Weird urinating and masturbating problems

[light]

I have this weird problem I thought is quite embarrassing (had it since I realised it months ago), I don't know if I can classify it as a psychological problem or not.

When I finish urinating, I would always stand over the toilet bowl trying to 'empty the bladder' or something, because I'd always feel as if I'm not done peeing. I checked online if this could be a prostate problem but it's not, so I don't know why I spend minutes, sometimes 10, just standing trying to completely squeeze out every single pee when I think I'm already done ages ago. I think this sounds confusing. :/

Another problem I had when masturbating is (just recently, as in a few months ago), I always feel a pee building up inside and had to release it while still having an erection. I've tried masturbating without peeing but the ejaculation wouldn't feel as satisfying. It's as if the pee's stuck inside my dick while I'm unloading.

I would've went to the doctor but it's such a weird problem to detail I thought I'd ask the opinions of JUBers here first. Or if anyone had similar problems, which I doubt.

A few background notes if it would be of any help. I'm 18, virgin, and had torsion of the testicles 5 years ago, in which I had to remove one of my testicles.

Also, I'm wondering if I have a weird case of obsessive compulsive disorder for the urinating problem I mentioned above.

 

[johnflagc]

hmmmmmmmmmmmm, guess you should see a doctor about it and find out what his opinion is.....btw, you say yur 18, but yur profile indicated yur age at 26......wish I could be more help to you but it possible could be protate related, I have an enlarged protate but so far have no problems in starting a flow of ending it, just the annoyance of getting up once or twice during the night to pee.........maybe others here can be of more assistance.........anyways it still would be good to be checked out by a urologist.

 

[collegejock20]

I would get it checked, but I have a similar problem. Well, its not a problem, just an annoyance. After I masterbate, I have to jump up and pee immediately. The urge to pee is so strong after I masterbate, if I dont get up right then, I could pee on myself. After I orgasm during sex, I dont have this urge, only after I orgasm masterbating.

 

[light]

john, you caught me there. I'm indeed 18, but when I joined JUB I wasn't, hence the need to fake the age a bit. ;P

I don't know if I should get it checked, it's quite a hassle to go to the hospital, spend hours waiting.. etc. It's more of an annoyance really (which I agree with collegejock20), rather than a problem, and it isn't interrupting my life that much. I haven't had sex yet, so I'm not sure if I'd have the same urge to pee after I have sex similar to the problem I have after (and during) I jack off.

 

[dexyboi86]

The urge to pee after orgasm, whether alone or with a partner is completely normal. Before orgasm, your bladder gets cut off, as a mechanism to protect sperm form urine. The pelvic floor muscles are contracting, which puts pressure on the bladder, thus the urge to pee as soon as the orgasm finishes and the bladder 'reconnects'.

I would suggest you see a urologist. Could be a psychological thing, but who knows. I have a question, how often do you masturbate? (Please be honest, even if you wanna private message the answer to me.) I am not interested for the factor, but it will help my 'unofficial physician in training' diagnosis.

*Disclaimer* I am a Chiropractic Physician in training, but we are doctors too!!!

 

[tallguy297]

A really good friend of mine had a very similar experience. When ever he went to the toilet he would stand there for ages. And then the minute he walked away he felt he had to go back again and try to get more out. One night I was there this went on for about 15 minutes and he actually broke down over it because it was driving him nuts...and it was playing havoc with his orgasms as well.

Anyway, long story short, he went to the doc who sent him to a urologist. The diagnosis was a nervous bladder... it seems that because we have the ability to control this function of our body...ie hold out when we have too and go before we need to....we can actually confuse the signals our body sends. The urologist suggested retraining his bladder...

So what he had to do was everytime he got the urge to go, he had to wait an extra 3 or 4 minutes before he went. The doc was trying to get him to end up with a full bladder rather than a half empty one. Then when he emptied his body would learn that such a big change in volume meant it was empty - not still holding like it thought now. And the other thing was, once he finished he had to squeeze his cock from top to bottom, shake, flush AND WALK AWAY. Not to stand there. Even if he thought he was leaking - which he never was it just felt that way. Then just to forget he went.

Apparently this all comes about from when we make an automatic process a manual one. Good thing we cant stop our hearts!!!!

Try that light for a while - took Pete a few weeks - but if your still having dramas...please get it checked out. Dont mess with the downstairs fun department!

 

[Riverrick]

I really like Tallguy's advice about bladder retraining.

Some other questions:
How many times do you have to get up at night to urinate? (None - normal bladder and prostate, Multiple - Urinary Retention, Prostatitis, Bladder infection)
Is your stream weak and sputtering? (Prostatitis)
Do you have pain when you urinate? (Bladder Infection)
Do you have pain when you ejaculate? (Prostatitis)
Is there blood in your semen? (Prostatitis)

Its time to get a good exam and talk about this with a doctor. At a minimum, you need your urine checked. Good luck!

