Walking, Talking Stereotypes...

[benno5693]

I know we all hate them, but alotta people fit alotta stereotypes, regardless of their gender, age, ethnicity or sexual orientation.

I have been deliberating for a while now whether any gay stereotypes actually annoy me and whether that would limit the kind of people I could have a relationship with and I have realised that I can grow up and love people for who, not what, they are.

I doubt very much I am overly feminine (no one guesses until I tell them I'm gay, so that says something! ) and have always felt more attracted to the school jocks and more masculine guys in my teen years, but I have felt put off by feminine guys through stereotypes and my socialisation process that included putting these people in a negative light.

What I've grown to realise is that feminine men are fantastic people and actually feel that I could have a relationship as successful with a 'pansy', as my lovely family call them, as much as a really masculine guy.

Once I got this out of the way, I got thinking what other guys thought about this. If you're more masculine, do you find more feminine men to be easy enough to get along with and have a relationship or even vice versa?

Silly topic, I know, but interesting to know none-the-less.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

dunno but when ya born human wakamooleee be piles of it fa eons

so guess civlized countrys got hole in head wot leak they turn officals ofs their countrys rule Okay
ans discova hey 2 feet wot they do?

so lick ma slit ans if ya turn inta wot famous toon movie?
da dude wot one da four make good cock coat hanga

forgat topic who up ma fuckhole?
@ dunno @
who ma cock up?
$ Dunno $
Who in ma face?
% DUNNO %
who all them dudes pumpin in da sea?
& they cum ta fix da leek &
so them dudes up mountains keepin um up?
& Yeah &

go chew grass

thankyou

 

[yummylongsword]

Eh, I took the top one, even though it's not reeeeeally true. By straight guy standards, I'm a little feminine. By gay guy standards, I'm pretty damn macho. I'm really just average, but that seems to be considered "masculine" in the gay community. I enjoy other average men. Too masculine and they're douchebags, too feminine and we have nothing in common. Happy mediums, please.

 

[Asenath]

What creeps me out a little is how you talk about "feminine" men being fantastic, and all. But you don't really acknowledge that their gender performance is just as masculine as yours - by virtue of the fact that they're men.

It's like the way fetishists talk about people they're objectifying, not the way people who respectfully acknowledge the differences talk.

 

[Nomenclature]

I like the "guy next door" type. I don't like over-the-top butch, but i'm attracted to guys guys because they're guys.


A lot of feminine guys tend to be interested in stuff that i'm not, like The Kardashians.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

guy next door just got dig hole unda fence or wall
% Hey dudes we can escape %
Coor lot a dudes next door

ha

 

[Musik2400]

I took the first one cuz its closest to the truth. Like a couple others have said, I'm just "average" but I like to be the "feminine one" in the relationship, so I tend to only like guys who are at least more masculine than I am hahaha.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

I know we all hate them, but alotta people fit alotta stereotypes, regardless of their gender, age, ethnicity or sexual orientation.

I have been deliberating for a while now whether any gay stereotypes actually annoy me and whether that would limit the kind of people I could have a relationship with and I have realised that I can grow up and love people for who, not what, they are.

I doubt very much I am overly feminine (no one guesses until I tell them I'm gay, so that says something! ) and have always felt more attracted to the school jocks and more masculine guys in my teen years, but I have felt put off by feminine guys through stereotypes and my socialisation process that included putting these people in a negative light.

What I've grown to realise is that feminine men are fantastic people and actually feel that I could have a relationship as successful with a 'pansy', as my lovely family call them, as much as a really masculine guy.

Once I got this out of the way, I got thinking what other guys thought about this. If you're more masculine, do you find more feminine men to be easy enough to get along with and have a relationship or even vice versa?

Silly topic, I know, but interesting to know none-the-less.

humans is adapatives speices

but unto umselfs wot not need adapt first place

but somethang terrible worng happen few days ago like 100000 years

but da minds of it continue now internet 2 while internet 1 unglue

if internet a 2 da reps of internet 1

folk 100000 year ago like tip now please

anyway lots a porgrams will recycle da same wakamoolee so keep da many great wondas countrys amazin busy while their farts add ta world life tell um humans sure concetrate of twat

thankyou

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real life world is rushin ta find last remainins humans wot
SSSSH!
ooh

there fill anothda white box
happy white box day