It amazes me how many gays in our community will attack Republicans on everything anti-gay they do while giving a pass to every Democrat's anti-gay crap. I think just because a person has a "D" after their name their ingorance should not be ignored. 
Let's see...
The "Clinton's" supported the DOMA where the vast majority of Democrats did as well in both the House and Senate.
Hillary Clinton said a few years ago on that she was "still evolving" on gay marriage.
Obama last year said he was against gay marriage too.
Al Gore, the big liberal, recently said he is coming around to gay marriage after decades of years of being anti-gay along with his congressional and senatorial beliefs of pro-gun, anti-abortion etc. 
The homophobic, I have never had a job in my life Jesse Jackson and the black community are the biggest group against gay marriage and legal protections yet they vote Democrat. 
Everyone seems to act like the R group is all bad and the D group is all good. I work with a lot of Republicans where I am completely out to all 120 people. And I will tell you this, many many many of those Republican's believe it is wrong to not allow gays to serve in the military, it is wrong to fire/not hire someone because they are gay, and many believe gays should have at least some type of partnership whatever one wants to call it. You see, I think it is important for gays to be in both parties so one party does not take a group of people for granted. We can shape, form, move the agenda of gay people forward for humanity. That is how you change opinions eventually. And trust me, I have had many neantherdals as I call them, warm up to me at work 

. In the end, they honestly do not care as long as you are a good person overall.
My dad told me a few years ago that "gays should be allowed to marry and be miserable just like heterosexuals." ha ha.
Anyhoo...
Anyone hoping for a true 3rd party candidate that isn't all wishy washy when it comes to the gay community??? A third party could help shape the other two party's agenda.