but i never ended up completely naked, but he and his girlfriend did, and he sat there, trying to keep his hand on his cock and balls, and rolled around on the carpet, laying on it. he would sit up on his elbows and i could see everything clearly. he must have known.

he has hundreds of friends on the social networking sites, and is very popular at school, and at every party he goes too. when he has get togethers, many show up. if you saw him, you first reaction would be that he was hot, popular, and able to hang out with whomever he wants. off all his friends that i met, and the girl i met, he chose to hang out with me the most, and the entire time actually, like i said, there was hardly a day that we didnt hang out, and all those days, im talking about ALL DAY LONG.

i am honored, and still honored to be his friend, and this "summer of teasing" has been incredible. i cant stop day dreaming about how nice it would be to physically express to him how thankful i am that he called me his best friend.

NOW I HOPE YOU READ THE WHOLE THING, CAN YOU ALL TELL ME IF I MISSED SOME MESSAGE HE WAS TRYING TO TELL ME, OR WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE?
 
Sounds like a good straight to me. I wouldn't think anything of it. Probably all in your head.
 
Ask him or dare him to tell you what you can do differently at the time.
 
Sounds like a good straight to me. I wouldn't think anything of it. Probably all in your head.
this is what i thought the entire time, and thus, never made any kind of moves.

i just found it to be strange that he wanted to spend so much time with me, i never had a friend do that before.

i was worried i was missing something he was trying to hint at, but i feel a little more comfortable now.

i think to have a little more fun and perhaps to "test the waters" i will make my index cards a little more risky than before (have to read post #1 for this). in the last game, his girlfriend wrote a card saying that "all the dicks in the game had to be measured, and the shortest had to drink their whole drink", (that card never came up though) so if she is getting more sexual, why shouldnt i right? LOL

thanks for your comments guy, i hope to hear more, and some other situations where you were also teased and what you did or didnt do.....
 
^^ what you say is true, and what i had learned by reading these boards for years is how the gay or bi guy gets the hots for the straight guy, and it doesnt lead to anything, or it leads to a loss of friendship. i avoided that by never making a move, and just enjoying the scenery while it was there. i thought my case was different cause i wasnt actively hitting on him or trying to push forward with anything, it was allways him calling, or him wanting to do stuff.

just wanted to make sure i was seeing nothing. sue was a tease though.

anybody else got some stories?
 
Ha believe me hes just fucking with you when i told my friends i was "bi" they constantly joked around with me in a gay way just like the way hes messing with you
 
I agree with one of the other posters on this thread in that it sounds like you have a perfectly straight male friend that is comfortable with himself and you. The rest is in your head (would be in mine too.)

The only thing I kept wondering as I read your description of the summer's events was that his overt behavior seems to be geared at over-compensating...although I am not sure at what. Is he trying to show that he is just comfortable with you...is he trying to show off for the GF, is he gay curious....... It's the overtness of his behaviour that leads me to question it....that is about the only flag I read from your post.

Good luck and continue as you are....stay laid back and let the cards fall where they will.
 
I am sorry if i missed this but does he know you are gay/bi?

also my bet is he is bi btw or at least curious if he doesnt know you are gay/bi your should tell him and if it gets painful with the teasing make some comment about how he is pressing your self control or something then he should either be more careful about teasing you or admit to being bi ahah
 
I am sorry if i missed this but does he know you are gay/bi?

also my bet is he is bi btw or at least curious if he doesnt know you are gay/bi your should tell him and if it gets painful with the teasing make some comment about how he is pressing your self control or something then he should either be more careful about teasing you or admit to being bi ahah
nope, he doesnt know a thing, everyone believes me to be totally straight. i also think that since his girl is his first "real relationship" and he gets irritated with he so easily, i wonder if he is happy.

i also thought since he was a wrestler, he is used to having everyone look at his scantially clothed body, and just feels comfortable being shirtless every freaking time i come over. or being naked in front of me. us being naked may have been his way of bonding. i also wonder if wrestlers have a bigger chance of being bicurious because they are around alot of guys, barely wearing clothes, and always making close contact with each other. (anybody have an opinion on this??)

this is the thing we all have to learn i guess, is that things straight guys do mean totally different things to us. and we dont know if what we are seeing is a mixed signal, or an intentional signal, especially when its more unusual that we are used to.
 
Hmmm....He is definately comfortable being naked but that does not really explain his pressing you to get naked...I would think he would probably be a pretty safe person to come out to... Just my opinion though
 
He is a egotist,I think someone like him who keeps showing off himself to a presumed straight friend is egotist, and that he gets you and his girlfriend around at the same time isn't a bicurious guy's behavior because he doesn't think about you in the sexual way ,he just needs everybody around him, and I think that's egotism
 
There are many attractive heterosexual males out there who don't mind befriending bisexual or homosexual males and spending time with them. When there's a mutual attraction or desire, it's obvious and hard to ignore. But we can't ruin friendships over lust...guys that get along spend time together, regardless of age, orientation, religion, race, etc.
 
to give an update, and make a long story super short, I have taken the advice of some of the posters on here and begun to distance myself from him. I will see what happens. Im a little pissed at him at the moment cause I feel disrespected (another story, another day perhaps) but anyway Im going to use those negative feelings to make this transition easy. I will keep what I wanted from him in fantasy, and embrace reality. thank you all for reading and commenting, feel free to keep writing if you have any other thoghts or ideas.
 
Sounds like you had a great summer buddy! It's awesome that you've got a friend this close who wants to be with you every day. He obviously respects you as much as you respect him.
 
he always wanted to show me his wrestling moves,
I dont even think I want to read after this, I'm ''happy'' enough...but I will.

Ok I read the post. He sounds like an average STR8 guy who is secure. Also, str8 guys act like that all the time. Guys, we like to hang with our best buds, and we feel very comfotable with them. Look at married guys, they ditch their wives sometimes to hang with their friends, so it is just that cool conneciton you have.

But it can always be a sexual one, you never know but I' think it is my first idea.
 
Wrestling supposedly attracts more gay/bi men than any other sport. Thought to be due to the constant contact with other men. I had a fuck buddy who was in wrestling in high school. He lives with a girl friend but also likes his time with the guys. I would say to go for it when you have your next tease session. Just go down on him. He should like the feeling and go with it.
 
to give an update, and make a long story super short, I have taken the advice of some of the posters on here and begun to distance myself from him. I will see what happens. Im a little pissed at him at the moment cause I feel disrespected (another story, another day perhaps) but anyway Im going to use those negative feelings to make this transition easy. I will keep what I wanted from him in fantasy, and embrace reality. thank you all for reading and commenting, feel free to keep writing if you have any other thoghts or ideas.

people can be really negative when it comes to situations like this.

that said, you've a great friend. just leave it at friendship. no point in going and messing that up, you know. at the same time, there's no reason to distance yourself or completely separate if you enjoy the friendship as it is. that says you're only out for something sexual, and having been denied this will jettison a perfectly good friendship. i'd imagine the time you've spent with the dude has been fun, so why not have a great friend around?
 
people can be really negative when it comes to situations like this.

that said, you've a great friend. just leave it at friendship. no point in going and messing that up, you know. at the same time, there's no reason to distance yourself or completely separate if you enjoy the friendship as it is. that says you're only out for something sexual, and having been denied this will jettison a perfectly good friendship. i'd imagine the time you've spent with the dude has been fun, so why not have a great friend around?
things went a little bit better recently, and iv pretty much done what you have said. i just got off of a video conference call with him that lasted over two hours. it was nice to see him again, and chit chat about all the things that have been happening. i recognize it will never be anyting more, but its still great to have a friend like him.
 
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