Trigamy or Triad Relationship

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

I'm very curious about this and wanted to know more about it. Anyone on the forum in this type of relationship?

Looking for either a bi or all gay type of relationship.

How could you start or find triad relationships?

Also, would this be more popular on the east or west coast?

 

[Rolyo85]

It wouldn't be popular anywhere. These things are unstable and therefore rare. They depend on very specific types of people, and are generally something that naturally evolves around those people.

 

[Ninja108]

I concur with what Roly said.
The fun with a triad relationship will wear off sooner or later and when it does, the ending usually isn't good.
I know someone that was in one and it fell apart in less then a year. And when it did, it took the relationship with his boyfriend of six years with it.
Another couple I read about (male/female) decided to bring in a man to spice up the relationship. The male ended up leaving his girlfriend for the guy.
Bottom line, NOTHING good will come out of this kind of relationship, just stick to one person.

 

[Rolyo85]

And if you're itching for more, just have threesomes.

 

[TX-Beau]

Depends on the people, usually the dynamics of a relationship are difficult enough to navigate with only two, but there are the group marriage set out there who would tell you different.

Some HUGE factors in the success of any kind of multiple, are the temperament, confidence, and maturity levels of the participants.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

They do exist and can last, but it's a subset of a subset.

Do bear in mind, however, that most straights, some recalcitrant lesbians and many sad, sad homosexuals feel the same way about 'ordinary' relationships between two gay men in terms of impossibility.

 

[bankside]

Never been in a situation like that.

I don't really enjoy eroticism on the physical level without also having eroticism on the emotional level at the same time, and I don't like relationships without loyalty or durability. So for me a hook-up style threesome is out of the question. However at least in theory I could get all those things I need out of a situation that was not monogamous.

It's interesting that while I notice all sorts of hot guys in real life or in porn, my fantasy life is pretty much about situations with guys who have made an impression on me years ago. When they show up in my dreams, they're there for my guy as much as me. If anyone has found that in the real world, I wish them well. I do think we can be inseparable with more than one person, and I have no complaints about a world where that could happen all the time without people freaking out.