went back to "straight" friends house after a night out and this happened?

[gayjohnd]

He came around lastnight. nothing! no talking about sex, men, women, boobs balls nothing. just chatting :-(

Were you drinking? and did you both have work this morning?
Could you not have started talking about sex etc?

 

[pandh200]

Yeah we were both drinking. the opportunity just didnt seem to come up :-( maybe it was good, last week taking clothes off, last night being normal, maybe next week

 

[gayjohnd]

Yeah we were both drinking. the opportunity just didnt seem to come up :-( maybe it was good, last week taking clothes off, last night being normal, maybe next week

If it looks like he's not going to start anything you need to. Either by talking about sex, the last porn you jerked off to, how you think you're getting on at the gym, your favourite underwear and maybe even show him (possibly scraping the end of the barrel with that one but maybe worth a try). Anything that could lead to trousers coming off. Even jokingly slap his ass or grab his balls when he's getting up to get another drink.

God dammit, where do you live? Would even be tempted fly to where you are to get something started between you two

 

[pandh200]

True. i dont think its going to happen :-(

 

[gayjohnd]

True. i dont think its going to happen :-(

It will happen but you need create the situation for it to happen. If it looks like he's not going to start anything you have to start it by talking about or do something that could lead to it and see his reaction.

Your biggest problem is probably fear but you have to get round that. You've already had his dick in your hand, dry humping each other, he's showed you his ass, felt each others thighs and he asked to see your ass. You just have to remind yourself about everything he's done and there's nothing to be afraid of.

You could even have told him about your darts friend showing you photos of his gf, his cock and a video of him wanking!

 

[pandh200]

That's true. I suppose we've left it so long were both afraid to make the first move. Yeah I'll tell him and gauge his reaction. If he starts asking me about this guys cock I'll have an idea he is curious and we are game on. Also I'll start talking about the gym and how I want to tone up etc and if he's interested coming with me. Could be a good way of comparing legs etc then I can go for an ass squeeze, basically what I should have done last time what do you think? I'm not sure about porn I'm trying to engineer another situation

 

[JackPorn]

he kept showing me his ass and getting one testicle out of his pants. then later on he started grinding on me and dry humping me from behind. i played along and grinded back for a laugh. next time he got his bum out i slapped him. was just a laugh at this point. he has often asked me for a blowjob but i laugh it off. then later he started talking about penises again and fully got the whole lot out and rubbed it against my hand trying to get me hold it and making sexual groans. he was semi erect. i laughed him off again and finished my drink and went home. what do you make of his behaviour?

His or your behaviour?
What more do you want him to do before you make a move?
Laughing him off and doing nothing yourself.. And still you expect something to happen?

He came around lastnight. nothing! no talking about sex, men, women, boobs balls nothing. just chatting :-(

Did you expect him to risk another chance of being laughed off?
He did already did his turn, trying to get you hold his naked cock.. Still you keep waiting for something to happen..

 

[ElmosToe]

Wow dude.

I saw this brick wall once in a parking lot, it had more of a clue than you.


Here is what I would do if the dull conversation isn't yielding any "clues" of future fuckery within the next 10 minutes of hang time.
Joking, say, "hey we should chill with netflix sometime"

See if he picks up on the clue and if he smiles and you see that spark in his eye, come back with, "like, now."
And then smile back, making a stroking motion with your hand.

Just blurt out, "fuck dude, I'm so horny, I need porn."


If you don't have his dick in your hand at that point and you haven't swallowed his load, you people are helpless. All because of society's pre-conceived notions of the term 'gay' and your fears of what OTHERS think of you. Yet those "others" aren't hanging out with you, nor are they in your pants. So tell your fucked up, unfounded ridiculous fears to go fuck themselves and have some fun dammit!

 

[JackPorn]

The friend showed and offered him his semi-erect cock. And got laughed off. Very embarassing.
This has already gone past talking. I guess Pandh doesn't dare to get naked himself.
Proposing to watch Netflix? What for? To get horny and laughed off again? If I was the friend, I would be suspicious.
If the friend has already shown his cock, why doesn't Pandh just do the same. Afraid of being embarrassed, himself?

Playing safe while laughing off the other taking the risks..
If I were the friend I'd look for another, nicer guy to play with. An honest friend who doesn't laugh me off.

 

[MrRochesterNY]

I stumbled on this thread and read it through to the end, waiting for the big sex payoff. But there never was one! If this isn't porn fiction, all the guys here with their tongues hanging out panting and their stiff cocks dripping precum need relief.

