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People with high self esteem don't cry themselves to sleep.
Sounds like you were a bit of a snob, actually. Not really helping with the bullying.
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Were you bullied at school?
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People with high self esteem don't cry themselves to sleep.
Sounds like you were a bit of a snob, actually. Not really helping with the bullying.
I don't know what u are going threw, but i hope u will forgive them for what they have done and move on. If u don't, u will live in misery for the rest of your life and i don't think u want that.
hotdog1846
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Oh gawd ... yep, I was bullied.
It was limited to a particular situation in junior high, though. Virtually all the bullies in my grade of 400 rode my bus. It was a band of about 10 boys and 3 or 4 girls, and they ganged up on just about everybody. I was always coming home with bruises, ripped clothes, what have you. It wasn't just me, it was everybody, but particularly the smart boys (of which I was one). I was the smallest by far, so I got the worst of it.
That bus had a reputation across the whole school for being a bad bus.
In ninth grade, I started riding a different bus home. It meant I had to walk almost a mile from the bus stop to home, but it was well worth it. I had a lot of friends on that bus and we had so much fun. It made such a huge difference in my school experience.
Of the bullies on my bus, several ended up in prison, a few grew out of it (and later came to me for help and advice in college), one is the daughter of a Colorado congressman (she's still a bitch), and the rest are still mean people ... one of whom became a born-again Evangelical Christian a few years ago. And his little brother's gay. He's still mean -- just picked a mean form of religion when he became religious.
It was limited to a particular situation in junior high, though. Virtually all the bullies in my grade of 400 rode my bus. It was a band of about 10 boys and 3 or 4 girls, and they ganged up on just about everybody. I was always coming home with bruises, ripped clothes, what have you. It wasn't just me, it was everybody, but particularly the smart boys (of which I was one). I was the smallest by far, so I got the worst of it.
That bus had a reputation across the whole school for being a bad bus.
In ninth grade, I started riding a different bus home. It meant I had to walk almost a mile from the bus stop to home, but it was well worth it. I had a lot of friends on that bus and we had so much fun. It made such a huge difference in my school experience.
Of the bullies on my bus, several ended up in prison, a few grew out of it (and later came to me for help and advice in college), one is the daughter of a Colorado congressman (she's still a bitch), and the rest are still mean people ... one of whom became a born-again Evangelical Christian a few years ago. And his little brother's gay. He's still mean -- just picked a mean form of religion when he became religious.
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I wasn't bullied. Except there was this annoying incident where this boy from two grades lower than I am, and much smaller might I add, started following me around and speaking gibberish to me. (English is not my native language). That was really annoying and frustrating. Mainly because I didn't want someone to follow me around, yelling gibberish at me. I also didn't know what to do to make him stop. I mean i didn't want to hit him. Eventually, he stopped. Funny thing is i saw that kid being bullied by a couple of his classmates. Now that I look back, i think the whole incident was crazy. There was obviously something wrong with that kid. Oh, i saw him outside of school once, and he ran. He probably thought i would hit him or something.
As for having good time at school, i doubt it. I am emotionally cold, very inquisitive, and highly imaginative. I didn't have friends, because i wasn't interested in making small talk, or big talk with awkward teens who care about trivial shit. I was in my own world, and school was a mundane exercise in "things you have to do in life."
As for having good time at school, i doubt it. I am emotionally cold, very inquisitive, and highly imaginative. I didn't have friends, because i wasn't interested in making small talk, or big talk with awkward teens who care about trivial shit. I was in my own world, and school was a mundane exercise in "things you have to do in life."
Oh gawd ... yep, I was bullied.
It was limited to a particular situation in junior high, though. Virtually all the bullies in my grade of 400 rode my bus. It was a band of about 10 boys and 3 or 4 girls, and they ganged up on just about everybody. I was always coming home with bruises, ripped clothes, what have you. It wasn't just me, it was everybody, but particularly the smart boys (of which I was one). I was the smallest by far, so I got the worst of it.
