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Vers BF now wants to be just Top

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We were fucking like rabbits before, flip flopping. I'm not very big on bottoming, still new to it, but he loves topping me and I was willing to do so and I grew to enjoy it as long as I could have my turn on him. I feel like it's almost a representation of us in the relationship where, we both like to be dominant and strong willed, but we can take turns and be vulnerable and enjoy each other in more than just one way. Almost like a 50/50 thing, now it's more like he wants to be the top and I don't want to just bottom, so lately I just don't want any sex, if I'm not going to enjoy it. Keep mentioning it, but he keeps shrugging it off. I love everything else about him just wish we could've kept it 50/50 in the bed room. What should I do?
 
Tell him how you feel instead of just mentioning it. It could be a phase but also he might have figured out he likes being the top more than being the bottom. You both need to make a sacrifice for the other one.

How long have you been together?
 
Relationships are nothing without compromise. This needs to be addressed with both of you willing to agree to a solution. I'd suggest keeping his ass in play, playing with it as much as possible, during oral, etc.
 
Perhaps part of the problem is that you associate topping with being ".. dominant and strong willed."

That's a dom/sub attitude that only works when you both want to play.

There is nothing inherently dominant about topping that you don't inject (snerk) on your own. Now if he suddenly doesn't want to bottom, what's changed?
 
You went into this relationship with the understanding that it would be a versatile one. It's not okay if your boyfriend is refusing to bottom for you anymore. Communicate with him your needs, and see if you can come to a solution or compromise.
 
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