So cook up a nice climax and post the story here. If the whole thing is fiction, move it to the Gay Stories forum.

 

[MrRochesterNY]

I stumbled on this thread and read it through to the end, waiting for the big sex payoff. But there never was one! If this isn't porn fiction, all the guys here with their tongues hanging out panting and their stiff cocks dripping precum need relief.

So cook up a nice climax and post the story here. If the whole thing is fiction, move it to the Gay Stories forum.

 

[seven2go]

he kept showing me his ass and getting one testicle out of his pants. then later on he started grinding on me and dry humping me from behind. i played along and grinded back for a laugh. next time he got his bum out i slapped him. was just a laugh at this point. he has often asked me for a blowjob but i laugh it off. then later he started talking about penises again and fully got the whole lot out and rubbed it against my hand trying to get me hold it..............what do you make of his behaviour?

Are you THE most dense person on the planet?.......

 

[gayjohnd]

any updates?

 

[pandh200]

havent seen him for a while. got a text thursday asking me what i was doing. said to come round to mine. we had a few beers chatted usual stuff, went for a cig. As usual he had one of his hands down his pants while he was talking to me. I said it must be a fantastic place down there you never leave it alone. he then said you can put your hands down if you want. i said fuck it yeah why not and went straight in. there was like an awkward few seconds and i started rubbing his balls. i laughed and said how long until you get a hard on, he was now in a good semi. hes circumcised. i asked him how he wanked as i'm not cut. he said he does a lot of his at the base of the head. at this point i'm still fondling him. by now hes hard and so am i. i said lets see it with a hard on and he said only if he could see mine. he grabbed it and started to wank me a little and i did to him back. then he said he needed to go but we would pick up from there next time. good sign, finally something happened, small steps

 

[mbynpm]

Outstanding. You both have been very interested and afraid to make the move. This is a great start. Don't worry about labels, you are what you are without a need for a label. Keep us posted. Hand jobs are a great place to start, also if he has his shirt off play with his nipple, it certainly will progress to more.

 

[knockmeupbaby1983]

I wish I had a guy do that to me, I would have been on me knees with his hard cock in my mouth.

So would I! When I was younger I met a very yummy super cute straight military guy. I invited him to my hotel room... I offered the alcohol... And then when we were both behind closed doors he took me up on my offer to help him out... I was extremely inexperienced... He ended up kind of sorta knocking me up with his yummy baby juice.

My advice.... You never know until you take him up on his offer to let you play with him. I love bi & straight boy's... So you probably ended up passing on a very yummy offer.

 

[knockmeupbaby1983]

havent seen him for a while. got a text thursday asking me what i was doing. said to come round to mine. we had a few beers chatted usual stuff, went for a cig. As usual he had one of his hands down his pants while he was talking to me. I said it must be a fantastic place down there you never leave it alone. he then said you can put your hands down if you want. i said fuck it yeah why not and went straight in. there was like an awkward few seconds and i started rubbing his balls. i laughed and said how long until you get a hard on, he was now in a good semi. hes circumcised. i asked him how he wanked as i'm not cut. he said he does a lot of his at the base of the head. at this point i'm still fondling him. by now hes hard and so am i. i said lets see it with a hard on and he said only if he could see mine. he grabbed it and started to wank me a little and i did to him back. then he said he needed to go but we would pick up from there next time. good sign, finally something happened, small steps

It sounds like you have an extremely yummy experience in your future! Hehe Congratulations buddy

 

[gayjohnd]

havent seen him for a while. got a text thursday asking me what i was doing. said to come round to mine. we had a few beers chatted usual stuff, went for a cig. As usual he had one of his hands down his pants while he was talking to me. I said it must be a fantastic place down there you never leave it alone. he then said you can put your hands down if you want. i said fuck it yeah why not and went straight in. there was like an awkward few seconds and i started rubbing his balls. i laughed and said how long until you get a hard on, he was now in a good semi. hes circumcised. i asked him how he wanked as i'm not cut. he said he does a lot of his at the base of the head. at this point i'm still fondling him. by now hes hard and so am i. i said lets see it with a hard on and he said only if he could see mine. he grabbed it and started to wank me a little and i did to him back. then he said he needed to go but we would pick up from there next time. good sign, finally something happened, small steps

When I read the bit about his hands down his pants I was thinking "please god tell me you said or did something and don't let this moment pass"

Thank god! About time! Congrats!

See, nothing to worry about. You just have to take the right moments and keep us updated with what happens next

 

[ElmosToe]

Yay, panda express finally delivers!

 

[Caution]

woooooooo actions!!!