So about 2 years ago I met this guy. He was nice looking and seemed very nice. We chatted a while and long story short ended up hooking up the first night we met. The sex was incredible I must say. I was at his place for about 3 hours the first night we met and we were probably in bed for 2 of those hours.
I liked him okay but was very upfront with him that I was not looking for a relationship with him but I did acknowledge that we had really good bedroom chemistry and that I would definitely be interested in hooking up again sometime. He seemed to understand and expressed a similar sentiment to me. So I finally left after we talked the last hour I was there.
Over the next week, we exchanged a few e-mails and decided to hookup the next weekend. I live 45 minutes from the guy and ended up driving up and having sex with him again. It was as equally enjoyable as the first time we had sex. Like before, after the sex we talked for a while and I left.
We continued exchanging e-mails off and on and he wanted me to come up the next weekend. I had other plans and could not go. So he asked about the weekend after that. I tried to make it happen but something came up and again I couldn't make it. I received another invitation from him for the 3rd straight weekend. I wanted to go but had some tentative plans. I told him that I would try my best to make it.
Well apparently, that wasn't good enough for him. He sent me the most scathing, nasty e-mail I've ever read. Accused me of lying to him and called me all kinds of nasty names. Told me he was done with me. I was absolutely shocked when I read it. I felt terrible that he thought I was lying to him or trying to hurt him. It was then that I realized he liked me more than just physically and wanted an emotional connection with me.
I replied and apologized if I hadn't been clear about not wanting anything other than a physical connection with him at the present time, (even though I was very upfront about it the first night we met). Knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have given him an apology if I could go back in time. He accepted the apology and wanted to get together again. I told him that considering all the hateful things he said to me I would have to decline but that he was welcome to e-mail me occasionally.
So time goes by and I'd hear from him every once in a while and I would always reply very nicely. Over time, he explained to me that he had been going through some health issues that were making him a bit crazy and he apologized for sending me that hateful e-mail. Blamed it on some medication he was on or something like that. Mind you that I'm still a bit cautious.
More time goes by and the occasional e-mails started becoming sexual in nature. I started reminiscing about the hot sex we had. He invited me over and said that he realized that I was not interested in him emotionally and that we could just have sex. I refused several times and he kept reassuring me that he was cool with a NSA hookup from time to time.
Finally, after a year and a half, I was exceptionally horny one night and I caved in. Drove to his place. We chatted for a few brief moments. I again emphasized that I was not looking for anything more than sex. He told me he was totally okay with that. So, we had sex. It was amazing sex! Afterwards, we talked a bit and I went home.
The occasional e-mails still occurred and about 6 weeks later, I went back and once again we had amazing sex. Keep in mind that the 4 times we had sex are the only times I ever saw him face to face. We never talked on the phone. I never gave him my number, address or even last name. To me, he was just someone that I thoroughly enjoyed having sex with. And I liked him as an acquaintance and enjoyed chatting with him while I was there.
Trying to wrap this up here.....so he started e-mailing me more frequently and wanting me to come over for sex. Well, I'm 45 minutes away and honestly it wasn't the most convenient situation. I had to decline a few times. He seemed fine. So one day I had to be in his area and I e-mailed him and asked if he wanted to hookup. He replied that he did and we arranged the time.
He lives in a condo and I drove up and saw his car in the parking lot. I went inside and up to his condo and rang the bell and knocked on the door. No answer. I thought he might be in the shower so I stood there for about 10 minutes waiting and ringing the doorbell. Still no answer. I finally gave up and came downstairs and noticed that his car was gone. Now I'm thinking, "WTF?!".
I left and e-mailed him and got a reply about 30 minutes later. He said, "Oh, I had to go get something to eat and go to the mall. Sorry". I realized that he was back to his former self and was playing games with me. That was it for me. I decided I would just have no more contact with him.
That was before Christmas. I didn't hear from him anymore until Christmas Eve. He sent me an e-mail wishing me a Merry Christmas. I didn't reply. I don't hear anymore from him until the end of January. Once again, I get an absolutely scathing e-mail from him. This one was worse than the first one 2 years earlier. He said the most evil hateful things to me that anyone has ever said to me. When I read his e-mail, it really hurt my feelings. I had never had anyone hate me as much as this guy seemed to hate me. He practically wished for my death.
It really shook me and for 5 days I contemplated replying or not. I was so puzzled by his e-mail because he accused me of things that I had no clue what he was talking about. He kept saying I lied to him about numerous things, which I didn't, and that I mistreated him, again which I didn't.
I finally decided to reply and I told him how upset I was by his e-mail and forbade him to ever send me such nasty, hateful shit again. Told him I didn't know what he was accusing me of but that it didn't really matter because we would never be together again and that I would never speak to or e-mail him again.
That's been almost 2 months ago and whenever I think about it, I am still just appalled at his words to me. He obviously has a screw loose, to put it lightly. I am beyond thankful that I never shared my last name or phone number with him. I told him that he needed to get some help for his anger and that I wasn't the source of his pain. Wished him well and told him good riddance. He replied telling me that I should have treated him more decently. I thought, "I let you use my body to pleasure yourself. How much more decent do you want me to treat you?".
I blocked his e-mail and just hope that I never run into him anywhere. Really scared me though that someone could be so volatile and potentially dangerous to me. Reading his horrible words to me made me think that he was capable of hurting me. I truly hope I never see or hear from him for the rest of my life. The guy is a total freak! Sorry this was so long. Just had to get it out of my system.
