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I was circumcised due to phimosis not long ago.
I'm on my fifth week now, there's a stitch or two left to go and the glans are still a little sensitive.
Now I've noticed that when I masturbate the orgasms aren't as good, they're short and not as deep, when I cum I don't shoot either, I just dribble - it feels as if all the cum tries coming out at once so it just ends up dribbling out.
Is this because I've lost my foreskin around the head?
I used to edge a lot and noticed that the more I edge and the more turned on I am the more I'd shoot, maybe it's that? I haven't edged for a while.
Or do you think it's psychological?
 
Are you using lube? Have you changed your technique? You might be doing something differently since you are trying to be more careful, perhaps. Don't give up. Haha
 
Are you using lube? Have you changed your technique? You might be doing something differently since you are trying to be more careful, perhaps. Don't give up. Haha

I'm not no, I was done loose so I still have skin on my shaft which allows for movement dying masturbation.
I haven't changed anything, every now and then I get a good orgasm but mostly they're quick ones. The thing that worries me more is that when I cum it just runs down my penos instead of shooting, it sort of feels like it all comes up at once and there's no forceful shoot the cum out. I used to shoot a lot before the operation, surely circumcision can't affect that?

I used to rub the glans more with the foreskin, but I can't do that yet since the glans are still a little sensitive.
I'm careful where I place my hand invade it rubs the head or it's on the stitches - I constantly check to make sure, I do worry a lot about it.
I used to edge a lot before the operation but I haven't tried it yet.

Could it be that because I'm worried about rubbing the head/ripping the stitche that it's taking away the enjoyment of the masturbation? Purely psychological?
Or maybe I just need to wait since it isn't fully healed and a bit of swelling is still there along with a stitch or two?
 
Or maybe I just need to wait since it isn't fully healed and a bit of swelling is still there along with a stitch or two?


Hi.

Two things come to mind.

If you were prescribed medication, in which you are taking to make to operation heal faster, it may be the reason why you are not getting the same type of thrust when you are pleasuring yourself.

Although not related, I recall taking antibiotics when I had my wisdom tooth extracted years ago, the prescription required eating prior of taking the tablets. If your eating habits has declined or, you are not eating enough if you are taking medication, the end result will be a lower impact when you climax.

Cheers.
 
I haven't been taking medication, though my eating habits have declined slightly.

A reduction in eating habits, a change in climate and/or unhappiness will affect how your body creates semen.

The best remedy may be to take a few days off from pleasuring yourself.
 
Here's something that surgeons forget to tell patients: any incision in the skin results in temporary loss of sensation. This is true whether you're having your gall bladder removed or your knee repaired or a circumcision. It will take 3 to 6 months for the nerve ending to regenerate, so at 5 weeks it is very early in the process to know what sex will feel like.

After a circumcision, the sensation will be different. The glans will keratinize and become less sensitive. You will likely be more aware of the stimulation of the frenulum and shaft.

As for the change in ejaculation, at 5 weeks you still have some residual swelling. There's nothing about a circumcision that should affect ejaculation. If it persists, you should mention it to your surgeon or urologist.
 
Eyebrow - I have been worrying a lot lately and have felt rather down too. That sounds a good idea.

KaraBulut - Thank you for your good advice, I wouldn't have thought that the operation would affect it. So I thought it strange and wanted to get other opinions on the matter.
Yeah theres one stitch or two left in, and there's a tiny bit of swelling left.
I may just take a few days off masturbation, as Eyebrow said, and let it heal up a bit more before trying anything else.
 
I think it could also be caused by prostatitis. I suggest you google that and see if the description fits. If it continues after the surgery heals you will want to see a Doctor.
 
Eyebrow - I have been worrying a lot lately and have felt rather down too. That sounds a good idea.

KaraBulut - Thank you for your good advice, I wouldn't have thought that the operation would affect it. So I thought it strange and wanted to get other opinions on the matter.
Yeah theres one stitch or two left in, and there's a tiny bit of swelling left.
I may just take a few days off masturbation, as Eyebrow said, and let it heal up a bit more before trying anything else.

If you can hold off for one week in addition to eliminating what is making you unhappy, chances are, you will have a more pleasurable experience.

Cheers.
 
I haven't masturbated since Friday but gave in, I edged a little for about half hour before giving in and cumming.
It finally shot, only to my belly button, but non of the cum ran down my penis, it all went somewhere like before the op.
I was watching a video that pushed all the right buttons for me, maybe it was because I was really turned on?
Possibly a handful of factors.
 
I haven't masturbated since Friday but gave in, I edged a little for about half hour before giving in and cumming.
It finally shot, only to my belly button, but non of the cum ran down my penis, it all went somewhere like before the op.
I was watching a video that pushed all the right buttons for me, maybe it was because I was really turned on?
Possibly a handful of factors.

Right!

Have you ever found yourself on the tube holding your piss? The longer you hold it, the greater the sensation once you take a piss. The same thing applies when you pleasure yourself. If you are pleasuring yourself on a daily basis, you will not build up enough semen to the point it affects you mentally.


Good to hear you got everything sorted out.
 
I didn't even think of that!
That could have been why too!

It seems to be going back to normal, I'm starting to feel more force behind the ejaculation now.

Thank you for all your advice and help.
 
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