Trying To Find A Guy To Mess Around With.

[jubdown5]

I'm a bisexual and after visiting this forum I'm more than ready to mess around with a guy. I find myself looking at pictures/videos of guys more and more and fantasizing A LOT. My straight friends are beyond hot but I would never risk asking 1 of them to mess around. I would even settle for their underwear/socks but have had no luck snagging a pair.

I'm only attracted to masculine guys from 18 up, but would want my first guy to be between like 18 and 26/27. Even though a lot of guys in their 30s/40s are beyond hot.

I joined ManHunt but that doesn't seem to be working out well and I don't wanna pay. Craigslist seems kind of sketchy.

So I don't really know where to go from here!

 

[jubdown5]

Any suggestions at all on where to begin?

 

[mark1111]

I've had luck in coffee houses. They tend to be casual and easy to meet and talk to people. Try ones in or near gay areas, avoid dunkin donuts, its not really a place to meet people.

Find an activity you like. I have always had good times surfing, changing out of my wet suit always gets reactions from guys. Not the best way to meet a bf, good for hot hook up.

Good luck and welcome to JUB

 

[gumshoe]

I'd suggest meeting up with guys for coffee dates. Sometimes it feels like a lot of work to actually go on "dates" with guys just for sex but it's probably the best way so you can build up a sense of trust before doing anything. Otherwise, manhunt might be the best way to go. It's pretty easy where I live, I think, to set up a hookup depending on how picky you want to be.

 

[Telstra]

Are you hot?
Sounds like you are abit picky.

 

[palemale]

Adam4Adam works well for me in NYC. It's free. And if you visit NY, I'll mess around with you. Of course, I'm way outside your target age range, but I'm very hot.

 

[jubdown5]

Thanks for the advice so far! Hoping I make progress soon.

 

[palemale]

Thanks for the advice so far! Hoping I make progress soon.

Hey, a bi-curious virgin just contacted me on Adam4Adam. Was that you? See, you wouldn't be the first bi-curious guy on the site.

 

[chace1617]

if you find someone send him to me too!

 

[palemale]

if you find someone send him to me too!

I'm starting to like the idea of looking for a bi-curious virgin myself. And if that's you in your avatar, come find me!!!! Hell, even if it's not you, come find me.

 

[AsianDream]

Any suggestions at all on where to begin?

I'd definitely suggest you try a gay sauna (Bath house) - really good place to meet guys for casual playing around.