I liked him okay but was very upfront with him that I was not looking for a relationship with him but I did acknowledge that we had really good bedroom chemistry and that I would definitely be interested in hooking up again sometime. He seemed to understand and expressed a similar sentiment to me. So I finally left after we talked the last hour I was there.
Over the next week, we exchanged a few e-mails and decided to hookup the next weekend. I live 45 minutes from the guy and ended up driving up and having sex with him again. It was as equally enjoyable as the first time we had sex. Like before, after the sex we talked for a while and I left.
We continued exchanging e-mails off and on and he wanted me to come up the next weekend. I had other plans and could not go. So he asked about the weekend after that. I tried to make it happen but something came up and again I couldn't make it. I received another invitation from him for the 3rd straight weekend. I wanted to go but had some tentative plans. I told him that I would try my best to make it.
Well apparently, that wasn't good enough for him. He sent me the most scathing, nasty e-mail I've ever read. Accused me of lying to him and called me all kinds of nasty names. Told me he was done with me. I was absolutely shocked when I read it. I felt terrible that he thought I was lying to him or trying to hurt him. It was then that I realized he liked me more than just physically and wanted an emotional connection with me.
I replied and apologized if I hadn't been clear about not wanting anything other than a physical connection with him at the present time, (even though I was very upfront about it the first night we met). Knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have given him an apology if I could go back in time. He accepted the apology and wanted to get together again. I told him that considering all the hateful things he said to me I would have to decline but that he was welcome to e-mail me occasionally.
So time goes by and I'd hear from him every once in a while and I would always reply very nicely. Over time, he explained to me that he had been going through some health issues that were making him a bit crazy and he apologized for sending me that hateful e-mail. Blamed it on some medication he was on or something like that. Mind you that I'm still a bit cautious.
More time goes by and the occasional e-mails started becoming sexual in nature. I started reminiscing about the hot sex we had. He invited me over and said that he realized that I was not interested in him emotionally and that we could just have sex. I refused several times and he kept reassuring me that he was cool with a NSA hookup from time to time.
Finally, after a year and a half, I was exceptionally horny one night and I caved in. Drove to his place. We chatted for a few brief moments. I again emphasized that I was not looking for anything more than sex. He told me he was totally okay with that. So, we had sex. It was amazing sex! Afterwards, we talked a bit and I went home.
The occasional e-mails still occurred and about 6 weeks later, I went back and once again we had amazing sex. Keep in mind that the 4 times we had sex are the only times I ever saw him face to face. We never talked on the phone. I never gave him my number, address or even last name. To me, he was just someone that I thoroughly enjoyed having sex with. And I liked him as an acquaintance and enjoyed chatting with him while I was there.
Trying to wrap this up here.....so he started e-mailing me more frequently and wanting me to come over for sex. Well, I'm 45 minutes away and honestly it wasn't the most convenient situation. I had to decline a few times. He seemed fine. So one day I had to be in his area and I e-mailed him and asked if he wanted to hookup. He replied that he did and we arranged the time.
He lives in a condo and I drove up and saw his car in the parking lot. I went inside and up to his condo and rang the bell and knocked on the door. No answer. I thought he might be in the shower so I stood there for about 10 minutes waiting and ringing the doorbell. Still no answer. I finally gave up and came downstairs and noticed that his car was gone. Now I'm thinking, "WTF?!".
I left and e-mailed him and got a reply about 30 minutes later. He said, "Oh, I had to go get something to eat and go to the mall. Sorry". I realized that he was back to his former self and was playing games with me. That was it for me. I decided I would just have no more contact with him.
That was before Christmas. I didn't hear from him anymore until Christmas Eve. He sent me an e-mail wishing me a Merry Christmas. I didn't reply. I don't hear anymore from him until the end of January. Once again, I get an absolutely scathing e-mail from him. This one was worse than the first one 2 years earlier. He said the most evil hateful things to me that anyone has ever said to me. When I read his e-mail, it really hurt my feelings. I had never had anyone hate me as much as this guy seemed to hate me. He practically wished for my death.
It really shook me and for 5 days I contemplated replying or not. I was so puzzled by his e-mail because he accused me of things that I had no clue what he was talking about. He kept saying I lied to him about numerous things, which I didn't, and that I mistreated him, again which I didn't.
I finally decided to reply and I told him how upset I was by his e-mail and forbade him to ever send me such nasty, hateful shit again. Told him I didn't know what he was accusing me of but that it didn't really matter because we would never be together again and that I would never speak to or e-mail him again.
That's been almost 2 months ago and whenever I think about it, I am still just appalled at his words to me. He obviously has a screw loose, to put it lightly. I am beyond thankful that I never shared my last name or phone number with him. I told him that he needed to get some help for his anger and that I wasn't the source of his pain. Wished him well and told him good riddance. He replied telling me that I should have treated him more decently. I thought, "I let you use my body to pleasure yourself. How much more decent do you want me to treat you?".
I blocked his e-mail and just hope that I never run into him anywhere. Really scared me though that someone could be so volatile and potentially dangerous to me. Reading his horrible words to me made me think that he was capable of hurting me. I truly hope I never see or hear from him for the rest of my life. The guy is a total freak! Sorry this was so long. Just had to get it out of my system.