I have had over 500, its probably closer to 700 or 800. And, no I am not exagerating. I was just dick crazy. I started having sex (mostly oral) when I was 8, I loved it immediately! I was always very preoccupied with sex,I blew all the guys in the neighborhood, family members and friends of my dad. I practically lived at our local rest area as soon as I got my drivers license. My college had a very hot, busy tea room, that I would spend hours at, I almost flunked out of school, because I was spending so much time there. Now I live in a town with a well know cruising park, and I have 3 rest areas within 25 miles. I also like to pick up guys off the street. All this happened in small towns in Michigan, and I am not some drop dead gorgeous god, just an average mexican guy, a little overweight, very friendly and a great sense of humor. I would say approximately 85% were one time encounters where I would blow the guy and most were straight (at least thats what they said). I have a thing for straight guys. I am now 46 and a total bottom and have never been with a woman.
So anyways, I was just wondering how I compared to you other guys. I really hope I am not the only guy with this type of number, oh well at least I not 21 with these stats. Not to say there is anything wrong with being 21 with stats like these.
I found the following information while investigating this:
Research indicates that the average male homosexual has hundreds of sex partners in his lifetime:
· The Dutch study of partnered homosexuals, which was published in the journal AIDS, found that men with a steady partner had an average of eight sexual partners per year.
* Xiridou, 1031.
· Bell and Weinberg, in their classic study of male and female homosexuality, found that 43 percent of white male homosexuals had sex with 500 or more partners, with 28 percent having one thousand or more sex partners.
* A. P. Bell and M. S. Weinberg, Homosexualities: A Study of Diversity Among Men and Women (New York: Simon and Schuster, 1978), pp. 308, 309; See also A. P. Bell, M. S. Weinberg, and S. K. Hammersmith, Sexual Preference (Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 1981).
· In their study of the sexual profiles of 2,583 older homosexuals published in the Journal of Sex Research, Paul Van de Ven et al. found that "the modal range for number of sexual partners ever [of homosexuals] was 101-500." In addition, 10.2 percent to 15.7 percent had between 501 and 1,000 partners. A further 10.2 percent to 15.7 percent reported having had more than one thousand lifetime sexual partners.
*Paul Van de Ven et al., "A Comparative Demographic and Sexual Profile of Older Homosexually Active Men," Journal of Sex Research 34 (1997): 354.
· A survey conducted by the homosexual magazine Genre found that 24 percent of the respondents said they had had more than one hundred sexual partners in their lifetime. The magazine noted that several respondents suggested including a category of those who had more than one thousand sexual partners.
* "Sex Survey Results," Genre (October 1996), quoted in "Survey Finds 40 percent of Gay Men Have Had More Than 40 Sex Partners," Lambda Report, January 1998: 20.
16. Ryan Lee, "Gay Couples Likely to Try Non-monogamy, Study Shows," Washington Blade (August 22, 2003): 18.
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