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Uncomfortable/Loose? Anus after 2 weeks

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I have looked everywhere to see if anyone else has had the same issue before I decided to register and post.

I enjoy anal dildoing myself, it makes my cum shoot further than anything else can. However, recently, about 2 weeks ago, I graduated from a small anal plug to a Dildo I used a lot of lube and took it slow and eased it in. Everything was great!

However, ever since I used that Dildo it appears that my external anal ring, has a small hole, the size of a dime now. And it just won't tighten up. Everybody talks about it tigbhtening up, but mine apparently stayed. If I squat, I can actually let out a loaf by accident with very little effort. Or at least that was a few days ago.

Another problem I have is that it is uncomfortable for me to sit down. My boxers and pants always ride up my butt and I can feel it rubbing me down there when I'm sitting. No matter how much I adjust I can't sit as comfortable as Iused to without favoring one cheek. I also feel as if I'm leaking but I'm actually not, but I can feel it like it's wet. I also feel uncomfortable when walking because I can feel my anus as if it is leaking and tender and my pants and boxer try to ride up it as I walk. The other day my buddy said I looked like I am limping and wondered if I was okay.

Lastly, I have been letting out loose stools about once a day for the past week.

Will my butt ever feel comfortable again? will that outside sphincter eventaully go back? Has anyone ever heard of this?
 
Easy answer. See a doctor! If this has been going on for two week, I imagine that you may have ruptured something.
 
mustangman said:
Easy answer. See a doctor! If this has been going on for two week, I imagine that you may have ruptured something.
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But there was no pain or bleeding. Wouldn't at least one of those two symptoms have occured?
 
What you're describing isn't normal even for someone who has been playing with dildos.

It's time for an appointment with the doctor.
 
I am setting up an appointment with the doctor, but knowing that I am going to see a doctor still does not relieve any anxiety. I am still very worried, is this something that can be fixed? :(

I feel so uncomfortable, and I fear that I am risking incontinence. :cry:
 
This is not usual for the after effects of dildoes, in my experience, even with standard large size ones. It sounds like you have used it correctly with a good amount of lube and careful use.

If the Dildo has anything to do with it at all, which I doubt, I'm guessing it affected you differently because of something already going on down there. Of course it is good you are seeing a doctor because it definitely sounds like it should be dealt with.

I hope this is the kind of doctor who can feel comfortable when you talk about the fact you have tried anal toys. If not, I think you should find a doctor who is comfortable.

Take care!
 
Dont be too concerned about it. It may be as easy as a hemmeroid removal which is very easy.
 
bankside said:
I hope this is the kind of doctor who can feel comfortable when you talk about the fact you have tried anal toys. If not, I think you should find a doctor who is comfortable.

Take care!
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Thank you for your imput, and for everyone elses support. That is what I came to this forum for and you are all helping me feel more confident and less depressed about the situation.

As for the doctor, in my opinion, if my doctor is not comfortable with assisting a patient that has a medical issue then he shouldn't be a doctor! In fact, that should be the forum's slogan! ...

I'd rather have a somewhat awkward moment with my doctor for a day and be treated back to health than be "too macho" to see my doc and be stuck with something that can be treated.
 
Jumper256 said:
I am setting up an appointment with the doctor, but knowing that I am going to see a doctor still does not relieve any anxiety. I am still very worried, is this something that can be fixed? :(

I feel so uncomfortable, and I fear that I am risking incontinence. :cry:
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Please let us know how your appointment goes.
 
Revisiting this post... I have been to the doctor at least 6 times since this has started and they haven't been able to find anything.. they've taken a look in my anus, conducted some x-rays and even an MRI and even taken some stool samples and they said that they can't find anything... btw .. I started getting pain about a month after my lat post in the thread some few years ago.. and that hasn't really gone away either. I'm no longer a bottom.. I guess it's just not for me... in fact I don't even crave it anymore... I don't regret being the person I am... but if I had known before that I would be uncomfortable like this for so long (going on 2 years now), then I probably would have not continued....

I've been to about 3 different family doctors and 2 emergency doctors... and one nurse practitioner... Is there a doctor with a special practice for this?
 
Why the heck would they do x-rays? Unless a portion of the Dildo fell off up there (which I somewhat doubt) they shouldn't be doing it. Regardless, you should look into doctors who specialize in the colon area. They probably will know what to do. Good luck.
 
Did they mention if your anus was uncommonly loose?

Maybe it is all in your head?

If your backside is all in one piece and they can't see anything wrong with it then it doesn't add up...

Seek out a proctologist who can have a more informed look at you if you are still suffering from issues with self control and think that there is something wrong down there.
 
I suggest you google "rectal prolapse" and see if the symptoms seem similar.
 
One form of prolapse does not extend out and would not be visually apparent. I hope you did some reading as there is not much else it could be..
 
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