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Well I did it

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Croft85

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I Know what I said in the past about hook ups. But today I did it. I am no longer a virgin
I met a guy on POF and he came to my place. Sex is not what I expected either is kissing. Don't get me wrong I had fun. But its not that I thought it would be. I was the top and I when I entered him I couldn't even tell I was in. I fucked him for a while then came on his face. I am worried a about disease he said he's clean and I used a condom but we use baby oil and Vaseline as lube. I just realized it breaks up the condom but we were just in the moment.. to be honest I really don't see why people love sex So much
I thought I would feel different. I don't know what to feel or how to feel
 
Not going to lie I feel worried and a guilty

I just know I would feel this way
 
Hi Croft, I tried to break condoms with oil several times but they never did so you don't have to worry about that. As a top your risk is lower. If you're cut risk is sixty percent lower. If it were non latex condoms they are ten times stronger compared to latex condoms & oil doesn't affect non latex condoms. You're safe, if you doubt you can get tested.
 
Well thank you that makes me full a lot better. I've been think and to be honest I am not sure if I even penetrated him it wasn't tight or anything and it just slipped in. Even in porn you can see dicks dont just slip in. Plus when he was sucking me off I could really feel anything.
 
Hi again Croft, you're welcome. There's lots of guys who don't enjoy their first time, so no problem at all. You'll discover what things you like & probably will enjoy sex more. Have fun.
 
When you mentioned that you really couldn't feel anything when you penetrated him, my first thought was that either you have a pretty small cock or his asshole is gaping and overused. Then you mentioned you really didn't feel anything from the blowjob and I wonder maybe your cock is so used to your own hand, anything else is disappointing. Some guys who choke their dicks to death when they jack off have trained their dicks to that degree of tightness that you might never get from an ass or a mouth. Which is it?
 
My dick is normal size. But yeah I jack off every day. I first time I thought I put it in. But Turns out I was just rubbing against him so that's what I think happened the second time. Because it wasn't tight and no resistance
 
A few thoughts:
  • If you're worried about HIV, the things you described are low risk.
  • However, everyone who is sexually active should be tested for STDs. There are plenty of people walking around with chlamydia and gonorrhea. Go get tested and get tested on a regular basis if you continue to be sexually active.
  • If you never got the HPV vaccine, get it. Ditto for hepatitis vaccine.
  • If there's a lesson learned, it's "always be prepared". Go to the store and buy water-based lube so that you're prepared next time.
 
The feeling of topping is much like the taste of water; you sometimes wonder if it's there at all, but it is quite distinct. You'll learn this with more practice.
 
Well I talked to the guy turns out we didn't really have sex. I have got in him I only rubbding against his ass. He didn't tell me at first because he didn't want to hurt my feelings.
 
^ You had sex alright. you just didn't achieve penetration.

There's nothing for it. You'll have to try again!
 
Croft85 said:
Well I talked to the guy turns out we didn't really have sex. I have got in him I only rubbding against his ass. He didn't tell me at first because he didn't want to hurt my feelings.
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For an old guy I've only been a top a half dozen times. But how do you not know when your dick is in a hole? You should be able to see that it is in the hole. If someone is sitting on your dick, then the other person would/could guide your dick in. Was it in a dark room?

Also might I suggest you proof read before you post? In almost each of your posts in this thread you made mistakes/typos that completely change the meaning of what (to me) I think you are trying to explain. For instance, you used "could" instead of couldn't. Also you used "know" instead of knew (which kinda meant the same thing in your sentence. And in the quoted text in this post, I'm not sure but did you mean to say, "I have NOT got in him"?? Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining about someone making a typo, because I'm glad you are sharing your concerns in the various threads you start, but I want to make sure I'm understanding what you are trying to explain.
 
Well it didn't help that we broth had been drinking. And it was dark. And sorry about the typeos. But now the guy stop talking to me. He messaged me a couple to days a ago asking if we can get together again. I messaged him back but he never responded.
 
What was wrong with your date that he couldn't tell you that you weren't in his butt? Amateurs.
 
sixthson said:
What was wrong with your date that he couldn't tell you that you weren't in his butt? Amateurs.
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I don't know that it really matters, when one considers that he hadn't really even kissed a guy before.

The major hurdles here were a) finding a guy, b) getting naked with the guy and c) getting any of his body parts interacting with some body interacting with a body part of a guy.

The kissing was a nice bonus.

Virgin no more. Now on to the next obstacle.
 
Croft85 said:
How that guy is being an ass he won't talk to me
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Why should he talk to you? You aren't dating. Hookups are by nature one off kind of events. Not every guy is interested in educating a virgin.
 
TX-Beau said:
Why should he talk to you? You aren't dating. Hookups are by nature one off kind of events. Not every guy is interested in educating a virgin.
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But that's just it he was. He asked me if I would be interested in meeting up once a week I told him yes. Then he stop talking to me
 
Croft85 said:
But that's just it he was. He asked me if I would be interested in meeting up once a week I told him yes. Then he stop talking to me
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You're being ghosted.

He's not the only guy in the world. Next!
 
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