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virginity/ inexperience as a turn off?

No one has to know, Im a virgin at 20, feel a bit depressed to be honist, but only my best friend knows, she said its "cute" she rushed out lost it as soon as possible.

But im quite well read (okay I have seen a lot of porn) so I can talk about sex with more seasoned people, people dont know I'm a virgin unless I want them to know, and I cant see why its a turn off, I find it an atractive quality.
 
I lost my virginity at 25. Even then, I probably could've/should've skipped that one. :) Don't worry about it. It'll happen when it happens.

Lex
 
I had never so much as kissed someone until I was 21, and I was open about it with the person I had my first experiences with. He was fine with it, and I think the idea of sexually awakening me turned him on. We didn't go all the way, even though he wanted to, and though we don't fool around anymore we're still friends.

I too worry that inexperience will be a turn-off. But the simple fact is that anyone who makes you feel bad about your inexperience or demands some kind of sexual pro isn't the right person for you anyway.
 
ladygrey said:
^ I wouldn't worry dearie.

Now to your questions...

there are LOTS of inexperinced gay men out there. Believe me, honey. And there are also lots of people who are not sexual people either.

You're young and you're learning. Don't rush, push, or pressure yourself into anything that you do not feel ready for.

What's the rush? Honey, fear is the wrong reason to experince sex.

So relax, wait for that speical someone, and masterbate furiously whenever you need to.

:)
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..|:=D: and for heavens sake just relax and enjoy it
 
Definitely not a turn off.

I think I would be turned on at the fact that the guy wants his first time to be with me.
 
Not a Turn off an experience a guy could teach u stuff. I always teach my fuck buddy stuff that i learn from the porn videos i saw.

And sometimes u and a virgin guy can learn from eachother
 
I can say since I've never been fully sexually involved with a guy, so I can say with guys I'm a virgin. I would however like my first time with a guy to be with somebody I care about me as much as I would about them.
 
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