Wanting to get pozzed -- WTF???

[BerkLT]

That's weird.
I personally get scared to fool around when I see that there are like 3 poz tribe guys closer than 1 km to me on grindr.

 

[Zeno Lorea]

That's the very kind of finger-wagging that is only going to make these guys more insistent upon doing it

Right. And I wonder if those guys are equally judgmental about alcohol, tobacco and morbid obesity?

 

[LuttleOne]

Right. And I wonder if those guys are equally judgmental about alcohol, tobacco and morbid obesity?

As those three things are as dangerous, as rampant bottoms purposely chasing a potentially killer disease? Really?

 

[bishaven]

I had no clue what the hell this was (sounded like some video game or something) but it's some serious shit. This is like beyond narcissm. why the fuck would anyone want this ??? I'd much prefer to be around for pleasure. I'd like to get as many thrills as I can with sex while I'm on this earth, and I ain't doing it that way, no sir

 

[shawnlx]

I met a guy who was POZ and got to know him very well as a friend. I'd seen pics of him before the wasting syndrome and he was drop dead gorgeous and with me I guess it was a combination of being attracted to how he looked "before", simply liking him as a person and a certain amount of pity. I mentioned the thought of having unprotected sex with him to a younger friend who had been brought up and ingrained in the safe sex mantra and he was outraged and furious (...and a little jealous I think). He ranted at me and talked some sense into me. What also stopped me was that he was partnered with someone who could help him afford his health care and even though they had an "understanding" I didn't want to do anything that could change that because we were getting very close. I loved him as a human being and was attracted to him because he was a kind and wonderful man but common sense had to prevail. As far as chasers go the thought of doing intentionally to get HIV is just insane. ...but I should talk

 

[Tonywolfe61]

I actually thought this was a suburban myth.

 

[mark73]

As I hiv+ man myself, I can't believe this goes on. I have been on medication since I was diagnosed in 2009. and my viral count is undetectable. Which means the chances of me passing it along to anyone through sex is very very unlikely ( although Possible ). I have been married to my husband for 3 years now and he knew from the start about what I have, and we used condoms. But now we are at the point, where at times ( When we are lost in the passion we haven't used condoms ) My Husband has no problem with this and over the course ofthe last 2 years. we haven't always used condoms and when we are both tested my count is always undetectable and he is always negative. we know the risk and what can happen. but we are both adults and we are both willing to deal with any consequences that can come from us doing this, Together.
I find it Awful to hear people want to be given HIV, as although now because of the meds available it doesn't mean AIDS, Like it did back in the 80's. being HIV+ hits you mentally a lot more than physically. And for any HIV+ man to definitely pass it along, he would need to be off his meds. which can lead to many many more health problems. But before I met my Husband and was on a dating site for people with HIV, I was always being messaged by younger guys ( I am 44 this year and im talking lads aged 18 to 25 who are HIV-) Begging me to stop taking my meds for a few weeks so they could then come and have sex with me in the hope of me passing it along to them. I always refused to do this and blocked them. This does happen in life, no matter what sexuality you are. And I have never understood why some people want, to have this disease ??

 

[paulad39uk]

As those three things are as dangerous, as rampant bottoms purposely chasing a potentially killer disease? Really?

Yep not far off I'm afraid! Cirrhosis of the Liver and dare I say it Cancer does kill more people than HIV/AIDS statistically.