Just looking for your opinions on a situation that just happened.
I messaged a good looking guy on a gay dating site. His profile seemed really genuine in what he was looking for and really appealed to me. I didn't have a photo on there but offered to send a face pic if he liked what he read in my profile. He replied and I sent the pic and no responce for 3 days, although he had been logged into the site every day. I sent him a message saying that he mustn't have liked my pic but it was no problem and good luck with finding his man. Anyway he then sent me a message back which said:
" Hey I only didn't reply as of yet. When u wanna meet for something to eat then? Do I get paid for the meet? Sorry for not replying sooner "
I thought the getting paid comment was pretty odd, and thought it was a joke first but then I couldn't believe that a 21yo guy would be niaive enough to make such a comment which is open to interpretation. So I messaged him back copying in his quote and asking "do u usually get paid when u meet guys? (you are joking right?)" He sent me a message straight back saying "oh ok sorry. i got you mixed up........ physically your not my type and its only natural that i need to be physically attracted by you "
If it was an innocent jokey comment then surely he would have put the record straight? So my question is was he renting? Perspectives and comments appreciated.
I messaged a good looking guy on a gay dating site. His profile seemed really genuine in what he was looking for and really appealed to me. I didn't have a photo on there but offered to send a face pic if he liked what he read in my profile. He replied and I sent the pic and no responce for 3 days, although he had been logged into the site every day. I sent him a message saying that he mustn't have liked my pic but it was no problem and good luck with finding his man. Anyway he then sent me a message back which said:
" Hey I only didn't reply as of yet. When u wanna meet for something to eat then? Do I get paid for the meet? Sorry for not replying sooner "
I thought the getting paid comment was pretty odd, and thought it was a joke first but then I couldn't believe that a 21yo guy would be niaive enough to make such a comment which is open to interpretation. So I messaged him back copying in his quote and asking "do u usually get paid when u meet guys? (you are joking right?)" He sent me a message straight back saying "oh ok sorry. i got you mixed up........ physically your not my type and its only natural that i need to be physically attracted by you "
If it was an innocent jokey comment then surely he would have put the record straight? So my question is was he renting? Perspectives and comments appreciated.









