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Well, I've extended the olive branch...

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Well if he's still friends with you there maybe there's hope. If he were angry, he'd probably try to delete every trace of you in his life
 
I can't say as I know the entire story here, but do tread very carefully here. Many people do change over time. A once-favorite restaurant that's now "under new management" shouldn't remain a favorite just because "it used to be really good". That was then, this is now. Your posts made it seem he was quite toxic, so don't allow yourself to fall under his sway again.

Lex
 
I don't know why you have to continue your relationship with someone who made your life a misery. Can you not make a clean break of it? Or do you have some obsession about him that keeps you hanging on? Whatever the answer, if he hurt you in the past, he can do it again. Move on, is the best advice I can offer you.
 
G-Lexington said:
I can't say as I know the entire story here, but do tread very carefully here. Many people do change over time. A once-favorite restaurant that's now "under new management" shouldn't remain a favorite just because "it used to be really good". That was then, this is now. Your posts made it seem he was quite toxic, so don't allow yourself to fall under his sway again.

Lex
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What he said.




Seriously, be careful.
 
Take it easy buddy am just catching up with your posts and the other guy,s
seem right the guy was so nasty to you .
While i am here thanx for your message on one of your posts i was worried
about you then you tell me what you consumed in a 4 hr period i almost fell
off my fucking chair .
Your tolerance must be astronomical but please be carefull if you want a private
chat then please pm me anytime , take care. (*8*)
 
It sounds to me like he was your 'bad' friend... the instigator. The trouble maker. The "FUN" one... That phase of your life was fine, for a while, for it's time... but it's time to grow up, be responsible, and get NEW friends that are also responsible, caring, and look out for YOUR best interest - and not just their own.

I've had friends like him... the "Fun/bad" ones... and it gets old. It's time to move forward, and not get stuck in the past, and old bad habits.

Your journey with him thus far was fun, but at the fork in the road, it's time to part ways and keep looking forward to where else the journey takes you, not where you've already been.

:)
 
I think I know how you're feeling Arecibo, as I felt the same way recently, it did not turn out well for me.

My 'friends' rejected me when I came out, but I still missed them. I still loved them as friends even though they no longer reciprocated. I was feeling incredibly vulnerable and lonely one night, I thought about all of the fun times we had together over the past 7+ years, and decided to call one of them to see what they were doing that night. I just needed to show them that I was still the same person, I needed them to know that there was no reason to reject me, that we could still be friends ---- HORRIBLE idea. Absolutely fucking horrible, the conversation went something like this...

My friend: Hello?

Me: Hey man, it's Andy, what's up?

My friend: Umm, not a lot, I'm just with x, x and x

My friend in the background (speaking to my friend I was on the phone with): Who's that you're talking to?

My friend (speaking to my other friend): It's Andy

My friend in the background: Oh...Fuck that faggot.

*Cue laughter from 3 people*

***I hang up feeling like a worthless piece of shit***


People change, and it's not always for the better. Sometimes, despite how much it hurts, we just have to let people go, or let them let us go. Cherish the memories you have with him, but tread very, very carefully with this. Not a lot of time has passed and there could still be a lot of resentment on his behalf. Just be careful not to let memories of the past cloud your judgment.

(*8*)
 
Anders123.
There were not friends buddy , they are ASSHOLES you know that you
deserve better than that . (*8*)
 
A few months back there was a misunderstanding with a friend - you would have thought after several years of friendship, a talk to clarify matters would have been afforded before conclusions were drawn but no - completely cut off. I texted and emailed, no response so I moved.

Sad to say, but sometimes you have to. You extend the olive branch and that's all you can do. If it's not accepted, it's not accepted.
 
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