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Unresolved Crush

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So I meet a guy in school. After a bit I got the courage to talk to him. Then later on I asked for his number. I asked if he'd like to hang some time and he said he wanted to. So I gave it some time and finally texted him, but he answered six hours later. So I gave it another go, another day and he never responded. I got it and moved on... or tried.

Of course we had another class, but we ignored each other, at first.

Then he started acting strangely toward me. I figured if I could tell him I was gay and had a crush on him he'd get it one way or the other.

I wanted to tell him, but when I tried to approach him he got all freaked out and ran. So I was very confused. Then the next class he went out of the way to get my attention, but then nothing happened, he never said anything. I tried to just go with the flow with whatever he wanted, but it seemed he was too scared or something, but kept on trying to get my attention.

I'm all done with school, so probably won't see him again, but it's just bugging me.

I was thinking of sending an email, just telling him what was up, cause it's been nagging at the back of my mind. It'd be cool to get closure. Just a curiosity, a what if I have.

Bad idea?
 
Not necessarily. It would be ok to explain yourself. I think I'd out myself and let him know I would have liked to have gotten to know him outside of class and just leave it at that b
 
Seasoned said:
Not necessarily. It would be ok to explain yourself. I think I'd out myself and let him know I would have liked to have gotten to know him outside of class and just leave it at that b
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I agree with Seasoned. By texting him one more time you put the ball in his court. He has your number from the texting so if he wants to continue a friendship he can answer. But I would make that the last contact unless he responds positively. Good luck.

Craiger
 
Explaining may make him at ease or tell him his feeling were warranted or not.
..| Either way, it should make you feel better just to get it out there.

:!:
The downside is if it just freaks him out and he starts bashing on you.​
 
I would let it go and move on. Most of the crushes I had were unresolved and that is OK. Life is messy.

I think you pretty much already got the message he was sending.
 
eastofeden said:
I would let it go and move on. Most of the crushes I had were unresolved and that is OK. Life is messy.

I think you pretty much already got the message he was sending.
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^^^ THIS.

Move on. There's nothing to be gained by beating a dead horse.
 
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