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Want to do stuff to my housemate???

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ynot73

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Hello there people... Can you guys suggest or have any ideas on what I should do.... I have this much younger housemate - i'm 32 he's 21 and I just can't stop wanting to suggest and do "stuff" with him. We've been drunk and he says he Bi - curious, I've seen his porn and yes he has both female and male. I have this fantasy about doing a circle jerk with him. We've been drunk and just as I get the nerve to suggest we watch porn, and get naked -- he goes to bed (ho hum alone) or something else happens.
So I try and let it go, or just go for it and say - hey are you up for a bit of a circle jerk? what are you ideas?

Horny housemate
 
ynot73 said:
what are your ideas?
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If you have a lease, then you're going to be stuck having to spend every day with someone you've whacked off with.

While this might be okay, it's also the stuff that ugly situations are made of- especially the next time he brings a girl home.

Ideas? Go get your self a boyfriend and leave your roommate alone.
 
KaraBulut said:
If you have a lease, then you're going to be stuck having to spend every day with someone you've whacked off with.

While this might be okay, it's also the stuff that ugly situations are made of- especially the next time he brings a girl home.

Ideas? Go get your self a boyfriend and leave your roommate alone.
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Very well said :=D:

My rule of thumb has always been NEVER play at home with the housemate...it complicates things.
 
/\ KaraBulut syas what I think, only he does it better. As we say in Oz, you never shit in your own nest.
 
...you never shit in your own nest...

I like that one. So true, so true.
 
Well subtle its not but I think you get the idea ynot...

Mate... shitting in your own nest as its been put means looking at this guy in the face and trying to remain friendly if things get awkward... and chances are if he's only bi curious then thats a distinct possibility.

You don't need to be the guy who shocks him back to being str8 and then having to live with him... Let him go figure himself out somewhere away from home so that if it does go wrong it doesn't threaten your freindship and living arrangements.

Then... then maybe something could happen once the rules are set and you all know where you stand. But until then mate, you should keep the nest off limits.
 
I wouldn't offer something outright. If you want, leave a (metaphorical) door open. If he says he's "bi-curious" again, say (with a wink and a smile) "Well, let me know if you need any help with that curiosity." But other than that, I'd let him make the move. Although, honestly, I'm a bit in agreement with those who think it's not a great idea.

Lex
 
There are housemates and housemates. If living arrangements are such as to allow relatively comfy living, if the going gets awkward, carry on with your 'exploration plan'. If not, take all the good advice from above and move on.

Basically, have a housemate with 'benefits' is NOT the worst I have seen happen to a dude.

SC
 
Thanks everyone for your advice -- I have taken it all on board and your right if we did, and things get awkward, then it wouldn't be nice.
 
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