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update on striaght friend

I've known straight guys to send some pretty weird signals and do some weird things, but biting another guy on the neck is not one of them. I'd say you two just need to get it on and stop dancing :)
 
*hits head on desk*

Wish someone was in my life dropping all the signals and that.

Whats the big deal about kissing him? It doesnt have to be a full blown snog! Just kiss him on the lips, fuck man I was in a pub a few weeks ago with one of my best mates joking about like we do and I kissed him on the lips infront of everyone including his girlfriend and didnt think twice about it.
If you can't find it within yourself to make some for of actual move onto this guy you will just keep avoiding the issue and eventually grow bored of eachother.

So next time you start wrestling together make sure the place you're doing this is hot, as someone else said see of you can pull his shirt over his head pretty much making him take it off. Keep wrestling and drop in how hot his body is and continue like you never said anything, when he pins you down again tell him if he doesnt get off you, you will kiss him, if he doesnt move off you bloody well kiss him!!! And stop wasting time with this guy when it seems pretty much obvious that you have a thing for each other.
The kiss will go one of three ways:

1) He recipricates and moves towards you and embraces the kiss (hot sex anyone?)
2) He accepts the kiss but doesnt show any real reaction (tell him that if he doesnt move away this time you're going to snog him :) )
3) He moves away from potential kiss (possibly been reading the signs all wrong, or hes not ready)

Good luck matey and keep us up with whats going on!

//Sorry about any spelling errors can't get my comp to check them ](*,)
 
Re: felt my hard-on

billybob109 said:
So i got my hot "straight friend" downstairs right now. I told him i have to use the bathroom so i could come upstairs and write about what just happened.

So we just got done wrestling. Some how it always comes about... But anyway he hit me in my balls and he felt my hard cock. And i think he started to giggle. So we then stood up next to the fridge getting water and i had a clear shot of his cock so i went in for a hit. I felt his cock semi-hard!!! I did not kow how to react i just got so excited, It turned me on soo much. I could not even believe it happened.
Also he says to me that im "whipped". Do you think a straight friend would say that to you? And about 20 minutes later he like attacked me on my bed and started to play with me very gently, and then he bit my neck it felt so good!
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What in the hell are you waiting for?! He obviously wouldn't mind you doing something bold if he bit your neck. That's definitely sexual. There's no way around it!

:kiss:
 
Why do you keep asking for advice when it's been the same ever since the beginning? And I thought only straight guys could be so oblivious to signs of interest. I mean come on, if nothing up until now convinced you, biting your neck? Jesus. That's homoerotic to the max.

Your complaint is that you "give him signals and he does nothing," yet the reverse is also true. He just "played with you very gently" and messed with your neck (which one could argue is certainly some kind of reciprocation to your "signals" on his part) and you're not going to do anything? How much more obvious does it need to be?

*goes to find a thread that doesn't give him blue balls*
 
Go ahead and do something! It's quite evident man. I mean, I think you should go make tehe first move. Hints are quite clear (well for me at least) and what's happening, like my situation before, you guys are going round circles.. nothing will happen til one of you evolves into a balled mammal. I think you have to make the first move :) Good luck mate! You can do it! update us!
 
Well last night he started with me again. I took someones advice and took his shirt off and grabbed his nipples[-X . He just kept on saying "dude you really are gay". Then he started to pinch mine really hard! Then we just sat on his bed watching tv. Then he kept on trying to hit my balls with his feet, In a slow way not fast almost like he was taking his time. I did the same to him, we were extremly bored. Im so confused! I dont know what to do!!! The other day he said that he needed to get laid. So what does he do he calls up some girls to meet up with them. So i left his house in anger!](*,) .
(flashback: I remember in the summer we had a party at his house and we were so drunk. The night ended and me him and this chick were in his room i was staring out the window about to leave and the chick gets on top of him and starts making out with him. OMG i wanted to KILL!!!!! I went home and could not sleep. Morning after he said they had sex all night. It is killing me inside seeing him like that with another person let alone a girl. Now this same chik earlier in the week asked him if me and him were going out, that is what he said to me. I thought that was kinda weird. Now i dont know how he does it. He can meet a girl and have sex with her the same night and then never speak to her again. I think that is why maybe he wont want to ruin our friendship if he is gay/bi.)

