trying to get wife to let me in her ass...

[TylerDurden222]

she's only let me try a few times, but it never works. she always screams from the pain. i bought some beads (which she loves) and a plug which was the jelly type and we eventually threw it away since it always had hair/dirt stuck to it.

so, i'm going to sex shop tomorrow. and i'm getting my cock in that ass if it kills me. what is the best toy to buy? I'll buy 10 if i have to. should I do a larger set of beads? a Dildo a big plug, one that vibrates, or an expandable one?

i'm sure if i can get a good plug/Dildo up there, and leave it there for 20 minutes, that hole will be ripe for my cock.

any tips?

and what is best lube for an anal virgin?

 

[TylerDurden222]

amber can tell you

http://www.deviantclip.com/Media-79835_Amber.html

A) she's clearly on drugs
B) she didn't take it in the ass (which is what I'm looking for)
C) i'd love to have her pin me down and lick my ass though!!!

 

[leomendez93]

My guess you have gotten to be treated the way you want your wife to be treated. Bend over and let others do to you what you want to do with her..then maybe and in a remote maybe you may understand her. If that is not the case, try first to make her horny because it sounds you are basically just telling her... bend over, shut up and take it.

 

[jhnphilipps]

get dvd's of chicks getting it up their asses. then, slowly play with her anus with ur finger(s)...until she comes begging for ur dick inside her rectum.

 

[ozguy]

Stop being so selfish and demanding. If she doesn't want you to fuck her in the arse then don't keep trying! Sexual satisfaction/fulfillment is all about mutual trust, enjoyment and pleasure.

Just be satisfied with the toys she's happy for you to use.

 

[TylerDurden222]

she wants to take it, but everytime we do it she struggles.
its painful for her, but we always rush it, i give up, and just bang her pussy.

so i am on a mission, to fuck her ass, cum in it, and make sure she loves every minute of it.

 

[ozguy]

..... we always rush it

Well there's your problem.

 

[wastingmymind]

Let her ride it first?

 

[justsimon]

i'm sure if i can get a good plug/dildo up there, and leave it there for 20 minutes, that hole will be ripe for my cock.

It's more likely that she'll be ready for a break at that point.

Try helping her relax with a massage or something. Move onto oral, then rimming and then gentle fingering. Or finger her ass while you go down on her. Take it slow and use lots of lube. Also, try it with her on top.

 

[NineOfClubs]

Well there's your problem.

Exactly what I wanted to say.

Even with us hedonistic, greedy homos, we know to take it slow.

 

[lambdaboy]

This is not in any way meant derogatory toward women. I can tell you that over 90% will not go for it because it hurts.

I love to service hot str8 guys and I find it easier to get one to fuck me in the ass then let me suck them off.

I have found so many str8 guys that want to fuck ass just once and can not get girls to let them. No like by just saying in confidence to str8 guys ass is ass if you want fuck me and you will at least have tried it. It works.

I also have been surpised at how gently str8 guys are prob because at some point they tried to do anal with a girl. I have a fairly smooth ass so once they take me doggy it might as well bea girls ass. Man I love it

 

[TylerDurden222]

$200 later we are home from the sex shop. added two vibrating butt plugs (his and hers), a big plug, and a bottle of lube. i just showered and shave my body, wife is about to do the same. can wait to taste her sweet pussy as I pound the plugs in her tight asshole. then, i hope to work my tongue back there and eventually replace the plugs with my cock. she's pumped, i'm pumped. getting precum just thinking about it....

 

[tommyj]

have her try poppers dude

 

[Darkflower]

Well there's your problem.

+1

I'm making some assumptions, but . . .

Does she really want it, or does she really want it for YOU? To please you?

I would assume that it would be really hard for her to relax if, in the back of her mind, is the spectre of your disappointment should she be unable to give release to your sense of urgency around this.

It kind of reminds me of how frustrating it can be when I'm with a man and he's urging me to cum . . . yes, because he wants me to feel good, but also because it's a turn-on for him. A lot of men don't understand that for many of us, our desire and responsiveness doesn't freaking work like that, no matter what orifice you want to pleasure or take pleasure from. We don't have the benefit of so much surface area to work with, and our bodies just don't work the same way. What gets our bodies ready, in general, is more nuanced than that, and feeling pressured, or as if someone is making the experience too goal-oriented or too much about them, is the antithesis of that.

Plus, let's face it . . . she doesn't have a prostate. What the frick is in it for her, really, aside from fulfilling one of your desires? What's the impetus for her to want it or like it? I realize you're trying to find that impetus, because for some women it can be found, but I hope you'll be able to accept it if it can't be.

 

[tommyj]

LOL apparently...I think it was the poppers!!

 

[lambdaboy]

Good luck being gay I can tell you I can get a straigth guy to fuck my ass even if just ocne because girls do not enjoy it they have no prostate.

I think porn makes us think that most love it.

 

[TylerDurden222]

still working on it, been using a few different plugs/dildos on her, she likes ass play, especially when i have a plug in her and I plow her pussy, but my dick's just too big for her right now. I bought some of my own butt toys, she wants me to "stretch" with her, so I said sure

my wife has the best ass ever, nice firm bubble, smells yummy too...

 

[Lefty]

I dunno tyler...sounds to me like you are a major pain in the ass to that poor woman.

 

[tommyj]

Pics or it doesnt happen

 

[TylerDurden222]

I dunno tyler...sounds to me like you are a major pain in the ass to that poor woman.

she loves assplay, just can't squeeze my cock in there yet. so far beads/plugs/dildos work for her, she cums like crazy, just trying to get the meat stick in there to fill her ass with some cum