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Hey guys! I have been searching the internet but I haven't found very much helpful advice on this matter. Getting to the point, I recently started dating a guy whom I feel an amazing connection with. After waiting for a couple months we had sex this weekend. It was amazing except I couldn't manage to get off. Fortunately my partner is very understanding and not stressed about it I have never had this issue before and I am worried. Here are some of my theories: A) He is pretty well endowed so it may just take some getting used to B) I haven't had feelings for anyone like this since my first love C) Maybe I am just not able to relax enough yet.

Any tips, suggestions, or ideas would be amazingly helpful! Thanks guys
 
It could be nerves. That happened to me a few times when I first had sex with guys. It will pass once you are comfortable with having sex with a guy.

If you're able to get off with porn, maybe you two should have porn on the TV for him to try to get you off.
 
Any tips? Practice makes perfect ;) Go get 'em tiger!
 
I have a friend who has this same problem. Nerves and anxiety.
 
It happened the same thing to me some time ago and it's quite normal, because it's easier to have sex with someone you're not sentimentally committed to. Don't think too much about it: sexual pressure makes it worse. Just remember you don't have to prove anything to yourself or to your partner, just have a good time. The perfect strategy in this situation is... not having a strategy! I would only suggest to dedicate more time on petting: it helps to make you feel confortable.

(I apologize if my english isn't perfect! :P)
 
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