 

[light]

Thanks dexyboi! I masturbate almost daily, except when I'm too busy.

tallguy, I didn't expect to get any help for this problem I thought as 'weird' but I'm really glad to hear that!! I'll definitely try the advice out and see how it goes after a few weeks. I completely understand your friend's predicament; sometimes friends actually wonder why I took so long at the toilet that it could be a little embarrassing.

Will definitely go to the urologist if I still have this prob.. at least I know what it's called now - 'nervous bladder'. Again, you don't know how thankful I am.

gaywill - yeah at first I thought it's in my head, but I guess it's somewhat similar.

Riverrick:

How many times do you have to get up at night to urinate? None at all!
Is your stream weak and sputtering? Nope
Do you have pain when you urinate? Nope
Do you have pain when you ejaculate? Nope
Is there blood in your semen? The horror, nope!

Guess my bladder's completely normal then.. only with a slight 'nervous' problem. :/

 

[3nipples]

Riverrick:

How many times do you have to get up at night to urinate? None at all!
Is your stream weak and sputtering? Nope
Do you have pain when you urinate? Nope
Do you have pain when you ejaculate? Nope
Is there blood in your semen? The horror, nope!

Guess my bladder's completely normal then.. only with a slight 'nervous' problem. :/

I think it was your prostrate Riverrick was aiming for. I agree with the advice to see an urologist. Don't wait to see if it goes away by itself.

 

[jockboy01]

Hey Light,

The advice so far is good. I would say to still see a urologist as this really isn't a solid diagnosis (and nervous bladder is not really the medical term for it, so the urologist may look at you a bit funny if you tell him that haha). Bladder training may indeed be all you need. But I would get evaluated properly before thinking you already know the answer.

 

[light]

Thanks a lot! I guess I'll probably try seeing a urologist, although I'm not too keen on the idea since I have a slight phobia of going to hospitals, having being admitted for surgery before.

 

[light]

Alright, so I went to my doc instead since I didn't have much time to go to the hospital to look for a urologist. The doctor's a woman probably in her 50s, and in my opinion, very good and knowledgeable.

I was quite apprehensive in telling her my above two problems, most of all, the masturbation problem I was having (feeling the urge to urinate while jacking off). But I did it anyway since holding back any information probably wouldn't help her analysing my problem.

Suffice to say, in the end after discussing masturbation and pornography with her asking how often I do it (you don't know how awfully embarrassing it is to be talking about this to a woman, in her 50s, no less; I'd probably would have less qualms discussing this with a male doctor). In the end, her diagnosis was I masturbated too much (almost daily) and advised that I keep my pornography locked away.

At this point, I don't know whether to feel guilty for masturbating, since I thought it was normal. She did ask whether I had any guilt feeling after I masturbated, to which I said no. She said it's normal to masturbate (duh), probably 2-3 times a week, but to do this quite often, especially since I do look at porno quite a lot, is considered 'not normal'.

She said I probably strained my bladder or something of that sort by masturbating that often, since I only jack off in increasing frequency this year, and my problem, incidentally enough, started off few months back.

I honestly don't know where else to ask for opinions, but I'd just like to know what do you guys think about this? It's quite a harrowing experience - maybe it's my mistake to be going to a female doc although I have nothing against them.

 

[Riverrick]

Well.......I don't think she really understands what normal is for a young guy like you. Once a day seems to be fairly restrained on your part compared to some of the guys around here.

But I can see where she was going with this. Your symptoms do sound like they could be coming from the prostate which does contract during orgasm. So if its contracting too often could it be responsible for your symptoms? I guess, maybe.

Test it out. Reduce your frequency for a while and see if it makes a difference. But don't feel guilty or abnormal for jacking off once a day. I think you are quite normal.

 

[light]

Thanks Riverrick. I'll be abstaining from masturbating for a while (so far so good, I've abstained for 3 days, took a lot of effort not to) and see if it helps (maybe just 2-3 times a week as she suggested).

But Adidasluvr, that still doesn't quite explain why I had the urge to urinate while masturbating. It's more of an annoyance than anything else, and I'm just a little worried and probably will be embarrassed by the time it comes to sex.

 

[3nipples]

You already knew that the urologist was the expert for your problem but instead you went to a general practitioner because it was more convenient.

Now you're saying that you honestly don't know where else to ask for opinions.

GO TO A UROLOGIST.

 

[jockboy01]

I agree with the above... she may be good at a lot of stuff.... but once a day is not overdoing it by any means. You can try cutting back but I really doubt that is the problem.

If it doesn't work, I'd go to a urologist. That is their field and they'll be able to find the answer.

 

[hermanding]

I gotta say this about normal/not normal (whatever the word is en english) masturbation frequencies -
WHENEVER you feel like you want to jack off, if you have the opportunity, DO IT. You're not harming a thing in your body by jacking your dick - if you have no obstruction. Doing it releases physical, mental, psychologic tension - and makes you feel SOOOO good. Guys think about sex a LOT. I'm 65 and sex ties into many things - i see a guy on the street, and i probably have 50 different sexual thoughts about him.
If it feels good, give yourself a workout. You're not hurting anyone. ding