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Was I born gay?

i hate it when i hear gay activists say people are born gay or that it's genetic just as much as i hate it when i hear christians say it's a choice or it's environmental. the truth is no one knows what causes homosexuality. we only have ideas/hypotheses. some people are less interested in the truth than in what is politically expedient.
 
Please do not mistake this for self-loathing. I love who I am and wouldn't change myself for anything, but I do wonder. I was never effeminate. I was never into broadway or Cher or Brittany. I've never felt an urge to take off my shirt and bounce around to hard trance music...although admittedly it is LOTS of fun...

My theory is that something somehow triggered this in me. What could it be?

I wonder... does a butterfly look back and ask why it isn't a caterpillar?

You were what you were. You are what you are.

There are a lot of things in life that aren't apparent and take a long time to figure out. But there's little to be gained in situations like this by pondering the "why" and "what if".

However, you might want to take off your shirt and bounce around to hard trance music occasionally. It can be quite fun whether you like cock or not.
 
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