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Unsatisfied with partners Penis - HELP!

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fastfox347

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I have been off and on with my BF for three years. A seriously good person who I truly adore. However his penis is average sized at 6.5 inches. On a recent break I have found a huge desire to sexually be with men with larger penis'. In our relationship I am the bottom and I enjoy that role. I don't only crave a larger penis for penetration purposes but also find it much more arousing in foreplay, and such... I am losing sexual interest in my partner and it is beginning to effect our relationship. Any suggestions?#-o
 
Don't really know what to say. But maybe you are not really looking for a relationship.
 
You need to talk to you BF about your concerns and discuss what the two of you might do to solve the problem together. I think you have to look at big picture. Big penis does not equal love.
 
a big penis doesn't mean anything just try to get over it and maybe be more experimental during sex so he peaks ur interest.....plus big dicks usually follows with asshole guys....save ur relationship u never wanna loose a good guy
 
You might have to say good-bye to him. Since we don't go around naked you are going to have to withold judgement on any potential partner until you get to see his dick. If size is a deal breaker for you please don't wait until you find a bigger one to break up with your bf.

Porn is all about size and obviously a big one is fun to play with, but size first personality later means you are objectifying. That's fine for a hook up. There ought to be lots of creative play the two of you could do to satisfy your craving.
 
Then your more into a being a size queen than being with someone who cares about you and you about them.

LOVE see's no bounderies. It's a package deal. So either you move on with your life or you stay with him because you love him--no matter what.

I have been with my honey for 26+ yrs and he is average at 6-1/2".

But I am with him because I love him and he loves me. And he can work that cock of his like no other. He always makes me cum just be fucking me and I dont even touch my dick at all. He give me the most amazing prostate massages ever, sucks my cock which is bigger to the hilt, rims me like insane. And it does not matter his average size. He had that size when we met and still now.

You just see parts of guys you want not the whole man that is in front of you.

And thats a shame. Then be a decent person and let someone else love and respect him, he is better off with you as you only care for a piece of him.

such a shame....
 
There are penis extenders. Pretty much a sleeve that your boyfriend can wear to make his penis seem bigger. It may be something you can both try unless you are insistent on feeling a real penis. You could of course, attempt an open relationship but at that point in time, it may be best to just break it off.
 
First of all I am in no way trying to put the size of anyones penis above or in front of him being an amazing person. This in NO WAY is a deal breaker. The problem is that i am growing satisfied with JUST his love and support and desiring sex less and less. No real problem for me, but this leaves him incredibly horny without regular sex. I just need to try and come up with a way to get myself excited about sex again. :D
 
Corny said:
Don't really know what to say. But maybe you are not really looking for a relationship.
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Agree. In my view, you can't possibly love this guy if the size of his penis means that much to you. But if you do love this man and would end it because of his penis, well, I don't really know what to say.
 
fastfox347 said:
I just need to try and come up with a way to get myself excited about sex again. :D
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thats what i was saying lol toys can help but just don't let it get in the way of making love every sex session get into it cuz i really think is more of a mental block like in ur mind ur sayin its boring and not satisfying so when its happening its how u feel.
 
You can buy a toy that lasts 3 years.

You can't buy a boyfriend that lasts 3 years.

Perhaps you need to understand the difference between the cost of one and the value of the other.
 
ibill1 said:
Agree. In my view, you can't possibly love this guy if the size of his penis means that much to you. But if you do love this man and would end it because of his penis, well, I don't really know what to say.
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LOL! I would never end this because of that. I am just simply looking for a sex life that I can find more fulfillment in.
 
latinheat said:
thats what i was saying lol toys can help but just don't let it get in the way of making love every sex session get into it cuz i really think is more of a mental block like in ur mind ur sayin its boring and not satisfying so when its happening its how u feel.
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Thanks, THis is one of the few helpful responses. And I totally agree about keeping the passionate love making toy free. Has anyone ever tried a Penis Pump?
 
fastfox347 said:
Thanks, THis is one of the few helpful responses. And I totally agree about keeping the passionate love making toy free. Has anyone ever tried a Penis Pump?
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Those Pumps can damage the cock and should be used carefully. You just need to rethink your sex life and see what you can do to spice it up. Talk about your fantasy's that you still have, have sex in different places, there is so much out there to do and play with.

We reignighted our sex life by me having a fantasy of leather chaps and harness. So my honey bought some for my b-day and boy did it work.

We still have the most amazing sex now than before, not that it was bad before but now it's better and after 26 yrs together we know each other inside and out.

And I could never leave him just because he only had a 6-1/2" dick. He is the total package for me top to bottom. Plus I love the way he fucks me and massages my prostate with his cock and makes me shoot buckets of cum..
 
I think you should tell your boyfriend.

Then he can run like hell and find someone who actually loves him.

Or maybe he can make a deal.

He'll work on his penis enlargement if his boyfriend agrees to work on his deficiencies as well.:rolleyes:
 
Seriously, you say that the issue is that you're satisfied with "just his love," (your exact words)

...but you're hornier than hell...?!?!?

If his love isn't enough for you not to complain, then there might be something wrong in your relationship. Perhaps, you gotta try to work it through and try something new in bed that'll pique your interest.

Either that, or masturbate. Are you bigger?

Seriously, I couldn't imagine being that desperate to get off with a penis length that your average male population is wrought with.
 
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