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wait for love or random hook up?
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I tried the waiting thing, but I ended up just sleeping with a guy. First time as well. Glad I did it, cause now I won't feel embarrassed if I ever fall in love with a guy. Then again, it might be more memorable with someone you're in love with...
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That's a romantic notion, but I don't think it's practical. The chances that two inexperienced gay adults would meet and feel the same way about each other are probably slim. If the love of your life turns out to be experienced and you are not could lead to problems. Try to meet some nice guys and play safe. That's my advice for what it's worth.
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randomly hook up while you wait for love.
so you wont be a total n00b when you finally meet someone with potential. also, i think you need to have some experience to be able to tell "true love" from fleeting crushes and horniness. i think sleeping around a little not only makes you a more skilled lover, it also gives you better judgement and more confidence in matters of the heart. at least, thats how it worked for me.
so you wont be a total n00b when you finally meet someone with potential. also, i think you need to have some experience to be able to tell "true love" from fleeting crushes and horniness. i think sleeping around a little not only makes you a more skilled lover, it also gives you better judgement and more confidence in matters of the heart. at least, thats how it worked for me.
Friend, of course you are horny, you are young !s Do thank your Creator for those animal urges you feel. Know too that there are other young and horny folks of both sexes; I hope you are placing yourself where you can interact with them.
Do you really want to use some guy's cock to get some experience? Or, do you want an experience which will confirm that you can relate to another human being, male or female, in meaningful sexual communion. Notice, the key is to get to know someone as a friend and to be a friend to that someone. Yes, and it is entirely possible that the kind of person you relate to may be feeling the same kind of needs you feel. Believe me, when that happens with someone you have bonded in deep friendship with you will feel it and likely you both will want and need to express your affection sexually. And, again, let me emphasize that you do not need a coach for that or even some kind of preliminary demonstration. Your ancestors and mine have been getting together for thousands of years and "doing what comes naturally" and when that happens take time in an afterglow to tell your friend in words what has just happened between you.
There is such a thing as serendipity that you should really cultivate. It is the ability to recognize and take advantage of those wonderful things that happen in life, often when you least expect it.
I have had few partners in life (three men and three women) and we never had sex until after we were very thoroughly bonded as loving friends.
I recall that getting back to college after being in the
Army was great and I was prepared to give my all to study. Then, one noon I was eating lunch in the cafeteria when I noted this very movie star handsome fellow looking for a empty seat. I invited him over and we chatted; the next days we ate lunch together and agreed to be roommates. We went out of our way to be good to each other in little ways. I started to leave my p.j.s in the drawer when I discovered that he slept in the nude. Eye candy is great but I wanted to get much closer to that beautiful body of his. One Friday evening he was already in bed and I had just come from the shower down the hall. When I discovered that he had brought my laundry up from the mail room I thanked him and added, "I could kiss you for that." His simple response was: "Would you?"
That was all the invitation I needed; I was ready and eager to introduce him to his first experience of sexual communion with another guy. He was enthusiastic and super responsive. It was the beginning of two years of loving sexual relationship. The memory of his body is still sharp in my mind. Though the sex ended when I graduated, the love that prompted the sex has remained strong.
Keep your serendipity at a high level of sharpness. You have probably seen the person who will be responsive to you already.
Do you really want to use some guy's cock to get some experience? Or, do you want an experience which will confirm that you can relate to another human being, male or female, in meaningful sexual communion. Notice, the key is to get to know someone as a friend and to be a friend to that someone. Yes, and it is entirely possible that the kind of person you relate to may be feeling the same kind of needs you feel. Believe me, when that happens with someone you have bonded in deep friendship with you will feel it and likely you both will want and need to express your affection sexually. And, again, let me emphasize that you do not need a coach for that or even some kind of preliminary demonstration. Your ancestors and mine have been getting together for thousands of years and "doing what comes naturally" and when that happens take time in an afterglow to tell your friend in words what has just happened between you.
There is such a thing as serendipity that you should really cultivate. It is the ability to recognize and take advantage of those wonderful things that happen in life, often when you least expect it.
I have had few partners in life (three men and three women) and we never had sex until after we were very thoroughly bonded as loving friends.
I recall that getting back to college after being in the
Army was great and I was prepared to give my all to study. Then, one noon I was eating lunch in the cafeteria when I noted this very movie star handsome fellow looking for a empty seat. I invited him over and we chatted; the next days we ate lunch together and agreed to be roommates. We went out of our way to be good to each other in little ways. I started to leave my p.j.s in the drawer when I discovered that he slept in the nude. Eye candy is great but I wanted to get much closer to that beautiful body of his. One Friday evening he was already in bed and I had just come from the shower down the hall. When I discovered that he had brought my laundry up from the mail room I thanked him and added, "I could kiss you for that." His simple response was: "Would you?"
That was all the invitation I needed; I was ready and eager to introduce him to his first experience of sexual communion with another guy. He was enthusiastic and super responsive. It was the beginning of two years of loving sexual relationship. The memory of his body is still sharp in my mind. Though the sex ended when I graduated, the love that prompted the sex has remained strong.
Keep your serendipity at a high level of sharpness. You have probably seen the person who will be responsive to you already.
My first time was with a one-night stand. We met on the internet, had dinner&a drink, went to his place and had sex. I slept over at his place and in the morning we said our goodbyes. Haven't seen him since.
Do I regret it now? Not at all. He was sweet, gentle, intelligent, good-looking and the sex was brilliant. I couldn't have wished for a better 'first'. The most important thing was that I felt comfortable with him and that I wanted him to be my first time.
In my opinion, your first time doesn't have to be with Mr. Right, but you should find someone who's willing to make you feel comfortable enough to have fun while taking that step. Find someone who will not just fuck you, but also go on a date with you first. Just my opinion, of course.
Do I regret it now? Not at all. He was sweet, gentle, intelligent, good-looking and the sex was brilliant. I couldn't have wished for a better 'first'. The most important thing was that I felt comfortable with him and that I wanted him to be my first time.
In my opinion, your first time doesn't have to be with Mr. Right, but you should find someone who's willing to make you feel comfortable enough to have fun while taking that step. Find someone who will not just fuck you, but also go on a date with you first. Just my opinion, of course.
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Are you a virgin? If that's the case: Please, please, PLEASE don't feel forced to have sex. You are never too old to have sex with someone you trust and love.
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waiting for love may not be practical, but waiting for someone you're comfortable with is.
hooking up via online sites do not always bring positive results (on the first time at least). But messing with a 'new' friend or someone you're getting to know who is interested in you will probably lead to a better feeling.
i thought about just fucking someone but ended up fucking an old friend (became my bf). glad I didn't fuck a stranger because when I did fuck a stranger I felt like shit afterward but only the first time, somewhat addictive because of the convenience.
hooking up via online sites do not always bring positive results (on the first time at least). But messing with a 'new' friend or someone you're getting to know who is interested in you will probably lead to a better feeling.
i thought about just fucking someone but ended up fucking an old friend (became my bf). glad I didn't fuck a stranger because when I did fuck a stranger I felt like shit afterward but only the first time, somewhat addictive because of the convenience.
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This is really a personal decision you need to make for yourself. What I did was hooked up with a guy from Adam4Adam. I told him I was a virgin so he knew what to expect.
I really lucked out too. He was very patient with me and we got along extremely well. Our hook up was supposed to have been a one night stand; however, it turned into an entire weekend fuck fest. The sex was amazing!
I really lucked out too. He was very patient with me and we got along extremely well. Our hook up was supposed to have been a one night stand; however, it turned into an entire weekend fuck fest. The sex was amazing!
