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Was he flirting with me?

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I realize this is probably stupid but I thought I'd ask people's opinion on what happened to me. I went shopping for a new blazer/jacket today and I think the (very cute) sales guy was maybe flirting with me. When I came in the store, he asked me how I was doing and what I was doing tonight for Halloween. I told him I didn't have any plans and that I didn't really feel like dressing up. He then said "You don't feel like dressing up tonight, aside from being really good looking?" and smiled. I froze and just said nope and kept looking around the store. He helped me try on some jackets and we talked about fashion trends for a while.

Anyway, I ended up leaving without buying anything and he shook my hand. I never got the impression he was trying to get me to spend money at the store. It wasn't even a high-end store (Le Chateau) so I don't feel like he was being nice just to get me to buy something. At stores like this, the employees usually just say hi to me and couldn't care less about helping me. But then again, I didn't get a very obvious gay vibe from him so who knows?

What do you guys think? I know I sound like a teenage girl asking this LOL!:cool:
 
The other thread is from August 2011.

He said you were "really good looking". He wouldn't say that unless he is some sleazy guy who will say anything for a sale.

Find a reason to go back while you are fresh in his mind. Tell him you would like to know him better / go do something
 
BENDERBOY said:
It also sounds very like your other thread.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/threads/354661-What-the-heck-just-happened-!

Now go flirt back.
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Yes, 2 years later and I am still terrible at recognizing whether people are flirting with me lol.

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m1thousand said:
The other thread is from August 2011.

He said you were "really good looking". He wouldn't say that unless he is some sleazy guy who will say anything for a sale.

Find a reason to go back while you are fresh in his mind. Tell him you would like to know him better / go do something
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You think he's a sleazy sales guy?
 
Let me say the same thing I said before.

If you think he might be interested, he's interested.

Lex
 
I'll go back today to check out again the 'jackets'. Hope he's there!
 
personally, I never take flirting seriously by anyone who stands to make a commission from me.
 
Well, I went back today and the guy wasn't there. The sales guys today wasn't as chatty or as helpful as the other guy. He did tell me he noticed me yesterday though lol.
 
darden said:
personally, I never take flirting seriously by anyone who stands to make a commission from me.
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This.

Or a tip.

Although I met my partner of 32 years when he flirted with me at the restaurant he managed...so I'd say...go for it! What I don't get though....why didn't you ask the other clerk where the other one was?
 
rareboy said:
This.

Or a tip.

Although I met my partner of 32 years when he flirted with me at the restaurant he managed...so I'd say...go for it! What I don't get though....why didn't you ask the other clerk where the other one was?
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Grr, I didn't even think about asking him where the other guy was. I suck!
 
dude, a few years ago a gay couple I know went into an electronics shop to purchase a new TV. They met this gorgeous young salesmen who was about 19 years old. The salesman flirted with one of the couple who handed over full price for the TV along with a 5 year warranty and all the trimmings. The guy being flirted with was adamant that this guy was gay and when he broke up with his boyfriend a month later, he asked my opinion. I asked one of my friends who works with this salesman and it turned out that the salesman was a total sleazebag with 3 girlfriends on the go. If he had really been flirting, he would have at least given then a discount!!
 
I went back to store today and he was there. He recognized me and said 'hey you're' back'. I wanted to just ask him out but I got nervous and I told him I wanted to try again the jacket I tried last week. They didn't have it on the floor anymore and he sent someone to the basement to look for another one.

Anyway, he told me I looked great in it and that I should just order it online but I got all stupid and started saying that I wanted to try it on again before.

There were other customers in the store so I think it annoyed him that I kept talking about a jacket that I knew already fit me well. Anyway, if he liked me before, I don't think he likes me anymore :(

In the end, they didn't even have the jacket in the basement so I was just like 'hmm ok, thanks anyway' and I left. I'm an idiot. I shouldn't have wasted his time talking about the jacket when I just wanted to ask for phone number, ugh.

I'm gonna go kill myself now. :(
 
Write your number on a piece of paper. Hand it to him. Then you don't have to say anything. :)

Lex
 
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