Unexpected visit to a make spa

[Mikey123]

I would definitely describe myself as in the closet. No desire to come out for various reasons. A couple of years ago, I found a make spa in town. Visited it a couple of times and had a good time, but was always scared about being found out. Decided to try it again but found it had closed. Found another one that's about an hour away from home. I live in a big city so I'm feeling pretty safe about that. I'm a little less nervous than last time when I get there. But something was definitely different here. I get a room, towel, and shower. Then I walk. And walk. There were about 20 guys there. Mostly older guys and they didn't really turn me on. I was surprised that not much was really happening. Just a bunch of guys walking around in towels. I was prepped for oral mentally but it just didn't happen. Maybe I'll check it out again next week, just hate to waste the time.

 

[SeaCore]

I'm not familiar with that term. What's a make spa?

If I recall there is some kind of app designed for people in the closet that you might want to look into if your goal is to experiment without being outed. Of course, you'd want to research the efficacy of the app. I'm not entirely sure how it'd be able to prevent accidental outings. But if you find it appeals to your sense of privacy it might be a better investment of your time!

 

[Nealm1]

No point in going to those places unless you are willing to approach other guys - usually they are all too shy to initiate anything - so if you do, they jump at the chance!!

 

[Seasoned]

I believe you are writing about “male” spas. Time of day and day of the week matters in these places as far as clientele.

 

[Hidden Element]

I would agree that time of day/week really does play a factor here. Weekends will be much busier plus evenings during the week. Lunch times could also see a spike.

Go on squirt.org and see if ur location is on there. There's a chat on each page so members can talk about the venue and discuss meet ups and tips