Im so god damn confused! Im about to tell him today that i do not want to see him anymore that it's a problem with me and not him. Either way he is moving in a year to florida. I might start going out with a girl from my old job... Why waste my time with someone younger and who is not ready to experiment yet? Id rather go out with this chick so at least we can have sex everynight. and she makes me feel good.
 
This guy seems 150% straight to me. It seems to me you are hopelessly wishing that his physical playfulness means more than what it is. His "ball tapping" as you have described doesn't strike me as a sexual advance. I think he just has alot of tied up energy and does weird things like that when he is feeling restless. And I also think he knows you are gay. When he calls you gay, I think he really means it and that is his friendly way of really telling you "you are gay, I am not so don't get any ideas. but I like hanging out with you anyway."
 
Qixote said:
This guy seems 150% straight to me. It seems to me you are hopelessly wishing that his physical playfulness means more than what it is. His "ball tapping" as you have described doesn't strike me as a sexual advance. I think he just has alot of tied up energy and does weird things like that when he is feeling restless. And I also think he knows you are gay. When he calls you gay, I think he really means it and that is his friendly way of really telling you "you are gay, I am not so don't get any ideas. but I like hanging out with you anyway."
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I think you are right. But what explains his semi-hard cock the other day.. that would be normal i guess for a young people like us.

"you are gay, I am not so don't get any ideas. but I like hanging out with you anyway" i think that statement is 100%. But only if you can see how he acts you might take it back. But im going to stick with it either way. Im done wasting my time, Their are plenty of fish in the sea.my feelings have been hurt too much. IM THROUGH!!!
 
billybob109 said:
what explains his semi-hard cock the other day..
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it doesn't take much to trigger a stiffy on a young guy, straight or gay. sometimes all it takes is a slight wind breeze.

billybob109 said:
But only if you can see how he acts you might take it back.
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I'm telling you based on my personal experience with similar types when I was younger.
 
Help Me Please!!

me: nothing just some things bothering me
him: like?
me: u wouldnt understand
him: just say it
him: dont b a sissy
him: ...
me:u would probably reject me
him: what do you mean just tell me bro idc no matter what it is




this is on aim right now.. what should i do!!!!
 
him: what do you mean just tell me bro idc no matter what it is
him: yo hurry up
him: yo fucking tell me
him: honestly it culd b anything i dont care
me: im not 100% sure but i think i might be bi
him: oh
him: whot he fuck cares



OMG I DID IT!! I told my best friend, feels so good!! now when i see him how weird is it going to be?
 
That's good. I'm happy for you, but how do you feel about him start making advances towards him and see how it goes.
 
sounds just like my first "encounter" not even kidding, just like if i were telling the story, and yes we kissed :) and then some ;)
 
It went so good! But i got this weird feeling that he does not care AT ALL, to the point that we wont even talk about it. Is that good or bad? Will update tomorrow when i see him. But i hope what happens is that i was right all along and he is gay/bi and we become more then friends.
 
heh, well thats good, hopefully you can keep hanging out like normal best friends and not have to worry about losing a good friend over this. Its the best thing that could happen.
 
^^^I got that impression about it too, in the other thread.

Maybe he doesn't want to talk about it. If not, it can be (usually) for 1 of 2 reasons. First, he's uncomfortable talking about it because it's so alien to him and he's not used to the idea yet; or, two, he really doesn't give a shit and the whole thing bores him.

Test the waters and see if he's willing to talk to you about you and "it." Be super-sensitive to his tone, body language, and other cues that give away his comfort level. If he clams up or is visibly uncomfortable, skip it. Let him come around. On the other hand, you don't need to hide or evade. Just be yourself and talk about what you want to. He'll loosen up eventually.
 
well hes probably gay or bi himself. Atleast he dint give u the list of rules like dont hit on me or dont touch me ect.I woudnt kiss him if i was you i think thats moving too soon u should just keep hitting on him keep play fighting and tell him if u be bad i will give u a spanking. ANd see how he reacts
 
Well done at last. It is a good feeling isn't it? and the reaction was as predicted, true friends don't judge you, they support you as yours has done. At least you now have someone you can talk about it too and who will support you even if he is straight, which you should be prepared to accept. (*8*)
 
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