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Okay so im really unsure of my sexuality as of now...is there something as asexual? hahaha...well i've recently tried doing stuff for the first time with this guy...it didnt go so well. I couldnt seem to get fully hard, and when i did, i wasnt able to cum. Something about it didnt turn me on, and i wasnt feeling horny during it. So then i tried with a girl, had the opportunity have sex with her, but didnt feel comfortable with it. I couldnt fully get hard or turned on. then, again tonight i tried it with a guy, wasnt able to get really into it. I find some guys really hot, but the same with girls. Im a really confused individual haha. somebody please help #-o

I guess i should mention that every instence i was not sober (either drunk or high). ;)
 
Well, try it sober next time.

I'm gay, and a lot of times I could never get hard for another guy.

Mostly because he just wasn't my type.

Maybe you haven't met "your type" yet, whether male or female....
 
NineOfClubs said:
Well, try it sober next time.

I'm gay, and a lot of times I could never get hard for another guy.

Mostly because he just wasn't my type.

Maybe you haven't met "your type" yet, whether male or female....
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I kind of agree with you here. each time i tried hooking up, it was more for the experience then the attraction. It just sucks trying to wait for the right guy/girl....who actually wants to do stuff.
 
Yeah, it isn't about the experience as much as it's about the other person.

When you try it again, with someone you have a few feelings for, it might be different....
 
Being under the influence can certainly effect your ability to have sex. So next time, try it without being drunk or high.

Also, you may just need a different partner. If there's something I've learned, when it isn't working, it is usually for a reason. ;)
 
There is such a thing as asexual; it doesn't sound like you're it.
It does sound like you're either nervous, affected by intoxicants, or just not that into him/her. Any one of those can be remedied. The first and last will both be fixed if you find the right person and just enjoy the experience.
 
jerseyboy said:
I find some guys really hot, but the same with girls.
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youre bisexual, at least right now (i hear some peoples sexuality fluxuate, although i get the impression thats more common amongst women).

there seems to be such a thing as "asexual", but i wouldnt consider identifying as such unless youre really, really sure about it. what a wonderful thing you would be missing.

what do you get off on in your fantasies? take your fantasies seriously, maybe try analyzing them ("analyzing", not "critisizing", "judging", "controlling" or "surpressing"). you can find out a lot about your sexuality that way.

but know that not all fantasies "work" as well in reality. for example, i enjoy the thought of fucking someone much more than the physical sensation of actually doing it. on the oher hand, getting my feet licked doesnt show up in my fantasies at all, but actually having it done feels amazing.

experiment and find your way. stay safe. good luck!
 
yea like ronnie said you were probably just horny looking at gay porn which doesnt make you gay but if you are attracted to guys then youre gay
 
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