chrisdobro
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First, I must say that I am hyper-sensitive to things in general. That can have its ups but downs as well.
One thing that inconveniences me the most is how guys suck my dick. I am uncut, and almost 90% of the time, first thing guys do is pull my foreskin all the way down and start sucking on me. Let me convey this to you -- it hurts like hell.
The way I like it is when my foreskin stays "rolled up", or "pulled up" almost all the way up the penis shaft, covering my tip almost entirely. Then I like gentle sensitive sucking on my tip and shaft till I get hard and ready. Further sucking increases blood flow to the penis, I get harder, and my foreskin slightly rolls down by itself, exposing the tip of the penis. As the guy sucks further, I get more and more flow and get harder and harder and my foreskin may slip down and expose the tip of my penis entirely. This way - slow and methodical way, where my foreskin goes down by itself is the preferred way to get my penis sucked. This way I get used to the sensation gradually and my tip does not hurt while my penis is being sucked.
Back to the time when guys pull my foreskin down right away. Sometimes, if their technique is gentle it's not too bad, but most of the times I cringe, grimace, and hurt, because my freshly-exposed tip is very very sensitive. I always assumed that it is because I am uncut and my foreskin covering my penis made my tip sensitive this way. But I think that me being hypersensitive in general also contributes to me being extra sensitive about it. Also, when I see them pulling my foreskin down, I might also be mentally setting myself up for pain. Whatever happens, I am not very happy, and often I get soft, and that does not add to my experience.
When I am in a one on one situation, I generally tell the guy to "pull my foreskin up and keep it there, because if feels better that way". Sometimes I have to repeat myself or use different words, because I guess it is an unusual request for most guys, who haven't touched an uncut penis. When I stick to my words, it usually works and guys relent to my request, and then I can relax and get into the moment and the mood. Sometimes I might have to remind them once or twice, if they get into it and forget what I said and do it again.
For some reason I do not like explaining it. I think it is because I feel that I do not want to break the moment, or I don't want to go through the lengthy explanation, feeling that it diminishes me in some way, makes me a "cry baby", and that I need to suck it up and bear it.
When I am in a heat of a 3some for example and it happens, sometimes I don't say anything and just bear it, even though it tends to make me go soft. I need a better way, or maybe just a different way to convey to people that my needs are to be met.
What would you suggest in my case? Do I stick to "pause the action and explain" technique or are there nonverbal ques I can try, or maybe do something else entirely, when it comes to the experience of getting oral sex?
One thing that inconveniences me the most is how guys suck my dick. I am uncut, and almost 90% of the time, first thing guys do is pull my foreskin all the way down and start sucking on me. Let me convey this to you -- it hurts like hell.
The way I like it is when my foreskin stays "rolled up", or "pulled up" almost all the way up the penis shaft, covering my tip almost entirely. Then I like gentle sensitive sucking on my tip and shaft till I get hard and ready. Further sucking increases blood flow to the penis, I get harder, and my foreskin slightly rolls down by itself, exposing the tip of the penis. As the guy sucks further, I get more and more flow and get harder and harder and my foreskin may slip down and expose the tip of my penis entirely. This way - slow and methodical way, where my foreskin goes down by itself is the preferred way to get my penis sucked. This way I get used to the sensation gradually and my tip does not hurt while my penis is being sucked.
Back to the time when guys pull my foreskin down right away. Sometimes, if their technique is gentle it's not too bad, but most of the times I cringe, grimace, and hurt, because my freshly-exposed tip is very very sensitive. I always assumed that it is because I am uncut and my foreskin covering my penis made my tip sensitive this way. But I think that me being hypersensitive in general also contributes to me being extra sensitive about it. Also, when I see them pulling my foreskin down, I might also be mentally setting myself up for pain. Whatever happens, I am not very happy, and often I get soft, and that does not add to my experience.
When I am in a one on one situation, I generally tell the guy to "pull my foreskin up and keep it there, because if feels better that way". Sometimes I have to repeat myself or use different words, because I guess it is an unusual request for most guys, who haven't touched an uncut penis. When I stick to my words, it usually works and guys relent to my request, and then I can relax and get into the moment and the mood. Sometimes I might have to remind them once or twice, if they get into it and forget what I said and do it again.
For some reason I do not like explaining it. I think it is because I feel that I do not want to break the moment, or I don't want to go through the lengthy explanation, feeling that it diminishes me in some way, makes me a "cry baby", and that I need to suck it up and bear it.
When I am in a heat of a 3some for example and it happens, sometimes I don't say anything and just bear it, even though it tends to make me go soft. I need a better way, or maybe just a different way to convey to people that my needs are to be met.
What would you suggest in my case? Do I stick to "pause the action and explain" technique or are there nonverbal ques I can try, or maybe do something else entirely, when it comes to the experience of getting oral sex?
I'm good with the uncut guys