That bus had a reputation across the whole school for being a bad bus.
In ninth grade, I started riding a different bus home. It meant I had to walk almost a mile from the bus stop to home, but it was well worth it. I had a lot of friends on that bus and we had so much fun. It made such a huge difference in my school experience.
Of the bullies on my bus, several ended up in prison, a few grew out of it (and later came to me for help and advice in college), one is the daughter of a Colorado congressman (she's still a bitch), and the rest are still mean people ... one of whom became a born-again Evangelical Christian a few years ago. And his little brother's gay. He's still mean -- just picked a mean form of religion when he became religious.
Was George Bush a bully? (the current bush)
I was never bullied... I got teased a couple times, but I was in-with the popular crowd. My friends squashed the few ignorant comments that were thrown at me. I even made friends with one of the people who was making fun of my homosexuality.
Being bullied hurts a lot more when you let it get to you, or you don't have a group of friends that supports and loves you for who you are.
Being bullied hurts a lot more when you let it get to you, or you don't have a group of friends that supports and loves you for who you are.
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Most years, yes.
I could say it was my fault ... but what I really do is look at it from all sides.
That's what I do with most stuff.
That takes a while.
It was all a waste of something better, for sure; the mean stuff.
I could say it was my fault ... but what I really do is look at it from all sides.
That's what I do with most stuff.
That takes a while.
It was all a waste of something better, for sure; the mean stuff.
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I was called FAG and assorted other names. Usually just ignored it.
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I will just say simply "yes"
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I was teased/bullied every single day at school from elementary until I graduated from High School (even AT graduation)
At the time I didnt understand that I was gay, but someone asked me once why people pick on me so much and friend of mine said "it's because he's short"
That had NEVER crossed my mind. It was so stupid and simple, but made perfect sense.
I've never had a problem with my height (i'm 5'4"), so I just assumed that people didn't like me (even though i had good friends).
I'm 'over it' now
At the time I didnt understand that I was gay, but someone asked me once why people pick on me so much and friend of mine said "it's because he's short"
That had NEVER crossed my mind. It was so stupid and simple, but made perfect sense.
I've never had a problem with my height (i'm 5'4"), so I just assumed that people didn't like me (even though i had good friends).
I'm 'over it' now
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I was bullied in middle school....but the tables turned in High school... I was the one making fun of people. I was the King Of Mean at my high school. I was the boy version of Rachel McAdams character in mean girls. I loved high school though...didn't like to miss a day.
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Only if they had a death wish. I took no shit then, and I take none now. I do not believe that all kids who are bullied are either gay or having sexual identity issues.
I did not bully others, but anyone who tried certainly probably wished they had never started anything. At 5' 6", I was athletic and had great pugilistic skills. Although I did not start fights, then again, I never lost many either.
I haven't read the over 126 posts here, I know there are a lot of sad and pathetic stories, and if I have a chance to mentor a young man, it is to be prepared to give better than you will ever get, and if it comes to sex, then that too.
Yet I know the tragedies that happen, and I took Shepherd because of the taking of Matthew Shepard's life in Wyoming. The worthless pieces of shit who did it had best hope they never meet me in a dark alley.
The fact this thread was posted to often say something, and perhaps we all need to learn that lesson and learn it well.
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I did not bully others, but anyone who tried certainly probably wished they had never started anything. At 5' 6", I was athletic and had great pugilistic skills. Although I did not start fights, then again, I never lost many either.
I haven't read the over 126 posts here, I know there are a lot of sad and pathetic stories, and if I have a chance to mentor a young man, it is to be prepared to give better than you will ever get, and if it comes to sex, then that too.
Yet I know the tragedies that happen, and I took Shepherd because of the taking of Matthew Shepard's life in Wyoming. The worthless pieces of shit who did it had best hope they never meet me in a dark alley.
The fact this thread was posted to often say something, and perhaps we all need to learn that lesson and learn it well.
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