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screwnutty

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Hi guys!

Most of you know my story of my first time with a guy. Most of you know how it came to an end. But for you new guys I give you the basics...

1. Meet him in High School (grade 11) and we fooled around until New Years Day 2005.

2. He left me for a girl about 3 or 4 months later. Told me he wasn't gay, totally straight and that all the times we fooled around he thought of girls.


So I was just wondering how many of my jubbers out there in JubLand have had the same thing happen to them? Any words of advice or inspirations to others that have had this happen to them? I figure it might be good to offer advice to new members that have had this happen to them. So that they know they are not alone and that there is a bright side to every storm. ;)

 
omg r u serious? I never heard of this story, but maybe he was just curious about being with a guy and then realized that guys, in fact, do nothing for him, and maybe to save himself from embarassment he said that hes not into guys and all the times yall messed around he thought of girls, idk.......
 
Yes I'm serious. He never had a girlfriend or choose to hunt one down. Just like me.

I only made this thread because I figure I can't be the only one that has had an experience like this. I figured that maybe there were others like me that had something similiar happen to them.

But nope....almost 12 hours later since I started this thread and nothing. Boy do I feel special and like a fool too. Think after work today I'm going to ask a mod to delete this thread. It beginning to look like a bad idea.

Anyways pinoy-pride, thanks for stopping and posting.
 
You're probably not the only one to fool around with a straight guy, who then decided to leave once he found a girlfriend (or once things looked like they'd come to the surface). But 11th grade? That'd be...1992? Until 2005? Thirteen years? Were you waiting for him to "come around"?

Not that it matters. You got to have sex with a straight guy for 13 years. There are people here who would swear off gay men forever for a shot at that. :)

Lex
 
It hasn't happened to me but something similar did happen to a friend of mine we'll call Brian. In his late teens Brian started fooling around with a guy we'll call Luke. Things ended between them when Brian went away to school but, when he came back home a few years later Luke had a girlfriend and did his best to deny that he ever did anything with a guy.
 
G-Lexington said:
Not that it matters. You got to have sex with a straight guy for 13 years. There are people here who would swear off gay men forever for a shot at that. :)

Lex
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:D Lex...you always put a smile to my face. Yeah I have been wonder about those 13 years for a long time. I gave him oral and all he gave me was handjobs and back rubs (good backrubs too! ;) ). When it came to hooking up it was 50/50. Sometimes he wanted it...sometimes i did. He was also very catholic. He didn't want to disappoint his parents either. He was more then just a best friend, we had alot of good times together. Went to college together, roomed together. Went to Toronto, Washington DC and other places. Washington DC was the best though...we went to the international spy museum and toured your countries biggest tourist attractions like the white house, the library of Congress, the senate etc. We did that after we graduated college. He said we deserved a trip after three years of accounting! LOL.

Maybe your right...maybe I just didn't want to face the facts that I was duped by a straight guy. But it be nice to know that I wasn't the only one in this world! :)

Now he ignores me. I'm dead to him. His family doesn't even say hi to me on the streets if they see me. They walk away from me at stores and that's fine. I'd just like to know what he told them...but I'll never know so i need to let it go.
 
landers said:
It hasn't happened to me but something similar did happen to a friend of mine we'll call Brian. In his late teens Brian started fooling around with a guy we'll call Luke. Things ended between them when Brian went away to school but, when he came back home a few years later Luke had a girlfriend and did his best to deny that he ever did anything with a guy.
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(*8*)

Thanks Landers. Tell your friend "Brian" that is is not alone. I don't feel so alone now knowing that this wasn't just something that happened to me and only me. I've told a few gay and bi people (lot younger then me) from my town...well there is only 5 of them here. Most head off to college in September. But none of them experienced anything like this.

Anyways thanks Landers. I appreciate it alot! (*8*)
 
Wow---thirteen years. I...don't know what to think of that did you kiss or do anything that could be considered romantic?
 
alley1234 said:
Wow---thirteen years. I...don't know what to think of that did you kiss or do anything that could be considered romantic?
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Yes. We cuddled. We sat together when we hung out with our friends. We went to movies and dinners and stuff. He spent alot of time with me at my family functions but I never went to his because he didn't want me there. We talked about it and i was cool with it.
 
So far the only guys I have done anything with at college have been straight, and have girlfriends. But it's only lasted two years at the most.
 
screwnutty said:
Maybe your right...maybe I just didn't want to face the facts that I was duped by a straight guy. But it be nice to know that I wasn't the only one in this world! :)

Now he ignores me. I'm dead to him. His family doesn't even say hi to me on the streets if they see me. They walk away from me at stores and that's fine. I'd just like to know what he told them...but I'll never know so i need to let it go.
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Catholicism aside, these things that go on between teenage boys and male friends aren't about good or bad / right or wrong. They just happen.

The problem with them is that they can never be what the gay guy wants them to be. And thirteen years is a long time to wait.

You deserve something better. Go find it.
 
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