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Use My Own Condoms?

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I have a date tonight at the house of the guy I'm seeing and I'm pretty sure it's going to lead to sex. The last time we were intimate together, I couldn't "get into it" because (a) his room was cold and my whole body tightened up, causing my hole to be too tight and (b) when he wanted me to fuck him, the condoms he had were too thick - I couldn't feel anything and didn't orgasm.

To remedy the latter, I decided to purchase some condoms of my own which are some Lifestyles Thin Ultra Sensitive. I tried one out last night and they are very good for feeling. The condoms really do allow me to 'feel' more compared to those whatever brand condoms my guy had the other week.

Should I have an opportunity to fuck him, is it good sex 'ethics' to grab one of my own from my jacket pocket or so instead of using one his (numb-feeling) condoms? Will he be offended?
 
The really thin condoms are not great for protection during anal--tears and breakage. But, it is always a good idea to use your own...you know if they are old or not have been subjected to temp extremes.
 
I hooked-up over the weekend with a guy and I brought condom which he did not use. He had brought his own because of his size. I was not offended.
 
I would use my own. I think it's safer and, if u buy them yourself, you're more likely to get some that would fit and work better for you.
 
Butt-fucking etiquette says that the bottom should determine whether to use their own condom or the top's condom.

There are urban legend stories about HIV+ tops putting holes in condoms to seed bottoms without their knowledge.

Ultra-thin condoms are not consistenly reliable for anal sex. If your bottom is okay with using an Ultra-Thin condom, that's his call. You could probably accomplish as much by putting lube on your dick before you put on a regular condom.

Have fun.
 
I'm a top and only once tried using a condom. Couldn't feel anything and have never again used a condom. My twink bottoms have laughed at me for even suggesting that I use a condom. Just tested again last month and again negative.
 
KaraBulut said:
Butt-fucking etiquette says that the bottom should determine whether to use their own condom or the top's condom.

There are urban legend stories about HIV+ tops putting holes in condoms to seed bottoms without their knowledge.

Ultra-thin condoms are not consistenly reliable for anal sex. If your bottom is okay with using an Ultra-Thin condom, that's his call. You could probably accomplish as much by putting lube on your dick before you put on a regular condom.

Have fun.
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I agree with that; the bottom is at the higher risk of catching something if there's a failure somewhere along the line; so it should be up to him.

trobert said:
I'm a top and only once tried using a condom. Couldn't feel anything and have never again used a condom. My twink bottoms have laughed at me for even suggesting that I use a condom. Just tested again last month and again negative.
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congratulations, the first 5 chambers in that gun to your head were empty, hope the next one is too. BTW, are you using a 6 shooter or an 8 shooter to play Russian roulette?
 
I've always like Lifestyles, great condoms!

Yes, the bottom should determine the brand and type of condom, but he should arrive with a size suited for a hung top too.
 
Feel free to bring them along, but yes - it'll be his call. If he insists on his brand, use his brand. Before putting it on, put extra lube on the underside of your penis - that'll increase the sensation for you.

>>>I'm a top and only once tried using a condom. Couldn't feel anything and have never again used a condom.

Then you didn't use it right.

Lex
 
Let me just say that if a person isn't practicing safe sex, you are gambling with your very life and it's not very reasonable and/or intelligent.

Thanks guys for the advice. I went out of my 'date' last night and it was very fun. We ate some, cuddled and watched a movie, and things began to heat up within 30 minutes of the movie. I did end up using my condom and (which he didn't have any problem with it) and I appreciated the added 'feeling' from using my own condoms. It was great.

Afterward, we finished the movie, watched some tv, and went to bed. It was awesome to have another guy to snuggle up with during the night - something I don't get much.

In all, it was an incredible night.
 
>>>How do you not use a condom right? Not pull it on tight enough?

Not prepping it right. Not lubing up inside before putting it on.

Lex
 
He should not be offended by you asking to use your condoms. If he is - well then - his loss. Also, I agree with the comments about the ultra thin and anal - not the most recommended. But, at least you are using one - GOOD FOR YOU!
 
marleyisalegend said:
Does this mean you're breaking up with me? :(
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Aww, of course not, Marley. I'll never break up with YOU.

While things did go well yesterday, I think I'm perhaps a bit too boring for Jason. We certainly talked much more than on our last day (which was to go see the movie, Milk), but I don't sense a connection between us. I don't think we can really forge a good relationship by my being 'adorable'.

So, I think he'll probably go back to the guy he was seeing before we started talking, leaving me in a perpetual search of love and meaning.
 
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