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I know there is a lot virgin questions, but here is my situation :).

I am 27 and a virgin. I have done some things with guys, but never anything major. Frankly it took me a while to accept that yes I am gay. In the last few years I have also focused more on physically and financially moving out of the small town I live in and then getting into a relationship.

I know everyone goes through things at a different pace. While I am not "normal" I found there are some men who waited even longer then me (they had sex, but not with men). Everyone is different, but I am still stuck. Should I just lose it or date around first (and see where it goes). The dating scene in the small town I live in is pretty non-existent. Its another reason I am trying to leave
 
Get out of Dodge and then develop relationships. Or, take some time off and play in another city.
 
Well Id say get out and then date. Even though you might be in a rush to lose your virginity, a bf would be more patient with you because you havent done it yet.
 
You don't have to be in a relationship to have sex. So long as you are safe, go for it. First times are rarely as life changing as you see on TV, so don't sell yourself some kind of unreasonable expectations.

There's also no rule that you can't fuck like bunnies while dating around a bit and looking for a boyfriend. These things are not mutually exclusive.
 
I don't think male virginity is something to be prized. If you like someone and feel comfortable with them, have sex with them. If this means you need to have sex in the confines of a relationship with a strong emotional connection, fine. If not, that's okay too. Do what feels comfortable and safe for you and don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
 
Life is meant to be lived. You'll soon discover how fast it goes by. Since we only have today, we don't have an internal sense of longevity. Looking back on your life in the future, you'll be happier if you took reasonable risks.

I don't think major aspects of life ought to be postponed. Since we don't know where life will take us we can't depend on a change of venue. And even with a change in venue we are not all able to change patterns overnight. Take some risks now to help prepared you for future change.
 
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